Happy Labor Day, Daddys!
Spankings are a Lotta Work.
|Maintenance Spankings for Labor Day|
Being a Daddy can be a lot of work. (Just look at this picture above.)
But how do you paddle a bottom this red and this sore and abrased in a city, when your neighbors are literally only feet from your Spanking chair?
Wh\en you live in a city, the biggest problem for Daddys and their adultboys is to have a place to soundly spank. It's rarely, if ever, convenient. But for whatever reason the neighbors in the flat next door hadn't moved in today, and the neighbors above didn't come home around the 5 p.m. hour, so...
|Paddled With the Folsom Wine Auction Paddle|
Usually I'm stuck suffering under the footsteps ("following in his father's footschtaaps") of my Frankenstein monster little girl neighbor above who is maybe on a good day 95 pounds. She stomps around and stomps around, and then gives me the worst looks when me and my Daddy are sitting on the steps upstairs watching the world go by afterwards.
Her boyfriend says nothing and is friendly as pie. But she is so bitter and heavy-footed. OK, I'm getting off track here.
|The Hairbrush & The Underpants Lines Youch!|
But I guess you know you have a great, great Daddy when you keep getting texts asking if I'm home yet. In spite of the fact that I want him to just walk in the door, it's great that he decides to only enter judiciously, not like he is The King here.
Well, he is The King here, but in the end, we're both grown men, so, we have to be careful about stomping on emotions that run much deeper than my desire for a Domestic Discipline relationship.
At any rate I'm feeling really lucky, as many of you know because Daddy and I are finding ways to make Domestic Discipline work even though we do not live together.
5 Steps to Take for Domestic Discipline Success
(For those who do not live together)
Step 1: Learn to get over your fear of making the neighbors uncomfortable. (Funny, but the neighbors upstairs do not make as much of a big stink about Spanking noises any more).
|Daddy Helping me get Ready for the Supermarket|
After my Spanking
Step 3: Expect that your voice may carry, scold knowing that voices carry.
Step 4: Deliver a sound Spanking, no matter the interruption, so you do not impede the growth of your DD relationship. The best thing to do is work through interruptions like texts and phone calls, and just call back people later.
Step 5: Apply Aftercare, This way if you have to apply The Paddle hard enough to bruise, you can still keep your boy's bottom in good shape.
I remember when I was about 25, a friend saying, "Oh my gawd, the neighbors—you know, those two hot guys on the 2nd floor?—well, I heard a hard slap the other day, and then one of them yelped like he'd been hit. And I heard the one who hit him say, 'Put that down. I told you not to pick up fragile things without permiession!'"
Looking back now, it wasn't abuse. It was Domestic Discipline play for a couple in the city. My buddy just didn't know, and heck, I didn't know, that adults did this with one another either.
|Daddy Getting Frustrated That the|
Damned Batman Belt is Hard to get on Correctly.
Anyways, lastly, the coolest thing ever happened:. There were no significant interruptions. At least not by locals folks seeing if I was home for a sip 'n' chat after work. Instead, Daddy pulled up my little underpants, snapped my elastic waistband, and told me to go get into shorts that we could go to the supermarket in. I pulled on some adult shorts. But I like to keep myself in as many boys clothes as possible, and underneath my shirt, my Batman belt wasn't fitting (Yay! That means I've lost a little weight in the middle!). And, so Daddy took the time to fix my belt, so it was snug.
I'm not sure what's more important when we engage in DD. Is the Spanking the important part, or the part that makes me feel as close to a real 10 year old boy as possible. Daddy fixing my belt, so we can go out and do stuff? Well, both are super great, but wow how cool is it to get to live as Daddy's little boy?
So, Happy Labor Day, Daddys and boys, spend the energy to keep those boys in line! A truly Domestic Discipline relationship can be had for the asking. The hard part is the asking....ask for what you really want.Don't assume your partner will just not be able to be your boy or your Daddy.
It's hard work initially, but then you can take it slow and steady. taking steps to achieve your version of what you think your dream might look like.