Monday, May 20, 2013

Keep This Page Bookmarked!

Some wonderful French company TPLF made this incredible video of a boy, Romeo, from a vaguely French mafioso family, who rebels and is punished for his relationship with Julien. It's an incredible ornate plot for a 90 minute full length feature film with spankings of every iteration possible throughout.

I'm thrilled to have found this lousy version on southspanking.com from Athro. My friend boyJonathan got me a DVD of it, but it's long out of print, so keep this page bookmarked. You aren't likely to see this again. The video player above provides rare footage from a DVD no longer in circulation and no longer able to be purchased.

 I do not know French at all. But this Daddy is such a fantastic spanker, I really don't need to know. These two also did a series of other videos I can barely keep out of my DVD player. One particularly good one involves a report card that the boy has to have Daddy sign. Once Papa sees the report card, spankings are dealt out with severity and constancy for a good 10 minutes.

I
 can tell you that the instrument Papa uses at the end on Romeo's bare bottom is called the martinet, and is a traditional French family spanking device. It's not an S&M thing, like I know I first thought when I saw this clip. Turns out French families bought these hand whips to whip their boys into obedience. I guess it worked, since French society and culture and food is so exceptional(!)

Jockspank has some great information about this terrific site. In his blogpost on TPLF, he says,

Another sorely missed studio, which was cut down not by piracy or by its customers, but by one of its own, was the uniquely Gallic TPLF (Le Clef) Studio. Allegedly bankrupted as a result of an employment claim against it by one of its actors, TPLF went out of business earlier this decade, and is still sorely missed by those amongst us who enjoy their spanking porn with a touch of class.
My Favorite TPLF actor, Romeo


TPLF Made Exceptional Domestic Discipline Videos
Entirely in French, They are in a League of Their own.
100% French language (which challenged some of us), but professional, well made and well acted, with skilled camera work and a delightfully French sense of humour, TPLF produced some memorable and enjoyable spanking videos, which are still treasured by those who were lucky enough to have bought copies. In terms of Quality TPLF was, in my view, second only to the outstanding Sting Pictures (and that is praise indeed).


Included in his blog are loads of images from other TPLF films that many of you will enjoy. It breaks my heart that after his opus "Romeo et Julien," TPLF had to fold.

His creative juices overflowed on that film and if he had another one in him, perhaps a take on "Les Miserables?" we'd all be a much better world for it!

If you know anything about the producers of these videos and where these guys ran off to after the lawsuit, let me know. I'd love to purchase original copies.  Trust me, you would love to own them too!

As 

Friday, May 17, 2013

Jake and Co Makes Boys Briefs!

What an incredibly familiar tableau…

— Boy

Here's to us boys who have our pants pulled down by our Daddys. 

It's Foto Friday Again!


<---------Time to Take Your Pants Down? Make Sure You're In Jake's Underpants.

The other day I found this foto on aspankedboy's tumblr page.So fun for me to see my name "Jake's" around the underpants waistband of the featured boy who is having his jeans unbuckled for a spanking on his briefs covered bottom.

I'll tell you a secret: I'm one of those boys who refuses to pull down his own pants. If a Daddy expects to spank my bottom in my underpants or bare, he's gonna have to pull 'em down himself.

In fact, I'll pull away and fight to keep 'em up. I tend to get more severe spankings for doing that, though. So, it's not the best advice for you, if you are considering it.

For those who want their own Jake's briefs, my understanding is that you can only buy my briefs at T.J.Maxx, so it's always worth a visit when you're in American strip malls throughout the country.


A special thanks to Jimmy from MensUnderwear blog for that:

"Jake & Co underwear can only be found at TJ Maxx. However trying to get the store manager or order them is impossible. My wife thinks I'm nuts and has tried to get me to waer another brand of boxer briefs. Nothing holds up like Jake & Co. jimmy1264@charter.net."

In the past, T.J.Maxx has carried briefs for boys in XL as well, with a boyish/childish cursive lettering too. I'm so lucky! Honestly, it's hard to be me...

( # . # )
Your Bad Boy Blogger, Jake 

...and Co.



Monday, May 13, 2013

A Spanked boy....Why a Discipline-Centered Relationship Matters


From the Annals of Aspankedboy.tumblr.com

You often talk about how much you hate punishments but you of course choose to be in this relationship. I'm intrigued by it and have had the opportunity before to enter into them with Sirs but I'm a bit too nervous about it to commit. I'm curious: what is it about a discipline-centered relationship that you find so appealing or rewarding? – Anonymous Reader

Very good question, anon. I’ve been thinking about this a lot recently, so let me give you my list.

(1) Being in a discipline-centered relationship is arousing as hell. This is in contrast to actually “being disciplined,” which I don’t find pleasurable or arousing and usually ranges from quite stingy to seriously painful. I put this one first because I feel like too many people who want a disciplinary relationship dance around it (see http://www.the1585.com/spankmejesus.htm for an amusing example). To be very blunt, I find discipline-centered relationships appealing or rewarding because I find the thought of being scolded like a misbehaving pre-teen, hauled unwillingly over someone’s lap, and spanked until I’m whimpering and promising to be good fantastically, mind-bendingly erotic. Why? I have no idea (well, I have some theories, but those are for another post). But discipline and power exchange have always been a big part of my erotic signature, and that makes me seek them out in my intimate relationships.

That said, there’s more.

(2) Being in a discipline-centered relationship is helpful. I love my line of work, partially because it’s very unstructured. I get to be my own boss, largely schedule my own time, and work on things that interest me. I’m also very competent: I went to a fairly selective school, graduated summa cum laude, and was just recently accepted into a range of Ph.D programs at various Top Ten universities. Nevertheless, in my line of work, I’m always my own worst enemy. Like most people, I procrastinate constantly, avoid work to play video games, and generally make less-than-ideal choices on a regular basis. Being in a disciplinary relationship, however, gives me extra incentives to avoid these things (at least in theory). I used to show up late to work all of the time (because I could), but now that Sir’s insisted I arrive on time I rarely get in after 9:30am.
(3) Being in a discipline-centered relationship is oddly relaxing. Until I met Sir, I was more or less the dominant person in all of my previous relationships—and I mean that sexually as well as interpersonally. Being the submissive partner is, in a way, sooo much easier. I don’t have to initiate anything. I don’t have to make all the plans. Heck, my mistakes aren’t even my responsibility! 

Being spanked and just generally dominated also brings out my more eager-to-please, affectionate side as well, which doesn’t come out very often. Sir and I have also gotten into the habit of cuddling after punishments as a way of making me feel okay again, and I have to say that those moments lying together are easily my favorite couple hours out of the week.

If you’re thinking of entering into a disciplinary relationship with another person, definitely make sure you find the right one. If you’re like me, I think it’s important to find someone around your age, someone you find attractive, and someone you can have a good time with when no sex or kink is involved. Most people out there fail that three-part test, but when you find that rare person who passes, it can be the start of something really great :)

Friday, May 10, 2013

Best Hand Spanking You Ever Saw



Foto Friday--when only a video will do.

Today, I'm pleased to bring you a video tribute to the fine art of handspankings. Hand spanking is a craft, and it's not something every Daddy can do well. Maybe that's why so many reach for their belts.Daddy Ross and Daddy Ron are excellent hand spankers, (as well as lovers of the strap); but when they hand spank, their hands function like paddles and produce similar results.

Take a look at this Daddy in the video below. What surprises is how he isn't particularly big or seemingly powerful, but what he can do with his hand is something most cannot accomplish with a paddle or a hairbrush, a belt or tawse.

 

I think this particular skill needs a little more explanation, but as the boy, I'm not really up on how Daddys who do this so...well, well! It probably has to do with consistency, firmness, ability to control the boy's position over his knee, and the ability to be so in his boy's mind that he knows how to land the next smack.

It's interesting watching this how we can see in real time how effective a spanking can really be on an Adult Boy.

On a sidenote, if anyone knows who this is, please clue me in! I would love to give credit where credit is due. And if he lives anywhere near the east coast of America, tell him there's a boy in the midAtlantic who needs to visit him.

A Special Thanks to boyjay and STH for this exceptional video link. I was perusing his STH page, and I saw he was directing the Men Who Spank him to this video for a sense of the kind of spankings he was looking for. Now, watching this boy with his tomato-red bottom, I have to agree with boyjay, that's the kind of handspankings I'm looking for too!

Where is there a Daddy who is willing and able to spank my boy bottom like this?

Monday, May 6, 2013

Daily Mail London

Something very exciting has been going on in the pages of the Daily Mail in London. Story after story of grown up celebrities revelling in their spankings as a child. It's a strange mix of nostalgia, dread, wincing pain, and well, I don't know how else to put this, fetishing schoolboy spankings. The celebrities seem to just revel in talking about it.

These articles are also catching me off guard as one of my favorite actors from one of my favorite films of all time talks about his canings in school on his IMDB biography page. Malcolm McDowell was my favorite droog in "A Clockwork Orange" by Stanley Kubrick, and his performance was mindbending. So looking up his IMBD bio page to learn more about him, I found this:
Johnny Vaughan and Mark Doson at Uppingham School in Rutland
Johnny Vaughn Then

"His father was keen to send his son to private school to give him a good start in life, so Malcolm was packed off to boarding school at age 11. He attended the Tunbridge Boarding School and the Cannock House School in Eltham, Kent. At school, he was beaten with the slipper or cane every Monday for his waywardness. "

Then

So, for your delectation, here're just some of the kinky linkies:

Broadcaster John Suchet
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1160058/Oh-rotten-caning-coming--Broadcaster-John-Suchet-recalls-grim-time-boarding-school.html

"The headmaster, Denys Jeston, used to beat David and me with a long bamboo cane for breaking school rules. He'd move the desks out of the way so that he could run right across the classroom to give extra power to the whack.
"He caned us both together on one occasion. I bent over first  -  thankfully we didn't have to pull our trousers down  -  and suffered my six strokes. You don't feel them when they first hit but, two seconds, later the sting is terrible. I can still feel it even now."


Johnny Vaughan pictured as Capital Radio Breakfast DJ
Johnny Vaughn Now
Actor Johnny Vaughn and Rowan Atkinson
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1239845/Me-school-photo-Johnny-Vaughan-remembers-boarding-school-beatings-drama-classes-Rowan-Atkinson.html


"'We'll all get beaten,' I said. 
'Not me,' said Stephen, 'I have a game of Jacks, and he pulled out a bag of metal jacks from his trouser pocket. 'The headmaster can't resist them. It works every time.'


When we stood in front of the headmaster waiting for six of the best, I looked over at Stephen. He jangled the Jacks in his pocket, smiled and winked at me. Our fear and tension exploded into hysterical laughter and all three of us laughed all through the beatings."

Broadway/West End Singer/actor
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1360677/Michael-Ball-I-ve-quite-quick-ready-answer.html

"I’ve always been quite quick with a ready answer, which got me into no end of trouble - I can’t count the number of times I was caned."

ITN News Personality Peter Snow
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2046385/Peter-Snow-I-got-caned-school-I-caned-boys-too.html


Radio One On-Air Personality Nicholas Parsons
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1195771/Nicholas-Parsons-Me-school-photo.html
"I'd mimic the masters and get caned for it, but it was worth it. Back then I was beaten for getting laughs – now I get paid for it."



Friday, May 3, 2013

Our Week with a Spanked boy Concludes

Sir likes to yank on my ear a lot.

It makes me feel about 7.
"Sir Likes to Yank on my ear a lot."
As our week with A Spanked boy concludes, there's a few quotes that I've taken out of context and chronological order that were compelling, but didn't really have a blog post of their own that I could develop.  I wanted to thanks A Spanked boy and his Sir. The work they've put into laying out the details of their DD is so eye-opening and enjoyable.


And A Spanked boy's dirty mind enhances all the content you've read here with some of the wildest pics on the internet. Obviously, given the content of my blog, I didn't repost all of those here. So take your time, soak up the detail, and learn more about how you might explore a Domestic Discipline relationship with the boy's in your world.

Disciplinary Dilemma
“I’ve been having a lot of trouble following the rules, lately, and I think it’s at least partially because I want to see Sir and watch movies and fuck around and fall asleep next to another warm body more than I want to avoid being spanked for misbehavior.

How do I fix this? I feel like this isn’t how these arrangements are supposed to work.
— boy”

Unhappy Sir = Unhappy boy
“On top of his already unacceptable behavior, the boy decided he didn’t have to check in with me the past two nights. He is required to perform nightly check ins so that we can determine whether any rules were broken and if punishment is necessary.  

I’m a very unhappy Sir right now.  That means he’s going to be a very unhappy boy tomorrow evening.
— Sir”

Punishment Post-Mortem #1

On Tuesday, I was punished for the following infractions:
(1) Failure to restrain my masturbation habits to the single half-hour window allowed each day.
(2) Staying up past lights-out time (11pm on weekdays).
(3) Displaying disrespect towards Sir during some of our texts.

For my punishment, Sir instructed me to report to a hotel near Dupont Circle around 6:30pm. The punishment itself was quite severe, involving multiple implements in multiple positions. Sir started me off with hand-spanking over his knee, but that quickly changed to some swats with the hairbrush. Sir then put me in the diaper position for more of the same, which was very embarrassing. I was also bent over a chair and a stack of pillows for some swats with a small wooden paddle and Sir&#8217;s belt, respectively. Then, finally, it was back over Sir&#8217;s knee for a long, hard spanking with the hairbrush, which left me kicking, wriggling, and feeling very sorry for myself indeed.

Needless to say, by the end of my punishment, I was a very spanked boy. So spanked, in fact, that I began to feel panicked in the middle of my bathbrush spanking, because I had never before experienced a punishment that hurt quite this much or gone on for quite this long. When Sir decided I had been punished sufficiently, I was made to stand against the wall holding the bathbrush above my rapidly swelling bottom, and then later to kneel with my bright red butt sticking out, as if to invite further trauma. Sir and I then went out to get dinner, where I sat (very, very gingerly) on my rapidly-darkening cheeks.

All in all, I think Sir and I miscommunicated (or just failed to communicate) exactly how hard of a spanking I was ready and able to take. This session left me in a LOT of pain, and I exited our session actually feeling quite badly about the whole experience, not just my misbehavior. After explaining this to Sir the next day, we came to the conclusion that perhaps some spanking aftercare would be helpful in future sessions. Because I think Sir felt unnecessarily guilty about the whole thing, he also ordered me to a report to a second nearby hotel later that day so that he could rub some lotion into my massive bruises. This eventually led to lotion being applied to the inside of my bottom as well (since Sir is nothing if not thorough), and I ended our &#8220;aftercare session&#8221; by cumming spectacularly all over my chest as Sir&#8217;s hands did their work.
"...as promised, my butt feels kind of like this today...."
“So, as promised, my butt feels kind of like this today…but when he isn’t spanking me, Sir spoils me rotten… so I guess I can’t really complain :)
— boy”


“The boy has earned another spanking this evening for disobeying the rule governing video game playing.  This is not going to be a fun one for him...


Despite the fact that the boy just received a spanking on Monday, it’s become VERY clear he’s due for another.  For one, he was late for work (again) and for another, he violated the rules governing his video game playing....



However mostly—I’m not thrilled at all about his attitude. So at around 4pm today I’m going to bare his bottom, put him over my knee and give him a very long spanking that he won’t forget for quite a while.
— Sir


Last Night I Disobeyed Sir
“Sir ordered me to go to bed at 10:30pm last night as punishment for staying up late the night before. Unfortunately, I started a match in the video game that I play rather later than I had intended (9:45pm), and by the time I was finished, I realized I had a bunch of other things that I needed to do before I turned in for the night. This ultimately caused me to climb into bed closer to 11pm, which contradicted Sir’s orders. 


“Originally, I considered not telling Sir that I had misbehaved, but by morning—especially since we had just recently spent a lot of time talking about the importance of total honesty during check-ins—I decided to get it off my chest. As punishment, Sir moved tonight’s bedtime up by another hour (11pm) and instructed me to upload a picture of a sheet of lined paper with “I’m a disobedient boy and I deserve a bare bottom spanking” written 33 times on both the front and back :/

— boy”


“A good Dad can always tell the difference between “ow that hurts” and “I really REALLY am sorry Daddy”. And the trick is not to listen to the words, just the intensity of the crying…—from a reader called “OlderIrv”


“So that takes us from about two weeks ago to the present: presently, I’m in trouble :/ Sir hasn’t been able to see me for well over a week now, and even though I know breaking the rules is going to come back to bite me in the butt eventually (in a manner of speaking), it just doesn’t have the same impact on my behavior as the threat of immediate correction. So between the parking ticket and my video game binging and staying up late and not eating or exercising properly and a hundred other infractions, I guess I have a rough night ahead of me… 

It’s funny, though, because part of me wants to get there as soon as possible… I guess I miss feeling the extra structure in my life.
— boy”

A Final Note from a Reader's Email:

Ya know, right now, while you're young, what you have is kind of envious, but what happens when you get older. Then what? Like, unfortunately, we can't get stuck in some kind of time warp. Do you think you'll reverse roles, find yourself as a Sir or do you think you'll simply out grow this? - Anonymous


"Well, anon, I assume that eventually the spanking fun and games will have to stop, if only because I’m dead and buried and worms are eating away at what were formerly my taut, round buttocks :P

"But until that day, I plan on doing whatever I damn well please. My sexual orientation (both in terms of who I’m attracted to, and my preferred role) have both done a complete 180 in the past 5 or so years. It’ll probably shift again, but, if it doesn’t, I see no reason why I can’t be a spanked boy until I’m 90.

"In my mind, all you need for this sort of thing is one willing partner. Plenty of kinky people are looking for someone to get old with. You might think it’s absurd to be a spanked boy at 90, but, hey, it’s absurd at 23, too. If you find a dynamic that works for you, I don’t see why you’d change it just because you get a little older."
— boy

Thursday, May 2, 2013

A Spanked boy—the Importance of Respect


The Importance of Respecting Your "Sir"
Last we left off, we had already visited the groundrules that A Spanked Boy and his Sir had agreed to. In December of 2012, they had a texting communication breakdown that requires a bit of discussion. You'll see from the exchange that it has more to do with how two grown men have to teach each other that without rules, they end up being equals in a DD relationship and the Sir/boy dynamic breaks down.

This repost from A Spanked Boy's Tumblr brings us a very clear sense of just how complex the arrangement needs to be, so that a new boy is broken in properly and begins to understand that in spite of the fact that he can get into top 10 grad schools, and write incredibly well, and speak articulately, that in the end, as far as the relationship between he and his "Sir" is concerned, he must learn to obey and respect.

Here's a peek into The Importance of Respect:

"So late at night on December 23rd, during our check-in, Sir mentioned the possibility of introducing “punishment plugging” into our sessions starting in January. Although I was sharing a bedroom with my sister at the time (we were visiting family), this piece of information was apparently sufficient to throw several hormone and neurotransmitter systems into a state of pronounced agitation, leaving me awake for about an hour after our conversation ended as I waited for multiple parts of my anatomy to calm the fuck down.
I'm a Disobedient boy and I deserve a Bare Bottom Spanking
33 Times Each Side

'Consequently, on Christmas Eve, I made a blog post on my other tumblr wherein I, tongue-in-cheek, denounced Sir as a “sadistic fuck” for depriving me of my much-needed sleep. I intended the post to be playful (and I did end t it with a winky face), but Sir seems to be of the opinion that spanked boys should show their disciplinarians a little more respect regardless of communication subtext, so I was thus assigned several pages of lines as punishment in addition to this post: 300 words on the topic of respect.

"To my surprise, Sir actually turned out to be quite correct when he said: “As a spanked boy, I’m sure you have many thoughts on why it’s important to be obedient to me and show respect.” For organizational purposes, I’ve decided to present these thoughts in order from most obvious to least. The last two are related; the first one, I think, stands for itself.

"1) Demonstrating obedience to and respect for Sir allows me to avoid future spankings.

"As Sir has made abundantly clear during our last two sessions, it’s always far more enjoyable to be rewarded rather than punished. Somewhat astonishingly, this turns out to be true even if you’re a raging kinkster with a diverse array of discipline-oriented kinks like me.

"(2) Demonstrating obedience to and respect for Sir reinforces our dynamic.

"I am not a masochist. Or at least…I’m not too much of a masochist.

"Spankings hurt. And spankings from Sir hurt a lot. I have yet to stay turned on during or after an actual spanking. Usually I just want them to end as quickly as possible.

"The thing that keeps me coming back to Sir for discipline, therefore, is the power exchange. The steadfast sense of domination that Sir provides (even remotely) is both utterly intoxicating and also wholly unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before, even in my previous kink-centered relationships. If I go even a fewhours without feeling Sir’s authority, I immediately start craving it again. Since Sir can really only be as dominant as I let him be, however, adopting an appropriately submissive and deferential attitude towards him in our interactions is essential to keeping both of us engaged in our respective roles and ultimately satisfied.

"(3) Demonstrating obedience to and respect for Sir is important because he deserves it.
See this? This, I think, is a good shade of red. Stingy, but not too much damage beneath that top layer of skin.

Perfect.
'I Apologize, Sir, for Those Instances When my Tone
Becomes Inappropriate."

"Sir doesn’t really get a chance to hear how I describe him to other people (read: strangers on the internet), so he misses out on a lot of praise. What I usually tell people is that, far from being a classless internet perv (which is what I had expected), Sir is uncommonly intelligent, cultured, generous, and compassionate. Frankly, Sir exceeds even my most optimistic expectations to such a degree that I keep half-expecting to stumble across the body of some previous spanked boy hidden in the closet at one of the hotels we frequent. So far, however, this hasn’t come to pass.

"Even more importantly, despite knowing each other for only a short period of time, Sir’s interest in me has already proven to be enormously beneficial. When I first met Sir, I had been suffering from severe fibromyalgia/CFS-esque symptoms for several weeks. Since writing our behavior contract and establishing regular sleep-wake, eating, and exercise schedules, however, I’ve noticed health-related gains in several areas. Sir’s attention also just generally helps motivate me to get up, do some work, and take good care of myself, even on days where all I want to do is call in sick, skip meals, and masturbate in bed. 

"Although I haven’t yet communicated this sentiment in quite these terms, the fact is that I appreciate Sir enormously for tolerating me through all of this, so he deserves my esteem even when displaying it does nothing for me.

"In conclusion, I apologize, Sir, for those instances when my tone becomes inappropriate. I think the frequency of these moments will decrease significantly come January, but, in the meantime, I will do my best to moderate my cheek for the remainder of winter break.

-boy"