HOW TO GIVE A SPANKING
Spanking is a much more personal and intimate than other forms of discipline. There is nothing quite like the feel of your boy bent over your knee, bare ass arched upwards, quivering with a combination of fear and anticipation. For the bottom, too, it provides a very unique feeling - both physically and mentally.
Spanking evokes memories of corporal punishment many of us experience in childhood. For this reason, many spankees look for tops who fit the roles of Daddy, Mommy, coach, a big brother, Aunt or other authority figures.
Position & Posture
One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of discipline is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, many prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning.
Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee.
The spanker enjoys the following advantages from their position:
Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing their arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease because of their position.
Because they are able to wind up and freely swing their arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended target with force. While standing, the spanker cannot only swing their arm but rotate their body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere.
The spankee's position is designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative position is designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the spanker is able to view, tweak, pat and spank it.
Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will fall too high or too low.
The spanker's position gives them the "upper hand" and allows them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand higher than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and situate the spankee.
The spankee realizes the following effects from their position:
Except for the notable exception of their backside, Many think it's important that the spankee be relatively comfortable so they can focus on the sensations being inflicted upon their posterior.
Bending over and getting into position to get your bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation.
A properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive "sit spot."
Being put over the knee is a childish, humiliating posture. Having to "assume the position" is humiliating in its submission and rubs in the fact that they are being spanked.
*Reb, a former internet presence in the 1990s spanking world, seems to have disappeared. I think he was involved in the Santa Barbara Paddlemaking company. If any of you know where he is, please email me! Or at least let him know I'm a huge fan of his work.
(This article has been drifting around the Internet for many years. I am NOT the author, nor do I know who created this spanking primer. It is offered only as a guide.)
(To be continued Monday. Stay tuned, all you Daddys and boys who get spanked!)