tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53151735491739729532024-03-26T23:38:04.626-07:00Cornertime ConfidentialA blog for adult boys who've been sent to The Corner and the Daddys who put us there.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1410125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5315173549173972953.post-78111408023162685162024-03-21T23:00:00.000-07:002024-03-21T23:00:00.359-07:00Underpants Tell a Story<h2 style="text-align: left;"><b>What's Your Underpants Story?</b></h2><p>The <a href="https://www.tumblr.com/thekinkygrad/729761372888498176?source=share" target="_blank">kinkygrad</a> posted this image on Tumblr, and it didn't just catch my eye, it told me a story. Like lots of his posts, this one told a story, but one I couldn't finish. So I thought I'd ask readers' help.</p><p><b><i>Here's my first effort, it'll probably be better if you all chime in to finish the story: </i></b></p><p>bobby just moved into a new room and was getting changed to head to the dining hall. New roommate tommy sees bobby's underpants, and he wishes he had those underpants too, so he grabbed a pair of bobby's and said...</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTlZgN5EHYsUs5RYdFUjvdWriksRPuPNSzph_Cflf3bV_ZiclUH7IQVj_8ov4OpEhEcmI0tCmN0-_a2UQxPWlzmxXut1f7waPk1_DidHM8m4VsmFyMFd01U6JHvDncQyMifB8HT5ZNm3ccN29zZyAdnTkLybFaKXm4DOGZX5pRcWJ0vf60liQWOnvNC-8/s829/Underpants%20Tell%20A%20Story.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="829" data-original-width="640" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTlZgN5EHYsUs5RYdFUjvdWriksRPuPNSzph_Cflf3bV_ZiclUH7IQVj_8ov4OpEhEcmI0tCmN0-_a2UQxPWlzmxXut1f7waPk1_DidHM8m4VsmFyMFd01U6JHvDncQyMifB8HT5ZNm3ccN29zZyAdnTkLybFaKXm4DOGZX5pRcWJ0vf60liQWOnvNC-8/w494-h640/Underpants%20Tell%20A%20Story.jpg" width="494" /></a></div><p>"I haven't worn these since I was a 'tween!" </p><p>bobby is uncomfortable with having a new boy handling his briefs, so he gives him the side-eye you see in the pic above. tommy tries to explain, <br /><br /></p><p>"But..."</p><p><b><i>How would you finish this story?</i></b></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; 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text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEido7xcbJ-09z0CjfWIrk11fVzTWkTpeCfiNSdF-7i8vC1qnIYt7QI0TLboEo6Mbopf-28dYYN98Odk4_d0inpM6RkYTCN1PtGbjKMBtFjek7x5QAb8tEnZqQ90wp-5H-zLK7Oc3bhxAXU4zj1DvBWdq9vGxoxoZ9DaVpf6MJOyDcgohgHebijtJTH1MOM/s757/Misbehave%20in%20Public%20Get%20Spanked%20in%20Public.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="352" data-original-width="757" height="149" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEido7xcbJ-09z0CjfWIrk11fVzTWkTpeCfiNSdF-7i8vC1qnIYt7QI0TLboEo6Mbopf-28dYYN98Odk4_d0inpM6RkYTCN1PtGbjKMBtFjek7x5QAb8tEnZqQ90wp-5H-zLK7Oc3bhxAXU4zj1DvBWdq9vGxoxoZ9DaVpf6MJOyDcgohgHebijtJTH1MOM/s320/Misbehave%20in%20Public%20Get%20Spanked%20in%20Public.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p>*I'm NOT a big fan of "wait 'til we get home." That wait drives me crazy! As completely crazy as it seems, I'd rather Daddy Spank my fanny in the moment when I'm acting up, rather than sitting through a long car ride and gettin in trouble at home later.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dwmGylQUOs--RJvP9aMu0gGXW4v7_5Vo8UzhTM7ZbAts-_MjdX8WBYqCePUbIGHZXGfEMbDWKXcm7iOu856JA' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><p><a href="https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/150709/discipline4daddysboy" target="_blank">In the video clip above</a> from<a href="https://twitter.com/discipline4b" target="_blank"> Discipline for Daddy's boy</a> you can see how practical a Spanking in public can be. </p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Would you be likely to misbehave in public if you're Daddy might do this?</li><li>Would you think twice about mouthing off about something or rolling your eyes at the wrong thing Daddy says? </li></ul><p></p><p>I know I would.</p><p>But in winter time in many parts of this country at any rate, it's just not practical for Daddy to pull the car over. We're bigger boys now, and there's just not enough room in the interior of most cars to do the job. </p><p>With Spring nearly here and Summer on the horizon, there can be hell to pay if things don't go right on outings in public with Daddy. Talk with your Daddy about boundaries and think about the things that Daddys can do to make public Spankings safe for the both of you. </p><p><i>Then empower your Daddy to take matters into his own hands when things get out of hand!</i></p><p>For other helpful posts on how you can administer Spankings in public without the public getting involved, check out these links:</p><ul><li><b><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2017/05/public-disobedience-public-discipline.html">Public Disobedience, Public Discipline</a></b></li><li><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2018/12/domestic-discipline-week-continues-with.html" target="_blank"><b>Spanking Your boy in Public</b></a></li><li><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2016/12/addressing-misbehaviour-in-public.html" target="_blank"><b>Addressing Misbehaviour in Public</b></a></li><li><a href="http://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2014/12/spanking-in-public-when-shopping-with.html"><b>Spanked in the Men’s Restroom While Out Shopping</b></a></li><li><b><a href="http://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2014/06/poolside-spankings.html">Spanked Poolside</a></b></li><li><b><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2016/03/humiliation-value-of-spanking-your.html" target="_blank">Humiliation: the Value of Spanking Your boy in Public</a></b></li></ul><div style="box-sizing: inherit; 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But as we all know, not all adventures end well. Sometimes we find ourselves in trouble, trouble we can't get out of. Hence today's post.</p><p>Rarely do images capture that sensation of adventure and loss all at the same time. In today's image, we wanted to share this pic of a boy in adventuresome clothes, a boy who was probably on a grand imaginative journey himself before his Daddy caught him doing something he wasn't supposed to be doing. </p><p>Here we see something <i>visceral</i>, like you know somethings about to happen. But you cannot truly know how well or how badly its going to work out for the boy. That conflicting sense response may be because a pending Spanking sometimes is a <i>solution</i>, not just a punishment...well, maybe it's <i>both</i> in this instance. But it's not a problem, <i>per se</i>. </p><p>You don't often see authentically painful Daddy/boy images. But today we do. Today, we share in this boy's misadventure. We know he'll have a sore fanny for a time. And we know his Daddy will have to talk to him about what he did. But we also can sense, he's a lucky boy who will have many more adventures (and misadventures!) to come, because he has a Daddy who watches after him.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZmdptud2o4XsJQboI0vy-wgjErmEp01BptkHruIsCYbSaoUBTRoXJhS_KFEMuvzXOMDbcdl8AeuS-3KF_pPdpoc9lUwk6wuMHDW-Abry6Vr3h9_M1SYpOWL1TU872FSAnsJ_fL9STJd5M_xb7EhbNgmMcbWKuOd2us83u1J49qy3BWfEn6IRZgxVZXJM/s700/Daddy%20boy%20Scottish.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="695" data-original-width="700" height="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZmdptud2o4XsJQboI0vy-wgjErmEp01BptkHruIsCYbSaoUBTRoXJhS_KFEMuvzXOMDbcdl8AeuS-3KF_pPdpoc9lUwk6wuMHDW-Abry6Vr3h9_M1SYpOWL1TU872FSAnsJ_fL9STJd5M_xb7EhbNgmMcbWKuOd2us83u1J49qy3BWfEn6IRZgxVZXJM/w400-h398/Daddy%20boy%20Scottish.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><p>I have felt like that boy. You are<i> sooooo</i> frustrated that you know you're going to get a Spanking, and you cannot do anything about the inevitable. So, sometimes being an adult boy is really hard. But if you have a good Daddy, you know he'll let you out to play again, when you've learned your lesson.</p><div>A big thanks to our friend AC from SouthSpanking for posting this pic. 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And...it may surprise no one that a lot of emotion can stem from these events too. That's probably because events are infrequent and also sometimes you just cannot go. I have become the latest victim of this feeling.</i></p><p>adult boys are often childish. we are often a lot of fun to be with. we are often challenging when we're in groups trying to get Daddys' attention(s). we are often collectors of all sorts of things. we are often silly and that can cause confusion with those who don't know we're boys. we are often naughty.<i> and whoa, can we be emotional!</i></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3XBOXzoplEXdBN0ga8UxYOskNjDHQ4JdKF3xyEkrav2l0pEwr8Wre2WJZgjNDql01_qc4kWeVxMIjH5gJyK7KBGOmCy6rwRUpCxrLwf54z_EQTS__Mch99dyAcR5Ao7F4KpfsDunxXEfP_Lv0wTXu6sqqViyiNGNfnQ4HHNxFd0ejVBjoBSpkotsoeVQ/s500/thumb%20sucker.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="392" data-original-width="500" height="314" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3XBOXzoplEXdBN0ga8UxYOskNjDHQ4JdKF3xyEkrav2l0pEwr8Wre2WJZgjNDql01_qc4kWeVxMIjH5gJyK7KBGOmCy6rwRUpCxrLwf54z_EQTS__Mch99dyAcR5Ao7F4KpfsDunxXEfP_Lv0wTXu6sqqViyiNGNfnQ4HHNxFd0ejVBjoBSpkotsoeVQ/w400-h314/thumb%20sucker.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><p>Quick digression from me: There's a lot of "fear of missing out" for boys like us that the average person doesn't experience because they are living as adults. If you are deep in your boy headspace like I've been lately, it can be everything a boy can do to staunch those feelings. I've spent the better part of the last 3 weeks reading all the super kewl posts about an<a href="https://www.hotseatps.com/forum/2024-retreat" target="_blank"> annual event that begins this Wednesday in Palm Springs</a>, and it's been making me feel more and more out of the loop. I hate that I cannot go, but I have done all I can do to not beg my workplace to let me go. But I cannot get permission. </p><p>I'm so mad about it, and I'm like a boy who has been told by his Daddy, "And if everybody jumped off a cliff, would you follow them?!" I mean, Daddy, that's not the point. I just can't stand it that I'm not going.</p><p>I'm glad that you people reading this weren't home while I've been going through this FOMO. 3 weeks of it! And that event just ended, so I'm really really crazed right now. I thought I'd be happier once it ended, and the social media talking about that particular event stopped, but then the post-event social and emails and texts pour in. I really need to find a way to go next year.</p><p>It's awful when you are about 8-12 years old in your mind and all the other boys are going off to have a fun time together, meet their old Daddys and meet new Daddys, spend quality time with familiar friends, and then they are going to enjoy all the activities that take place at these events. </p><p>And you are not. Just so hard being a boy sometimes.</p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><div style="text-align: center;">______________________________________</div></div><div style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"></div><div style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; margin: 0px 0px 1.5em; outline: none; padding: 0px; position: relative;"><b style="box-sizing: inherit;"></b><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"></i><u style="box-sizing: inherit;"></u></div><div style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"></div><h3 style="text-align: left;">CP Day-to-Day Living</h3><p>Emotions are particularly complicated for those of us in the CP community because our chances to connect are sometimes so few and so limited. We struggle with so much:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Scheduling,</li><li>Finding the right play partners, </li><li>Getting enough time away from work to get into the right headspace, </li><li>Knowing the right Daddys, </li><li>Having access to the right location(s), and more. </li></ul><p></p><p>This means when things go awry, it's a much bigger deal than just your average connection-fail. If I am headed to happy hour with someone, and they cancel, I can live with it. But if it's a CP playdate and there's a cancellation, it's like totally<i> the end of the world.</i> <br /></p><p>These extremes are seriously alarming. </p><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px;"><p style="text-align: left;"><i><b>Have you felt them? Do you experience what I experience?</b> (Trust: it's awful!)</i></p></blockquote><p>You end up surprising yourself with just how much of an overaction you have. You get sick to your tummy, you get agitated, inconsolable, argumentative, and more. If only you had a Daddy to smack your thigh and calm your bouncing knee down. Right? But you probably don't have that Daddy or you'd be a whole lot calmer. </p><p>This heightened intensity of little things means that the actual big things feel completely catastrophic. Like if you are in a relationship, and things go awry, how do you respond?! Your response may be completely over the top. It's nearly inevitable. Here's one response I've given: </p><p><i></i></p><blockquote><i><b>"Daddy, I just need you to not do whatever I say whenever I say it, that's why. I want you do to what I want, even if it means you don't get to do what you have a right to do." </b></i></blockquote><p></p><p>Ask a Daddy, can you imagine having to walk in those footsteps? That's tough. As a boy you already know how hard it is when Daddy says, </p><p><i><b></b></i></p><blockquote><p><i><b>"I don't want you doing that because I say so."</b></i> </p><p></p></blockquote><p>Imagine if the shoe were also on the other foot all the time. That's a recipe for a non-existent relationship.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What to Do About it</h3><p>But back to events for a moment. Events like <a href="https://www.campredtails.com/" target="_blank">Camp Red Tails</a>, <a href="https://www.hotseatps.com/" target="_blank">Hot Seat Retreat</a>, <a href="https://www.canspanks.com/" target="_blank">CanSpanks</a>, <a href="https://bawevent.com/" target="_blank">Bad Ass Weekend</a>, <a href="http://www.we-internat.de/" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: small;">Wochenend Internat</span></a>, even Folsom Street Fair, can lead to a whole range of emotions both negative and positive if you don't go. (If you do go, there's a whole nuther set of emotions, amiright!?!?) But the question is really, what can you do about it?</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgErJKLA3B9B3Me1NyZ8Z_NaeykE4-mxW354cHVpTm8hZASe3iehX7ziQ5QnkE_eyvCQCVLzy3OjODAOQW-PDaPN57RcEO6F5BKK8LgN0y7DarXaRExpHIlUx8iyQ93fuei3PC04YYKxjtWSiFdk_3mnxjEgDkNwM8v2lIlZkahuKBBVpeIosuAFd3vzpk/s540/Gaming%20in%20your%20underpants%202.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="405" data-original-width="540" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgErJKLA3B9B3Me1NyZ8Z_NaeykE4-mxW354cHVpTm8hZASe3iehX7ziQ5QnkE_eyvCQCVLzy3OjODAOQW-PDaPN57RcEO6F5BKK8LgN0y7DarXaRExpHIlUx8iyQ93fuei3PC04YYKxjtWSiFdk_3mnxjEgDkNwM8v2lIlZkahuKBBVpeIosuAFd3vzpk/s320/Gaming%20in%20your%20underpants%202.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p>Here are a few things boys can do to help regulate the pain, anguish, and disappointment of not being "there" where all the action is during an event weekend. (For this I will preface by saying, these won't work for everyone. I realize how sensitive you probably are. I feel your pain, and I walk in your shoes.)</p><p></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li><b>Quiet Space</b>. Use your quiet space to calm yourself. Step away and be alone. Sometimes a Time Out is exactly what you need.</li><li><b>Connect Gently.</b> If you need to connect with others to express yourself, be aware you should only commiserate with those who are not going. Even if you do spend time talking through your pain points, be sure to keep your meet-ups, calls, and texts limited so you don't over-talk it out and then become further obsessed. Or worse, don't over-talk it and get the other boys who aren't going further upset.</li><li><b>Avoid Real Time Interference.</b> If some friend of yours is going, don't contact them, it'll kill their buzz. Ask them to follow up after the event, only if you are 100% sure you want to hear about it.</li><li><b>Ask for help.</b> Make clear to your friends who are going to not send you real-time updates by text, email or in social (if possible).</li><li><b>Make local plans.</b> Reach out to a Daddy you know, so you feel more connected or taken care of. Call fellow boys you know. Text others to see if they might get together to do something fun together where you are. </li></ol><p></p><p>Is it best to learn about self-regulation as an adult and then apply those accommodations to your situation? Of course, sure. But for those of us who live as adult boys more of the time, this may not be as easy to do as it is for others. The best techniques used to calm you down as a boy may work better. If you have a Daddy who isn't going to the event who can take charge of you over the same weekend, that can ameliorate the pain of not attending where "all your friends are".</p><p>When you're a middle like me, you sometimes feel like all the kids are ignoring you and/or having fun without you. All it takes is one invite to something super kewl that you didn't get and oh my gawd, stand back! But really they are just in their own middle worlds, and they aren't thinking about you much at all. But that doesn't mean they'd ignore you if you were there. Maybe they are thinking, "Oh, I wish jake were here. I'd love to see him doing this or that..." But for the most part, they are so completely absorbed in their own experience, that you are the furthest from their minds. I hate that, but...that's why I go into my quiet space and write all this on the blog.<br /><br />I'm not so sure that helped me to write down for myself right now. I'm feeling so bent out of shape! </p><p><b><i>Hopefully it'll help you(!!)</i></b></p><p><br /></p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="box-sizing: inherit; color: #777777; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: times;"><strong style="box-sizing: inherit;"><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"><h3 style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); color: black; text-align: left;">Please comment below or </span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/5315173549173972953/8493439403032945067#" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(68, 68, 68, 0) 50%, rgba(68, 68, 68, 0.25) 0px); 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font-family: times;"><span style="font-size: large;">Get the Backstory With BearSpanks</span></span></h2><div><span style="color: #26282a; font-family: times;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlPY834T3v9y9oVKkR-oddpleRYWQLF6w7ZGlUdmstE_zE3u47dUSYG8penChupy9urJsKTuvNCxHYnygvNJunwL4NiSvQZazqc4T7cgpWM02R2zvjm1oaJOEwy9MwSqcyb4r7FpPpIwtoDwFkoIc32Ewwxg8vJSD5NxnxhNkuJjOJJNV_73lw9nn9em0/s259/BearSpanks%20SPankingTube%20profile%20pic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="259" data-original-width="259" height="259" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlPY834T3v9y9oVKkR-oddpleRYWQLF6w7ZGlUdmstE_zE3u47dUSYG8penChupy9urJsKTuvNCxHYnygvNJunwL4NiSvQZazqc4T7cgpWM02R2zvjm1oaJOEwy9MwSqcyb4r7FpPpIwtoDwFkoIc32Ewwxg8vJSD5NxnxhNkuJjOJJNV_73lw9nn9em0/s1600/BearSpanks%20SPankingTube%20profile%20pic.jpg" width="259" /></a></div></span></div><p><span style="color: #26282a; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;">At the end of 2023, Cornertime Confidential was being bombarded with tons or remarkable content from on particularly important content producer. This week's interview guest's work has become synonymous with atypical, passionately Daddy-led, scolding-focused, no-nonsense empathetic CP. He doesn't select boys for their model-good-looks. His work features normal Joes with unshapely bodies and regular clothes. Ill-fitting white briefs around the knees, painfully red bottoms reaching for the sky, and squirming to get away, these are all hallmarks of his incredibly large video archive with <a href=" https://www.spankingtube.com/user/bearspanks/videos" target="_blank">over 2.2 Million Views on SpankingTube </a>alone! All free all the time, his videos are available to you right now! So we wanted to know a little more about what motivated him, how it all began.</span></p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/nwcub2019" style="font-family: times; font-size: 16px;" target="_blank">BearSpanks</a><span style="color: #26282a; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;"> has been a part of the CP Community for enough years to know better. One day, he turned his attention to his camera-phone-thingy. And he thought...</span><i style="color: #26282a; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;">maybe I should...</i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #26282a; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;"><i>_________________________________</i></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #26282a; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #26282a; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg11pUlC5Xiur1FwQPZDPdLTG9jAIbj9ubeZduuCA9hkOE9xfjLoqxs2HwIezcl_BvmNZLaxp1i_g62JNvL9f_qeaXkQ0mCZpuKYMOQETg9uRyvzIg4bOzyCea-NIIla31oWWhaEar9dOR1im4H7a2BgoCZ3BRXcGOOI1U97pUrDSvsydl_DSLNZIuwCdo/s1280/BearSpanks.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="940" data-original-width="1280" height="294" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg11pUlC5Xiur1FwQPZDPdLTG9jAIbj9ubeZduuCA9hkOE9xfjLoqxs2HwIezcl_BvmNZLaxp1i_g62JNvL9f_qeaXkQ0mCZpuKYMOQETg9uRyvzIg4bOzyCea-NIIla31oWWhaEar9dOR1im4H7a2BgoCZ3BRXcGOOI1U97pUrDSvsydl_DSLNZIuwCdo/w400-h294/BearSpanks.jpg" width="400" /></a></span></div><p></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;">I had always been fascinated by Spanking as a kid despite never actually receiving one. Anytime it happened in a book or movie I’d revisit it over and over, completely unsure why. With the advent of the internet in my early teens I began seeking out pictures and videos and corresponding with Daddy Howard even though I wasn’t even close to being of the appropriate age to do so. His videos combined everything I liked at the time. Most Spanking videos seemed to focus on young skinny models or muscle guys, and I liked bears and regular looking men. And besides being a bear himself, Daddy Howard seemed to Spank all types of guys. I was also writing Spanking stories under the pen name "Charlie Gilbert" at this time as my main outlet for the fetish.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><b><br /></b></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><b>CC: </b>We never hear enough about Daddy Howard. So many boys tried to connect with him back when he was one of the most famous of Men Who Spank. My friend Eddie Knapps just loved him! Did you ever get to meet him?</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><b style="background-color: transparent; font-family: arial; font-size: 16px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><br /></span></b></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: arial; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><b>BearSpanks: </b><span style="font-size: 16px;">Nope, unfortunately I never got to meet him in person before he passed away. We chatted online and talked on the phone quite a few times and of course exchanged endless messages, but I never got to meet him or go over his knee. </span></span></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="outline: none;"></span><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;">I got my first real Spanking two days after my 18th birthday and gave my first one on the day of my 19th. And I haven’t looked back since!<span class="yiv6310167473Apple-converted-space" style="outline: none;"> </span>I believe the first Spanking pictures I was ever involved with were of my partner at the time Spanking my furry red bottom over his lap and the first time I was ever videod was by Redbearspanker (May he RIP.), my long time Daddy bear. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><br /></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjItMkr3I9tzyoYceW2lceRNPVt0nJklbTTkszL2eocnoENgFgI3USkbqY45P_4FBM9ejrkOMz_Vq_dotQhpN0GC3E3LhN1B6SFgC4oXNKWJuARSNyh_jc0iwKD5L5k315LyAW-iZ6VlmVd8_Qjgdxz_iYfFuPfGiS_ohriWB1lPHH4iMLLT9ohFqRmAqU/s1094/Red%20Bear%20and%20Bear%20Spanks.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1094" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjItMkr3I9tzyoYceW2lceRNPVt0nJklbTTkszL2eocnoENgFgI3USkbqY45P_4FBM9ejrkOMz_Vq_dotQhpN0GC3E3LhN1B6SFgC4oXNKWJuARSNyh_jc0iwKD5L5k315LyAW-iZ6VlmVd8_Qjgdxz_iYfFuPfGiS_ohriWB1lPHH4iMLLT9ohFqRmAqU/s320/Red%20Bear%20and%20Bear%20Spanks.jpg" width="316" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Over Red Bear Spanker's Knee</i></b></td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><br /><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><br /></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><b>CC:</b> I thought you tributes online to Redbearspanker were so touching. I'm so sorry for your loss.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><b style="background-color: transparent; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;"><br /></b></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><b style="background-color: transparent; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;">BearSpanks: </b><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;">Thanks! He was an amazing Daddy and an awesome Spanker. I learned so much from him and got 99% of my verbal play from experiences over his lap. I’d kind of make notes in my mind of what put me in the right headspace when he said it, and now I say a lot of the same phrases when I’m Spanking a naughty boy.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">Redbearspanker thought that since my pain tolerance was so high, he’d record it to add to the embarrassment factor. However, all it did was push my exhibitionism button even harder. I have no idea if these videos exist anywhere anymore. I doubt it, unfortunately. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">My first foray into recording as a Spanker was with a gentleman who brought his own go-pro and set it up to record his Spankings. He said that it would be just for him so I agreed. One of these videos found their way on to Fetlife and eventually Spankingtube (a seven minute bathroom Punishment Spanking clip). People seemed to enjoy it so I went on from there. That video can still be found on Spankingtube in various places.</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6P0T1tbiPMY3k2jMemRnWuXq2ko7DsedBWijuseRoruD1J8jMBbI2B37YyI5-vKA85fElihunJWqyIbDlVdycWL8XH0ynRhjf3sfoZRZL2wM8js_b8YaAH9d8YTeGS9EUMwM0KTXrH9rS3azLT9Bzc4LPryZUtzY-FCMQoH_8EwT30ZLVcT38ZGS52qc/s1280/BearSpanks%208.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1036" data-original-width="1280" height="259" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6P0T1tbiPMY3k2jMemRnWuXq2ko7DsedBWijuseRoruD1J8jMBbI2B37YyI5-vKA85fElihunJWqyIbDlVdycWL8XH0ynRhjf3sfoZRZL2wM8js_b8YaAH9d8YTeGS9EUMwM0KTXrH9rS3azLT9Bzc4LPryZUtzY-FCMQoH_8EwT30ZLVcT38ZGS52qc/s320/BearSpanks%208.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">I started with small clips of me Spanking other boys or of me getting Spanked by Redbear. My intention was never to make “Spanking videos” but to merely record the Spankings I give and put them online for people to view. I still kind of hold to that as best I can. I basically point the camera and give the guy the exact Spanking he would get if nobody was watching. All the guys are different, and I try to meet them where they are."</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><b>CC: </b>Oh yeah, that is the primary reason you are the videographer of the year for Cornertime Confidential! I just love your awareness about this element. I think you really see (mentally) how the boy's mind is working. I see this everytime you Spank "junior" and "kev" and more recently a new array of other boys who you've been meeting at Spanking events you've attended.</span></p><blockquote><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium; outline: none;"><i><b>"One of the reasons I wanted to make videos was because, generally, the kinds of guys I like aren’t represented in mainstream porn."</b></i></span></p></blockquote><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; font-size: medium; outline: none;"><i><b></b></i></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">"I like big guys and hairy guys and older guys. So that’s who I generally play with. Some like roleplay and some don’t. Some like diapers or panties or want the Spanking to be erotic opposed to punishment. Some guys like me to be very verbal and some just want a good hard beating. I’ll basically do whatever the other guy wants to do to make it a good experience for him. I don’t want to force anyone to do roleplay that isn’t into it. You can always tell."</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">CC: Tell our readers more about your excellent "scolding" and "Daddy dialogue" that you have with some of your boys on camera. I think it's terrific. You have a way with getting into some boys' heads when you talk so calmly and seriously about that the boys will inevitably have their bare bottoms Spanked, despite their pleading that you be more reasonable!"</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><b style="font-family: times;">BearSpanks: </b><span style="font-family: times;">I took a lot of my verbal play from Redbearspanker and other guys who have Spanked me and a lot of stuff from Daddy Howard or Cliff from Spankingcentral. I always liked the idea of a Dad who Spanks his boy when he isn’t angry. It’s just so matter-of-fact feeling. It’s gonna happen and there’s nothing the boy can do but lay there and get his naked bottom soundly Spanked until Daddy is done.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><b style="font-family: times;"><br /></b></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">Slowly, I began to learn how to edit videos and splice clips together and add a little music here or there. I still do absolutely everything on my iPhone and terrible cheap tripod."</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEWmrAN9rGPhJ-pDqfY803iE9hIvbmsvjk7MehPn16rUltZDC1pDJhWSuqNoKvDTGC7GahPqRue09AjAb3eU-dAQQTgWt1l4sCaeRKpWXypPLbRH_e5UaHDeZ_r8bzAC3xIPx9KV4hHmbXO0YAgPEOTvQpWDh7fNEw18fT7nsDY0PhaJqsvxzD0HIBVxQ/s1280/BearSpanks%201.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="958" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEWmrAN9rGPhJ-pDqfY803iE9hIvbmsvjk7MehPn16rUltZDC1pDJhWSuqNoKvDTGC7GahPqRue09AjAb3eU-dAQQTgWt1l4sCaeRKpWXypPLbRH_e5UaHDeZ_r8bzAC3xIPx9KV4hHmbXO0YAgPEOTvQpWDh7fNEw18fT7nsDY0PhaJqsvxzD0HIBVxQ/s320/BearSpanks%201.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><p></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">CC: The DYI, lo-tech approach you take is also a primary reason you are videographer of the year. It's so much more real. While it sounds as if that's not your reason for going lo-tech, I love it. Why not be turning this work into a money machine at Onlyfans.com? So many folks are making moolah doing this. One of the main reasons we wanted to interview you is because you are providing this free service to the Spanking Community.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><b>Bear Spanks</b>: I don’t want the camera to interfere with the Spanking, frankly. I have a much nicer bigger camera, but this works for me. I also have zero interest in making money from Spanking videos. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">I don’t want it to become a job. I love doing it, and I feel like making money would cheapen it somehow. Besides, people just take those videos and spread them around for free nowadays anyway.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><b><br /></b></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">As far as finding guys, I’ve always had a good group of regulars that I just Spank, and I simply asked them if they minded if I filmed the experience. Most of them agreed as long as I didn’t show their faces and that’s pretty easy to do when the focus is usually on their bare red bottoms. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">Once I started going to events like Bad Ass Weekend my world was opened to an entire group of new Spankos who were more than willing to show their naked burning buns to people on the internet. I also started Spanking anyone that asks at events. Anybody that wants a Spanking can get one from me there. I only film about 1/4 of the Spankings I give so that’s not a requirement for a Spanking from me.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhy53zJlFfO283eCtwxjsO2d5azmTqLuDdKL9Ms0VJfHwSu48hrluafecTwLbtk3A8ebLLrWPkcIayvgDCgiK8ROlopVy66OkYDKMAsQgHJF_-wvMXMqRXFSx_aETszL6pQc_OQx7V_Cz7n-qDQlh96EyPdgqQDP3C9NJKngHl5XdJiSMYygNycc72XXZ0/s1280/BearSpanks%203.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="958" data-original-width="1280" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhy53zJlFfO283eCtwxjsO2d5azmTqLuDdKL9Ms0VJfHwSu48hrluafecTwLbtk3A8ebLLrWPkcIayvgDCgiK8ROlopVy66OkYDKMAsQgHJF_-wvMXMqRXFSx_aETszL6pQc_OQx7V_Cz7n-qDQlh96EyPdgqQDP3C9NJKngHl5XdJiSMYygNycc72XXZ0/w400-h300/BearSpanks%203.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span><p></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">CC: Yeah, you have a lively presence at these live event gatherings. And you do this work at non-exclusively-Spanking events like bear and leather events. Can you share (1) what got you confident enough to attend a paid Spanking event and (2) what your favorite Spanking Community events are. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><b>BearSpanks: </b>Redbearspanker basically didn’t give me a choice. He messaged me once the worst of covid was over, and he said “I signed you up as my roommate for Bad Ass Weekend. And you’re going.” And that’s what happened. I had talked about joining him for years but could never make it work as far as scheduling, but he didn’t give me a choice. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">Bad Ass was my first Spanking event, but I’d gone to plenty of other fetish and bear events. Bad Ass will always be my favorite. It’s like Spanko heaven. Everything you ever dreamed about doing as far as M/m Spanking is concerned is possible there, and everyone is amazingly nice and welcoming.<br /><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">There are guys who go to all the events and we all know each other and have quickly become friends. If you’re into M/m Spanking and have never been to Bad Ass Weekend or Hot Seat Retreat you need to go as soon as possible. These are truly life changing events and my life (and videos) have only gotten better since attending.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><br /></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimQHtZ8z3HOcv4NNz_7o40W5_r7Mvg4HH2G3euxopKveecRUn0RlgxhH_TYdqcSACT8zGA-v7U7Cw8Scjli0m9H6gbNs2k0UeInWaLx0praIMzRqnIrRr8ekR4BVNkJhKfbKDQ8BhonzEQJURBMQzfnwtjkgUG1sdKkRbGSft019r2DPqzPDod8oTSOAM/s962/Bear%20Spanks%20Red%20Bottom.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="962" data-original-width="959" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimQHtZ8z3HOcv4NNz_7o40W5_r7Mvg4HH2G3euxopKveecRUn0RlgxhH_TYdqcSACT8zGA-v7U7Cw8Scjli0m9H6gbNs2k0UeInWaLx0praIMzRqnIrRr8ekR4BVNkJhKfbKDQ8BhonzEQJURBMQzfnwtjkgUG1sdKkRbGSft019r2DPqzPDod8oTSOAM/s320/Bear%20Spanks%20Red%20Bottom.jpg" width="319" /></a></div><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: times; font-size: 16px;">Some of my boys I’ve been Spanking for 7-8 years now, "</span><span style="font-family: times; font-size: 16px; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: white; outline: none;">Pphone" for example, I S</span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: 16px;">panked every 6 weeks or so. "Atlanta" (a boy I Spank often)</span><span style="font-family: times; font-size: 16px; outline: none;"><span style="outline: none;">, I</span> tried to</span><span style="font-family: times; font-size: 16px;"> </span></span>Spank every 2-3 weeks. <p></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><br /></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;">Some guys like "kev" I only see at events like Bad Ass or Hot Seat or IML. However, he knows that if we are both at an event, I’m gonna yank his tighty whities down, and spank his cute bare little bottom. </p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><br /></p><div><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">I’ve never met a boy who needs a Spanking as much as "junior," and nobody who reacts as honestly in a Spanking video. He’s a very bad boy that needs a Daddy to put him over his knee and to Spank his bare bottom. And he knows it. Sometimes the tears would start before the very first swat even lands! I haven’t gotten to Spank him for a while, but I hope that I get to again, someday soon. I truly care about him like a son.</span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">With the passing of Redbearspanker, Mike Smith has taken over the role of my Daddy bear and keeps my hairy ass nice and red at most events. I truly feel the best Spankers are the ones that still get it occasionally. And I don’t like to use an implement, unless I have felt it myself. I also feel like it’s only fair that I share some videos of me with my bare red ass on display occasionally. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJYQ7OswIe5TqiYmKQ_A6Nzf5bTEICDOZyAZTWmPOMBrWQRvD3A_LCWFQ7KRGI6Z6AbtoK46UDaFVJrI_-8nwClh7zuSQZfV-lB1Hpy9WMPBTH4_xM-JFV_TOnSh01g4u4gSq4KoZXuHnpDJGoP4sTOdQs74aqsR-OJoPdvHJtwAPs6ycT_EGTu6QaqT4/s1284/Mike%20Smith.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="734" data-original-width="1284" height="183" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJYQ7OswIe5TqiYmKQ_A6Nzf5bTEICDOZyAZTWmPOMBrWQRvD3A_LCWFQ7KRGI6Z6AbtoK46UDaFVJrI_-8nwClh7zuSQZfV-lB1Hpy9WMPBTH4_xM-JFV_TOnSh01g4u4gSq4KoZXuHnpDJGoP4sTOdQs74aqsR-OJoPdvHJtwAPs6ycT_EGTu6QaqT4/s320/Mike%20Smith.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;">What it comes down to for me is that I want to make every guy feel safe and loved and cared about when they’re wiggling over my lap getting a good, old-fashioned bare bottom Spanking. No matter how embarrassing it is or how much it hurts, I truly hope that comes across in my videos. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><b>CC: </b>Whoa whoa whoa...now I'm sorry, but is there really a thing that is a "good" old-fashioned bare-bottom Spanking? For me, they are always "bad!" </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><b>BearSpanks: </b></span><span style="background-color: transparent; font-family: arial; font-size: 16px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times; outline: none;">it’s the boys that are bad. The Spankings are always very, very good :)</span></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p1" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; min-height: 22px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: times;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="outline: none;"></span><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;">If you want a Spanking (on <a href=" https://www.spankingtube.com/user/bearspanks/videos" target="_blank"><b>my SpankingTube videos</b></a> or not), find me on Whappz and ask or come say hi at an event. That’s literally all it takes. </span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><span class="yiv6310167473s1" style="font-family: times; outline: none;"><br /></span></p><p class="yiv6310167473p2" style="background-color: white; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none;"><br /></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2WEkrBvtMxOMNHngJ2BNPK7C25szZDlGRd8KE0Qpesl7iyY7tLoaS3cagDEkZrvsYg0Bh2x0UAbZbKtqJ98CY4B7wiqgi4Ij8fNZ5hvLHfdXGDGxYeg8fAaOBpmIPeQNA74KdhB8VFtpSjOiemGRQE1_OgVx3UmCaX-UZQhHbYi-16ZlAJLGBAQ5NJMM/s1280/BearSpanks%206.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="970" data-original-width="1280" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2WEkrBvtMxOMNHngJ2BNPK7C25szZDlGRd8KE0Qpesl7iyY7tLoaS3cagDEkZrvsYg0Bh2x0UAbZbKtqJ98CY4B7wiqgi4Ij8fNZ5hvLHfdXGDGxYeg8fAaOBpmIPeQNA74KdhB8VFtpSjOiemGRQE1_OgVx3UmCaX-UZQhHbYi-16ZlAJLGBAQ5NJMM/w400-h304/BearSpanks%206.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-family: times;"><br /></span><p></p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; 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border: none; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Favorit, "Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: 16px; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variant-position: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: 1.5; margin: 15px 0px; min-height: 1.5em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: var(--post-padding); padding-right: var(--post-padding); padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve; width: 540px; word-break: break-word;"><p style="border: none; font-family: inherit; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 0.75em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">There is nothing that makes you feel more like a child then having your trousers taken down and put over the knee for a spanking! The images below are from <a href="https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/35973/17340844/the-price-for-a-poor-performance" target="_blank">"The <span style="font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit;">Price for a Poor Performance." </span></a></p><p style="border: none; font-family: inherit; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 0.75em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">This video is a good example of "layers" or starting with clothes on and working one's way to a bare-bottomed Spanking.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDM1XaJG7HJ86OD9P5XsICck40DX9oHUKMkC5AEp0kkIE1e2bdjvpkRdJr1J__4h_K3fxO3Au3BKvAJPZyIpARNGVwqLkAMI-6T584SA5C3CnEPSaju5kj1RQRfSo-2KKS-36jaRYIw_rHmGvErn8V9HaBuZdCS_FNvZJrQo60G51IIH0Ed2Eww2Lfqe8/s332/tumblr_p0afwgpS311vrx9buo1_400%20g%20trousers%20up%20first.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="332" data-original-width="332" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDM1XaJG7HJ86OD9P5XsICck40DX9oHUKMkC5AEp0kkIE1e2bdjvpkRdJr1J__4h_K3fxO3Au3BKvAJPZyIpARNGVwqLkAMI-6T584SA5C3CnEPSaju5kj1RQRfSo-2KKS-36jaRYIw_rHmGvErn8V9HaBuZdCS_FNvZJrQo60G51IIH0Ed2Eww2Lfqe8/s320/tumblr_p0afwgpS311vrx9buo1_400%20g%20trousers%20up%20first.webp" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p style="border: none; font-family: inherit; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 0.75em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="https://www.tumblr.com/trix7788/168080226649/there-is-nothing-that-makes-you-feel-more-like-a?source=share" target="_blank">trix7788 shared this video on his Tumblr</a>, and we have to concur with his sentiment. One of the best things about a Spanking in layers is that the boy slowly gets brought down to size.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7YLijAykoT5GGOGWGUC8QIrieXpg9-gZnXyVlTC1awEI6cNdTqw77SLzIuK3Kgu8JQ-1jm_tWLAu9BFf1Pl7idMfqc5BEiWeMNCtIdpOeRL-YLz2gopJ0kSi9CjWL73w85cesU9UWCJtp8t2tA05s4Z7iQgjUjurDFnfQwPcc3hWBrMHcQOvMwyOXOls/s332/yanking%20Trix7788s%20pants%20down%20by%20MancSpank.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="332" data-original-width="332" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7YLijAykoT5GGOGWGUC8QIrieXpg9-gZnXyVlTC1awEI6cNdTqw77SLzIuK3Kgu8JQ-1jm_tWLAu9BFf1Pl7idMfqc5BEiWeMNCtIdpOeRL-YLz2gopJ0kSi9CjWL73w85cesU9UWCJtp8t2tA05s4Z7iQgjUjurDFnfQwPcc3hWBrMHcQOvMwyOXOls/s320/yanking%20Trix7788s%20pants%20down%20by%20MancSpank.webp" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="border: none; font-family: inherit; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 0.75em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">"trix7788 has a Spanking fetish, I've known trix for for quite sometime now, and we have built up a trusting bond and friendship, which took a long time and courage for his 1st visit. He trusts me and is comfortable with me, as i Spank him..." </p><p style="border: none; font-family: inherit; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 0.75em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">—@Salfordguy50</p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; color: #777777; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span style="font-family: times;"><strong style="box-sizing: inherit;"><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"><h3 style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); color: black; text-align: left;">Please comment below or </span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/5315173549173972953/8493439403032945067#" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; 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text-align: justify;"></span></p><h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the more frustrating things for Daddys and boys in a relationship is how expensive all the gadgets, clothing, and Spanking Tools can cost. It's an inflationary world, folks, and we here at Cornertime Confidential believe that we should rely on the tried and true approaches to family-focused Discipline. When you are out shopping, out and about on the street, or maybe visiting the hardware store or in Springtime, maybe the nursery store, take a look around and think to yourself:</span></span></h2><h2 style="text-align: left;"><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">"What here could do double duty at home?" </span></span></li><li><span style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;">What could you use for a practical household tool and a Spanking Tool? </span></li><li><span style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;">Looks like someone's laundry flew out of the car window, those briefs look like they could fit my boy. A good wash in the machine and they'll be his new Spanking 'pants.</span></li><li><span style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;">When you buy new chairs for the living room table, maybe ensure you have plenty of chairs without arms for over the lap Spankings. </span></li><li><span style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;">And when you're in the kitchen sections of a store, think, do any of the cutting boards look right for more than just charcuterie? </span></li></ul><div><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In today's post, here's a look at one purchase that really made a difference in our lives at home.</span></span></div></h2><h2 style="text-align: left;">A Post From the Past: Keeping an Eye Out For DD Opportunities</h2><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzxN2FAJHwP_4nTI1k9LpODoGySjXK9gGHs-cQOUMWOc4__95vRqxnsAmZP0tEjaSkw0jWTTqF-JVCtCjmFGVWj90EtQWAW6VaM6wGWlQgRtr-sVtiVyuohgUCfHaGc2DyhnKxY8t5yFYjebJRxRHM1ZNsFbLwqWEnfJgT_zy_ZI44sD2JVZgknQcp/s1600/Marshall's%20Paddles.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="900" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzxN2FAJHwP_4nTI1k9LpODoGySjXK9gGHs-cQOUMWOc4__95vRqxnsAmZP0tEjaSkw0jWTTqF-JVCtCjmFGVWj90EtQWAW6VaM6wGWlQgRtr-sVtiVyuohgUCfHaGc2DyhnKxY8t5yFYjebJRxRHM1ZNsFbLwqWEnfJgT_zy_ZI44sD2JVZgknQcp/w360-h640/Marshall's%20Paddles.jpg" width="360" /></a></div><i>Before Daddy and I moved in together, we lived separately and he had a roommate. In this blast from the past, we learn a little bit about how we managed things when we were not living together.</i></div><div><br /></div>Was out shopping at Marshall's (for those not living in America, Marshall's is a chain of stores that sells cut-price clothing, housewares, and all manner of things you might want), and they are currently stocking a handy dandy paddle stand! Cornertime Confidential felt an emergency blogpost was in order, since these things run out all the time and then never return to stores.<p></p><p><span style="color: #333333; text-align: justify;">My Daddy and I was having dinner and he said, "So why do you need 4 small cutting boards?...uh...oh...<i>wait a minute</i>...Oh, I get why you bought these!"</span></p><p><span style="color: #333333; text-align: justify;">And that's when I took one of the paddles, placed it next to him at the table and said, "Please take this home with you, so we have a proper paddle at your house when you need to Spank."</span></p><p><span style="color: #333333; text-align: justify;">Daddy smiled, and we discussed how his roommate would be out until Wednesday, so I should come over on Tuesday for a proper, sound Maintenance Spanking.</span></p><p><span style="color: #333333; text-align: justify;">By the time you read this blogpost, my fanny will be red, courtesy of Marshall's. I highly encourage you all <i>to run, not walk</i>, to your nearest Marshall's. Head to the housewares section where they keep cutting boards and get yerself a handy dandy paddle stand. The stand comes with 4 really really sturdy paddles that look like they'll never break no matter how solid your boys' bottoms are.</span></p><div class="article-content entry-content" itemprop="articleBody" style="clear: both; color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; margin: 10px auto 5px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">If you see someone elbowing you out of the way to get at them in the store, it's probably just another Cornertime Confidential reader. So play nice!<br /><br /><div style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20.79px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;">________________________________________</span></div><div style="background-color: white; line-height: 20.79px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><div style="font-family: arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><br /></div><div style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><i><b>Post-publication update: </b></i></span></div><div style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-family: times;"><div style="color: black; font-size: medium; margin: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px;"><i><span>A big thank you to Real Master at</span><a href="http://rulesandprotocols.tumblr.com/"> Naked House boy </a><span>tumblr. (This link is now dead, thanks to Tumblr "cleansing" their site of great bloggers like Real Master). His blog appears to be about the following: "</span></i></span><span style="font-size: 14px; text-align: center;"><span face=""arial" , "tahoma" , "helvetica" , "freesans" , sans-serif" style="color: #333333;"><i>Real Master in Northern California Seeks Real House Boys To Live Naked These Are Rules and Protocols. For Full-Time House Boys (Part Time and Temps Have Fewer Rules)." And reading his blog, we can see there are plenty of boys across the country considering his home as a place where they can learn to be his "house boy." We think there's a ton on this blog of his that could appeal to some Cornertime Confidential readers.</i></span></span></div><div style="color: black; font-size: medium; margin: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px;"><i><br /></i></span></div><div style="color: black; font-size: medium; margin: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px;"><i>At any rate, there on Friday, Jan. 27, 2017, he reposted the blog above. But he added some interesting depth about WHY he was reblogging. His story was compelling to us here at Cornertime Confidential. Hope you find this eye opening:</i></span></div></span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><i><b><br /></b></i></span></div></div></div><p><b>The Freedom of Speech Prop </b></p><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><div class="article-content entry-content" itemprop="articleBody" style="clear: both; color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; margin: 10px auto 5px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><div style="background-color: white; line-height: 20.79px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><div style="font-family: arial, tahoma, helvetica, freesans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"></div></div></div><div class="article-content entry-content" itemprop="articleBody" style="clear: both; color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; margin: 10px auto 5px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><div style="background-color: white; line-height: 20.79px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><div style="color: #444444; font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.6; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><div style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><i><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif;">This reblog comes from ‘Cornertime Confidential’, an interesting and informative blog devoted to Spankers and Spankees. While Spanking isn’t the primary focus of what I do, Corporal Punishment is used for correction on House Boys who act out or fail to meet expectations, and some of my house guests have expressed curiosity about disciplinary procedures (asking detailed questions and even dropping-in just about the time a pre-scheduled discipline is about to take place).</span></i></div></div></div></div><div class="article-content entry-content" itemprop="articleBody" style="clear: both; color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; margin: 10px auto 5px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><div style="background-color: white; line-height: 20.79px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><div style="color: #444444; font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.6; margin: 1em 0px 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><div style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><i><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif;">For the more vanilla visitors – including first-time guests – the Handy Dandy Paddle Stand could make an interesting conversation starter, and I’ve authorized funds to be spent on the purchase of one ASAP. When new implements arrive, they need to tested for defects (of course!) and a House Boy has already been notified of his selection for this duty. Product testing is considered an ‘Educational Initiative’ and not punishment, and the boy should not feel ashamed that he will be required to bend over naked and assist Master in determining that the new implements meet Quality Control specifications. As with all of his duties and chores, the House Boy has no right to privacy during this activity, regardless of who may present and could observe.</span></i></div></div></div></div><div class="article-content entry-content" itemprop="articleBody" style="clear: both; color: #333333; line-height: 1.4; margin: 10px auto 5px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><div style="background-color: white; line-height: 20.79px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><div style="color: #444444; font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.6; margin: 1em 0px 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><div style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><i><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif;">The Handy Dandy Paddle Stand is considered a ‘Freedom of Speech Prop’ and Master has the right to place it on display at any time, anywhere on the property. 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Cutting boards yes, but check out wooden spoons, spatulas, slippers, and of course bath brushes and hair brushes too. This xmas, our local Ross store was selling Swissco bath brushes for 3.99$ What a bargain, these bushes are solid beech handles, and are weighted at the scrubbing end with rubber massage knobs hidden under the bristles. They are heavy and sting like heck, I do a war dance every time i am treated to a dose. Plenty of hoops and hollers too!</p></div></li></ol></div></div></div></div></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5315173549173972953.post-55459517238567945762024-02-18T23:00:00.054-08:002024-02-18T23:00:00.128-08:00Advice Needed: Your First Meet Up<h2 style="text-align: left;"><b>How to Meet Up With New Dom for the First Time</b></h2><h3 style="text-align: left;">by A<a href="https://twitter.com/Ask_This_Daddy/status/1303161163899904002" target="_blank">sk Daddy</a></h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcA6vODo5dw2m7p3jN1TrLdiLkaYIUM_iSeFcE66k0b9x8bqPVTHM-AWZ-FQ8_NLkdO9G_Olh6bfLiBdxc2IXQfmH6U60PLKjZHpH8lDqSrTP0XzgQxJBFKifG2iMJE4g2EUg73-qQ9D6dgD97P5j3B8bvVX24u4oqptJvLXtmJ_qb7blmiFAzkiRz69U/s735/Daddy%20and%20boy%20checking%20texts.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="735" data-original-width="500" height="408" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcA6vODo5dw2m7p3jN1TrLdiLkaYIUM_iSeFcE66k0b9x8bqPVTHM-AWZ-FQ8_NLkdO9G_Olh6bfLiBdxc2IXQfmH6U60PLKjZHpH8lDqSrTP0XzgQxJBFKifG2iMJE4g2EUg73-qQ9D6dgD97P5j3B8bvVX24u4oqptJvLXtmJ_qb7blmiFAzkiRz69U/w278-h408/Daddy%20and%20boy%20checking%20texts.jpg" width="278" /></a></div><div>Meeting for the first time with a potential spanker is an extremely vulnerable position for a boy. The trick is preserving the positive feelings of vulnerability and submissiveness that are important for a boy, but without those feelings being induced by risk or danger.</div><div><div><br /></div><div>While you might rely on technology to make a first connection with a potential disciplinarian, going old school is still the safest way to meet: in public.</div><div><br /></div><div>Meeting that way helps guarantee a boy's safety, and provides an ability for him to assess the situation and spanker and ensure it's a good fit. But there's another good reason to make your first meeting in public:</div><div><br /></div><div>The relationship between you and a spanker is 99% between the ears, and only 1% over the knee. There's no reason a skilled, intelligent, and empathetic Dom can't connect with you in public and discreetly make you feel all the things a boy needs to feel:</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Submissive. </li><li>Taken in hand. </li><li>Led. </li></ul></div><div>Even better, if he can make you feel all of that <i>AND COMFORTABLE</i> around him in public, you've got a good signal that he's likely willing and able to do that in private, with your pants down, and with your butt on the line.</div><div><br /></div><div>Personally, I never Spank on the "first date." A boy has to interview with me in public, then go away and think about the road ahead. If he comes back to me, then I know he's ready to receive Discipline, learn from it, and demonstrate his gratitude. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>For him...</b></div><div>...it means a zero-pressure meeting, an opportunity to present himself in the best light and as a great candidate for Discipline, and of course an easy way to back out of something he's not ready for.</div><div><br /></div><div>Plus, a boy can use the first public meeting as an way to demonstrate his commitment and interest. Ask to be assigned a dress code for the meeting. Ask what kind of underwear you'd like him in. How he wants you to do your hair. How he wants you to address him in public.</div><div><br /></div><div>Proximity isn't always possible. If you have to travel to meet a potential Spanker, stick to the rules: </div><div><ol style="text-align: left;"><li><b>Make a plan to meet in a public space</b>, not the train station or airport where you're arriving. </li><li><b>Have a plan B</b>: a fun day out in a new town or simply a flexible return ticket.</li><li><b>Lastly, protect yourself first.</b> Make a plan with a friend to check in by phone at a certain time. Share your location while respecting a Dom's privacy. </li></ol></div></div><div>Go with your gut. Never, ever, ever go with a Spanker or Dom you don't trust, believe in, and respect.</div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>—From an original question posed by <a href="https://twitter.com/waistack" target="_blank">@waistack</a>.</b></div><div style="box-sizing: inherit; color: #777777; font-family: lato, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><strong style="box-sizing: inherit;"><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"><h3 style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); color: black; font-size: 14px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></h3><h3 style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); color: black; 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margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj25LLpPc_XiFWEqee3rJEWfg2NonLmaHqoNuyghHPIOAm00hzVsS1ZOc6PBlXAvZiWFlwUaEMPN7FmSM3fKwjIQSAGcy3h5mTfC1Q-vb-2hcKPd2HpoTEJag4WU2NaRy7I_nRh8mIAaJv7SdZOEAH8ZNSKh2M-phufwRegHeNx7k3oN873DVHmW3bjixc/s1280/chair-g06edfa035_1280.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="972" data-original-width="1280" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj25LLpPc_XiFWEqee3rJEWfg2NonLmaHqoNuyghHPIOAm00hzVsS1ZOc6PBlXAvZiWFlwUaEMPN7FmSM3fKwjIQSAGcy3h5mTfC1Q-vb-2hcKPd2HpoTEJag4WU2NaRy7I_nRh8mIAaJv7SdZOEAH8ZNSKh2M-phufwRegHeNx7k3oN873DVHmW3bjixc/w400-h304/chair-g06edfa035_1280.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Not just some innocent piece of furniture!</i></b></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p>As a boy, I shore can tell you I know what I see: a platform for a Spanking. Stick with me a minute here. These chairs will be the death of me! When I see these chairs in a house, I always find a way to get the heck away from them. </p><p>Do you realise just how easy it is for a Daddy to pull you across his lap and Spank your bottom? </p><p>Well, I do. And take it from me, these chairs are the proximate cause. But it's Valentine's Day week, and I wanted to share with you a big heart story. Last year, I became a <i>yente</i> hitching together two people who I felt really needed to meet each other. See, I had a friend who was really struggling finding the right Daddy. I mean for a long time. He kept getting involved with the wrong kind of guys. And after I introduced my friend, someone I knew pretty darned well, everything changed for him, <i>for them!</i> He's now in the midst of a new relationship with this Daddy. </p><p>When I asked him how it was going, he said: </p><p><b><i></i></b></p><blockquote><b><i><span style="font-size: medium;">"On my last visit to his house, I noticed I could barely find a single chair in the house that had arms on it. None of the chairs seem to have arms on them!"</span> </i></b></blockquote><p></p><p>I mean, <i>what the heck!? </i></p><p>This particular boy's Daddy has been seeking out the right boy for years. So truth be told, I am so pleased to be the one who hooked them up. They are working through each element of what it's like to be a Daddy/boy team right now, and by the time you read this, I'm hoping they'll be way down the field on that. But in the meantime: <i>that poor boy!</i></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3Ubi28cS_48TOiG3Smo9wNdTx-ZLSzpmn_hOQMCaYaT_3bLswwFAo8Gcr2VToRtN-dKpKKXdmoa3Va4oSDXDBGPriHfQqJ75ToDbuGmcnSXepJbGzGLhSyKOu4bxWUtfjhOOURMbPtNivVlkpHDgnocuC0QmyYJ0PyplQ8Au1BjjTwMw0WlghdzTH1-Y/s411/The%20Hairbrush%20Waits%20on%20The%20Spanking%20Chair.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="411" data-original-width="400" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3Ubi28cS_48TOiG3Smo9wNdTx-ZLSzpmn_hOQMCaYaT_3bLswwFAo8Gcr2VToRtN-dKpKKXdmoa3Va4oSDXDBGPriHfQqJ75ToDbuGmcnSXepJbGzGLhSyKOu4bxWUtfjhOOURMbPtNivVlkpHDgnocuC0QmyYJ0PyplQ8Au1BjjTwMw0WlghdzTH1-Y/s320/The%20Hairbrush%20Waits%20on%20The%20Spanking%20Chair.jpg" width="311" /></a></div><i><br /></i><p></p><p>At any point, <i>anywhere</i> in their house, my friend could easily get a Spanking! This is like the worst thing ever. But I mean, this result is a side-effect of being in a Daddy/boy relationship. A lot of boys send us messages here at Cornertime Confidential asking about Daddy/boy relationships and how to begin one. And I'm quick to say they are by far and away the very best form of a relationship. (I've had other types of relationships, and for my money, Daddy/boy is the best). <br /><br />However, I also try to mention, it's not all trips to amusement parks, free ice cream cones, and gobs of candy. <i>Sometimes it's about managing your behaviour after the sugar rush! </i></p><p>For help with the latter, my friend's Daddy has a list of Rules he's having to follow and learn. He's not allowed to do a whole bunch of things. But last we talked, he was struggling less with the Rules, and more with the dynamics of how it all works. He says he likes Daddy a lot, he understands and appreciates the Rules, he likes to break the Rules when it's no big deal, and he enjoys being his Daddy's boy. </p><p>But I'm pretty sure...every time he sees the chair in the other room, he thinks...</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcrNqJoDxl9dm-7tfrvxgx4Qj0ygrqIHJ0QztZwd6CxQLbxFDDmbcl4eWcFdY-Xnu2IAsrJt_JgYiIG_6PPBqEvATWDg4scIqkXWN_R6F_E8KOONKh8L4sX4vCkXOVn5gFSviPCfT8-fBz_V7eNmWPj0B-GRA32VWNbMR6tT-9IfQ3pNTRx2fRHFoChKs/s700/Across%20Daddys%20Lap.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="534" data-original-width="700" height="244" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcrNqJoDxl9dm-7tfrvxgx4Qj0ygrqIHJ0QztZwd6CxQLbxFDDmbcl4eWcFdY-Xnu2IAsrJt_JgYiIG_6PPBqEvATWDg4scIqkXWN_R6F_E8KOONKh8L4sX4vCkXOVn5gFSviPCfT8-fBz_V7eNmWPj0B-GRA32VWNbMR6tT-9IfQ3pNTRx2fRHFoChKs/s320/Across%20Daddys%20Lap.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p>Have a very happy Valentine's Day in a couple of days as you seek our your perfect Daddy or boy. If I can play yente for you, I would too! :-) Maybe the blog will help give you the ideas you need to find your ideal Daddy or boy. 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A lot of the finer points in being in a Spanking-centered relationship or seeking out Discipline-centered experiences with partners online can be summed up with a simple thought: vary what you do. </span><br style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;" /></h2><div><span style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;">That isn't to say become a "switch" player. Although, that's perfectly fine and wonderful, of course. </span></div><div><span style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;">But literally vary what you do when you Discipline a boy or how you connect with a Man Who Spanks. It's important to try to avoid being something of a "one-hit wonder." </span></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"><b>Different Responses for Different Levels of Misbehaviour</b></h3>
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Not all misbehaviour needs the same response. boys need to <i><b>earn</b></i> their Spankings. Even when you are meeting a boy for the first time, always think about levels of seriousness. This will help you to keep a better, more effective eye on his actions.<br />
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In reality, there are a variety of approaches you can take. Here's a few visual aids to help you think through better ways to Discipline adult boys. A finger wag, A warning, A Time Out, Sending him to his room, and more. Hope you find these simple, common Domestic Discipline techniques helpful as you plan your next Daddy/boy visit.<br />
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Not every boy's actions require a Spanking. All these other levels will make each Daddy/boy meet up better, longer, and provide both people a more robust experience.<br />
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After publication of a November blogpost on <a href="http://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2018/11/some-guidance-on-being-daddy-to-adult.html">Guidance on Being a Daddy for adult boys</a>, a VIP reader asked for some more detailed tips about how to incorporate bath time for boys and their Daddys. The mission of this blog is certainly to share tips, tricks, and ideas about how to live fully the adult boy lifestyle, and in that spirit, we bring you:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: trebuchet;"><b>TIP #1:</b> Don't make it sexual. Make it a caring moment.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: trebuchet;"><b>TIP #5: </b>Easiest to do this in a bathtub that doesn't have hard glass doors. In our old house, it was easier than in the new one. But Daddy can still do this, but the higher, fancier new tub is much more work for Daddy to get over the edge.</span></div>
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It's important that a Daddy/boy dynamic be reinforced regularly or else two adult men will lose the frisson of the relationship and become just like everyone else: just another two people living together. </p><p>This is a frustration felt by nearly all folks living in a Daddy/boy relationship at some point. One method that works to help to at least remediate that feeling a bit is turning to "Daddy's ToolBox."</p><p>Some may ask, why focus on the need for Discipline? Why not talk about the fun stuff that a Daddy and boy can get up to. We think we do in many ways, but we are making an implicit assumption that you already have fun things you do that you both enjoy doing together. We don't want to tell Daddys and boys how to do that. We do think that it's far more complicated to know how to keep the DD part of your life together well-balanced. So today we want to introduce Daddy's ToolBox. In future blog entries, we'll dive deeper into the details of how a DD relationship can employ creative solutions to keeping your Daddy/boy relationship thriving. </p><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWYo6umlkZdhvfocfQStXpiDNMyI_3Fg4NESu43wROZM4rKWWYN1QfH4be3QzwDhEbNLSoUknnixhJP0K2QvdGZmsETkxO3D9-nKxTGhREeF7jPpIkgd7-jOXBr_mMvlg2xyYgNj8-BJKB3TJM5ta_vXQ0UGpD17yyoFSj2X83mmQSgXAuG_gpi-90tpA/s872/3%20Strikes%20and%20You're%20Out%20Chart%20for%20the%20Fridge.gif" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="872" data-original-width="631" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWYo6umlkZdhvfocfQStXpiDNMyI_3Fg4NESu43wROZM4rKWWYN1QfH4be3QzwDhEbNLSoUknnixhJP0K2QvdGZmsETkxO3D9-nKxTGhREeF7jPpIkgd7-jOXBr_mMvlg2xyYgNj8-BJKB3TJM5ta_vXQ0UGpD17yyoFSj2X83mmQSgXAuG_gpi-90tpA/w290-h400/3%20Strikes%20and%20You're%20Out%20Chart%20for%20the%20Fridge.gif" width="290" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Develop Ways That Work For You to <br />Know When It's Time For a Spanking</i></b></td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><b>Daddys Toolbox</b></h3><p>It's significant for a Daddy to assemble a ToolBox full of varying Spanking styles, tools, consequences, and benefits as options to have at his disposal so the relationship can procede more naturally without having to ask permission to punish his boy. Daddy's often are fixers and they know how to fix things. And the ToolBox metaphor can be instrumental in having a better Daddy/boy relationship. </p><p>It's critical for Daddy to communicate clearly and verbalize his intentions to his boy using understandable and recognizable terminology that boy and he comprehend both in the same way. The ToolBox is one way of concrete-izing that understanding.</p><p>For Daddy and me, We used it as a place for a common language, where we kept our definitions for what we'd be doing:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li><b>Maintenance Spankings</b> are delivered on a scheduled time and is not a punishment. They are used to reinforce the roles and the structure of our Discipline-centered relationship.</li><li><b>Punishment Spankings</b> are used more sparingly (assuming the boy is seeking not to be a constant troublemaker). They can actually, oddly, become more often much later in a relationship, because by the time you've been together a while, the boy should already know and value and honor the Rules Daddy set down. If he breaks those Rules, Punishment Spankings are a critical tool in Daddy's Toolbox for fixing things. </li><li><b>DD Discussions:</b> Creating a space for Domestic Discipline-focused discussion is valuable to help build the early and continuing structure in our consensual DD relationship. These discussions can create the very foundation of the rest of our relationship. </li></ul><p></p><div><div>Without a consensually agreed upon foundation, it's tough to make a DD dynamic work longer term. Daddy's DD Toolbox of Spanking and NonSpanking Tools (read: things that are within the realm of appropriate and expected; for example, testicle torture is not listed, therefore we do not engage in TT). </div><div><br /></div><div>And Our DD Plan and Strategy (in a page and a half, my Daddy and I outlined what serves as the basis for our Rules. It explains how Spankings are determined as necessary and then administered, and why we choose to implement weekly Maintenance Spankings. nonSpanking Discipline.) All this is outlined so Daddy has a list he can refer to as the need arises, and he doesn't need to check in with me. He can deploy consequences as necessary, thus making the Daddy/boy dynamic more authentic. For example, if things are getting problematic from Daddy's point of view, he can post a sign in the house like this:</div><div><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4SHluJwdnkdlpimcKMcKpMRMRuZb84vk9SYffRwbZyNBKZaICMAHrqQGnTKLpjLVYDekKxEKjpHYV2IWHFneaUgOX2TDtmgl8X2JT5hCC5HcaYjPbwSdz0PpTbdesSlVLhqdm_Q_4r6VgD3b6jV53Ex6p6JkXzz0WLXIga1Pe1uHKmmcfVvYWCsjPZ8w/s640/Cornertime%20Sign.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4SHluJwdnkdlpimcKMcKpMRMRuZb84vk9SYffRwbZyNBKZaICMAHrqQGnTKLpjLVYDekKxEKjpHYV2IWHFneaUgOX2TDtmgl8X2JT5hCC5HcaYjPbwSdz0PpTbdesSlVLhqdm_Q_4r6VgD3b6jV53Ex6p6JkXzz0WLXIga1Pe1uHKmmcfVvYWCsjPZ8w/s320/Cornertime%20Sign.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Posting Non-Verbal Warnings Can Help <br />When Talking it Through Won't Work</i></b></td></tr></tbody></table></div><div><br /></div><div>If Daddy is more into talking through things, he can initiate Open Discussions to create a consensual response to anything that may have arisen recently or in the last week or month. Sometimes even Daddys have a hard time identifying the right words to say, so reflecting on these in an Open Discussion with his boy can make sense. These are particularly effective at the beginning of a Daddy/boy relationship, because it gives both parties an equal voice -- assuming that talking about things or writing down things works for you guys. </div><div><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5ezwlLKiF-1m55fkfQbpN4Dwv0-Ie5QH-KaRgWbazRG7UXz0J8GdeBDWDeX3Ykv4gzAH8rGDLNEXql-u-7ngk8YTj6uIioRDWZpffPFJ2zXQTJw5SiR9mXmwoR57gs0S46NrZ8F-OF9x-06QKSKhPYq30Ut30Aq0v_8fqJbBVg00lr2dI9pAFhaaapro/s960/Leather%20Daddy%20with%20boy.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="720" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5ezwlLKiF-1m55fkfQbpN4Dwv0-Ie5QH-KaRgWbazRG7UXz0J8GdeBDWDeX3Ykv4gzAH8rGDLNEXql-u-7ngk8YTj6uIioRDWZpffPFJ2zXQTJw5SiR9mXmwoR57gs0S46NrZ8F-OF9x-06QKSKhPYq30Ut30Aq0v_8fqJbBVg00lr2dI9pAFhaaapro/s320/Leather%20Daddy%20with%20boy.jpg" width="240" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Open Discussions Work Well <br />for Some Daddys and Their boys</i></b></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><div><br /></div><div>An option for those men who are not inclined to speak up for themselves is the online diary or playbook for your specific relationship. There boy or Sir can speak their mind without having to speak aloud their needs.</div><div><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3v8FQ23WsVbt19omLEiawNeLkDAvzSf9WVUwtIY5QX1ZdNvV-C9xNamtYp9Xq6rS9H4gXUq39WzatH4bhwPUtmw-mScYtPrT7XnHxJrpZjReSvA5s15tu8FASqwv8j3zhitKjOHlLwWmFND-rhTJ6BCg9ycZlXlT3VCERcUO2vemmewPwlAvoc0PeUnc/s905/DD%20DIary%20.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="509" data-original-width="905" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3v8FQ23WsVbt19omLEiawNeLkDAvzSf9WVUwtIY5QX1ZdNvV-C9xNamtYp9Xq6rS9H4gXUq39WzatH4bhwPUtmw-mScYtPrT7XnHxJrpZjReSvA5s15tu8FASqwv8j3zhitKjOHlLwWmFND-rhTJ6BCg9ycZlXlT3VCERcUO2vemmewPwlAvoc0PeUnc/w400-h225/DD%20DIary%20.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>A Pic of My DD Diary Where We Keep Reflections of How Our Relationship is Going, <br />What Spankings Happened and Why</i></b></td></tr></tbody></table><div><br /></div><div>Once you arrive at a plan that works <i>for you both</i>, you need to continue scheduled discussions, Disciplinary Actions, chats, or online time to carry out your consensual plan. These activities need to be weekly in the beginning if you already live together. I recommend more often, but given our work-a-day world, that's not always possible. </div><div><br /></div><div><i>Why all this work up front? </i></div><div><br /></div><div>Because often times effective communication about DD parameters will fall to the side and old or unproductive patterns will resurge. Progress becomes a more continual path when there is a communication/discussion plan in place. There will inevitably be moments of frustration, and those who have been building their communication skills openly and honestly will have the necessary tools to make the changes needed to transform their moments of frustration into an opportunity for growth. Building a positive pattern from the beginning promotes further and more continuous Domestic Discipline growth. And it helps couples avoid becoming a vanilla version of what was once a dynamic DD partnership.</div><div><br /></div><div>Those who leap past building communication skills and having a plan in place first, may impede their long term growth by having to go through more frequent bouts of difficulty that will last longer. So the time taken is worthwhile, if not easy. </div></div><p>Your ToolBox can be simple or complicated. But we recommend keeping everything that's in the ToolBox simple and easily recalled. This would include a list of Spanking Tools you agree Daddy can use, nonSpanking Punishments Daddy will employ, and other Consequences that are allowed without consulting with you, so Daddy doesn't have to keep checking in with his boy every time something arises. This helps Daddy keep on task and helps the boy know precisely what can happen when a boy acts in a way contrary to the agreed limits, Rules, and expectations. </p><p>My Daddy and I built the following approach, and we really liked how it worked. 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font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">To achieve the goal</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> of </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">enjoying a </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">healthy, productive, satisfying, </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">and </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">complete Domestic Discipline relationship, Daddy and jake</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">agree that </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">we’ll</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; 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-webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Calibri, Calibri_EmbeddedFont, Calibri_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"></span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Calibri, Calibri_EmbeddedFont, Calibri_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle1 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%1." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":720,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,0],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%1.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; 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background-position: 0% 100%; background-repeat: repeat-x; border-bottom: 1px solid transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">Spankings</span></span><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; font-weight: bold; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"> </span><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">When possible given our schedules, Daddy will administer weekly Maintenance Spankings. These will be admi</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">nistered by Daddy 1 to 3 times a week as needed.</span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div><div class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{164}" paraid="2076416023" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Calibri, Calibri_EmbeddedFont, Calibri_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"></span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Calibri, Calibri_EmbeddedFont, Calibri_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; 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-webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 24px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{168}" paraid="283946877" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun Underlined SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; font-weight: bold; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">Disciplinary or Punishment Spankings</span></span><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> will be administered for expressly breaking House Rules. 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-webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle1 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="3" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%1." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":720,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,0],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%1.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 24px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{187}" paraid="1481814853" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun Underlined SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; font-weight: bold; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">Online Domestic Discipline Diary</span></span><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; font-weight: bold; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US">: </span><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US">jake will keep an online or handwritten diary for Daddy to review and write in/add to/and edit at any time he wants, so the relationship can have a safe place for:</span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle2 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="1" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; list-style-type: lower-alpha; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="2" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%2." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":1440,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,4],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%2.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 72px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{212}" paraid="437922151" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US">✔️Honest reflection of our ideas and thoughts about what either of us needs help with.</span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle2 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="2" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; list-style-type: lower-alpha; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="2" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%2." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":1440,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,4],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%2.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 72px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{229}" paraid="470474623" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US">✔️An instrument for communication and clarification</span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div></div><div class="SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: white; font-family: Calibri, Calibri_MSFontService, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle2 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="3" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; list-style-type: lower-alpha; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="2" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%2." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":1440,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,4],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%2.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 72px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{236}" paraid="168549321" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US">✔️Keep track of misbehavior</span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle2 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="4" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; list-style-type: lower-alpha; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="2" data-aria-posinset="4" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%2." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":1440,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,4],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%2.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 72px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{243}" paraid="1577139698" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">✔️Develop ideas for topics </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">we</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> need to respond to</span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle2 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="5" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; list-style-type: lower-alpha; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="2" data-aria-posinset="5" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%2." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":1440,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,4],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%2.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 72px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{0df641d2-22d0-42ac-8e33-0bdbb3c3be7f}{254}" paraid="1516387365" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">✔️General feelings about the DD life </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">we</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> are leading together</span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle2 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="6" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; list-style-type: lower-alpha; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="2" data-aria-posinset="6" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%2." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":1440,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,4],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%2.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; clear: both; cursor: text; direction: ltr; display: block; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px 0px 0px 72px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline;"><p class="Paragraph SCXW101991013 BCX0" paraeid="{2358bb0c-7e3e-4e1d-a427-78036ac0b555}{10}" paraid="1325591626" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; color: windowtext; font-kerning: none; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; user-select: text; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span class="TextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-contrast="auto" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" lang="EN-US" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-ligatures: none; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;" xml:lang="EN-US"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">✔️What went wrong when Punishment Spankings </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">we</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">re </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">required</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> and how to avoid</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> them in the future.</span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></li></ol></div><div class="ListContainerWrapper SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; user-select: text;"><ol class="NumberListStyle2 SCXW101991013 BCX0" role="list" start="7" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; cursor: text; list-style-type: lower-alpha; margin: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"><li aria-setsize="-1" class="OutlineElement Ltr SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-aria-level="2" data-aria-posinset="7" data-font="Calibri" data-leveltext="%2." data-list-defn-props="{"335552541":0,"335559684":-1,"335559685":1440,"335559991":360,"469769242":[65533,4],"469777803":"left","469777804":"%2.","469777815":"hybridMultilevel"}" data-listid="2" role="listitem" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; 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-webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">✔️New ideas</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> to work on </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">about how we might work together to </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">correct</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> behavior</span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; 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background-position: 0% 100%; background-repeat: repeat-x; border-bottom: 1px solid transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;">NonSpanking</span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW101991013 BCX0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> Punishments can be applied.</span></span><span class="EOP SCXW101991013 BCX0" color="windowtext" data-ccp-props="{"134233118":false,"201341983":0,"335559739":0,"335559740":259}" face="Arial, Arial_EmbeddedFont, Arial_MSFontService, sans-serif" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; -webkit-user-drag: none; background-color: transparent; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 19.425px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; user-select: text;"> </span></p></div></div></blockquote><strong style="box-sizing: inherit; color: #777777; font-family: lato, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: center;"><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"><div style="box-sizing: inherit; 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float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="700" data-original-width="454" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjS97ORyshqXv6L7F01_gXruk_ixwcgKvZJQQZOVNaLT5Qzct0gyshcZLR1g6h9hHiQkDXe0BDyn8uWLrrIS62m8rnE3pgEBnpJHiLA2wJIRPr0aQrKMOCP68KitgaDe5fj_nF7W3vb2YuUe83weKr7ZeJATH2PlvT2L-nyiiYaGGOMhhT3pgqEap-mRCo/w260-h400/boys%20house%20rules.jpg" width="260" /></a></div>Our House Rules Are: <span face="Arial, sans-serif">(also referred to as Daddy’s Rules) were developed right off the bat because they were easy for us to remember. They were informed by writing out my "boy's List" (My list of things I wanted from this relationship). And "Daddys list" (similarly, Daddy's list of things he wants from the relationship). We also informed these 5 Rules based on information we gleaned from other DD couples and throuples we knew or who we met online. The House Rules can be most easily be broken down into five areas:</span></div><div><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>Dishonesty </li><li>Disobedience</li><li>Disrepect</li><li>Safety (Danger to Others)</li><li>Health (Danger to Self)</li></ol></div><p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-bottom: 0in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]-->1.<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span><span face="Arial, sans-serif">These 5
Rules can be a good starting point, used to develop a more comprehensive, clear, and complete
categories used when a Daddy is beginning or organizing his list of The Rules
for his boy. L</span>et's stick with the House Rules, Daddy's Rules.</p><p><b>What the ToolBox Says About Making a New House Rule </b></p><p>"A good rule of thumb for making House Rules is that if it is something you have asked me to do, or not to do at least once, then it's time to make it a House Rule. Our House Rules can be slowly added to or subtracted from over time to guard against Dishonesty, Disobedience, Disrespect, Safety and Health issues, and any other areas we decide are important or problematic and recurring." </p><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px;"><p style="text-align: left;">[<b>Note:</b> We'll spend some time over the next few months looking into what you need to have a ToolBox that is most useful and helps keep things fresh and exciting. <span style="text-indent: -24px;">In upcoming blog entries, I’ll go into more detail about different things we find we needed in Daddy's ToolBox.]</span></p></blockquote><p> </p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; color: #777777; font-family: lato, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><strong style="box-sizing: inherit;"><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"><h3 style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); 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I was super impressed with how authentically he talks about his journey. A warning: his language leaves a lot to be desired, but it's real and a lot of boys talk like this. So despite the very adult words, sometimes middles need to hear from an adult headspace what the heck is going on. I think if you are a middle, you may get a heck of a lot out of this post. Read on!!! </i></span></h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjE8qPvrlAXWf0TnIKeN1EOhy7wmH21o01_bOZkNkcGKi-kMuCcl484HBp7wCCeKbmLdJJImuOOUbtPMMKwd8vyINsAgepo9974XvDv8xtXAmEweFCfCCnxZIAC6cFZQHsMmEJeTTCypxSf-GQwPv_me0CKhKzE3FOnR01d-9ZihStr76MQUsBSumqvy9w/s600/1spankedand1togo%201.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="402" data-original-width="600" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjE8qPvrlAXWf0TnIKeN1EOhy7wmH21o01_bOZkNkcGKi-kMuCcl484HBp7wCCeKbmLdJJImuOOUbtPMMKwd8vyINsAgepo9974XvDv8xtXAmEweFCfCCnxZIAC6cFZQHsMmEJeTTCypxSf-GQwPv_me0CKhKzE3FOnR01d-9ZihStr76MQUsBSumqvy9w/w400-h268/1spankedand1togo%201.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><h2 style="text-align: left;">The Art of Spanking Your Middle</h2><h3 style="text-align: left;"><a href="https://www.tumblr.com/littleforthemiddles" target="_blank">by Marshall, or "Little for the Middles</a>"</h3><p>If you’ve known me for longer than 10 seconds, you’ll know I’m a brat. There’s a running joke that punishing me, is not punishing me. At this point I would consider myself a spanking expert, having gone over several hundred different knees in my day (no exaggerating). A few of you (very few) of you may have even gone over mine. The results have been incredibly mixed with everything from laughing at you, to screaming at the top of my lungs, to becoming exhausted because it’s taking so long. Therefore, I will speak to you honestly and from the heart about what your Middle is probably thinking and feeling, but know that spanking is not a science, it’s an art. There is a finesse to it, and you should be tailoring it to the needs of your boy because tastes will vary widely. Not every Middle is a brat and punishment isn’t for everyone, but if it is then I hope this helps! Adults Only 18+. Please and Thank you. </p><p><b>How do you approach the topic of Spanking with a middle boy?</b></p><p><b>1. Don’t ask me about my childhood.</b> </p><p>The answer to your question is obvious. I grew up in the deep rural south in a one-horse rodeo town. You do the math. It’s creepy for you to ask “Got it growing up?” because I did obviously, and I know you’re perving out about it in your head. That’s not inspiring my confidence in meeting with you. I get it though, you’ve got traumas, so do the boys you’re playing with. I understand that it helps to talk about these things sometimes (I’m not your therapist bro), and that spankings are super cathartic (Why else would I do it to myself? Come on now. Think). If you’re one to take a stroll down memory lane, do so with me after our session. How about sharing the experience that’s stuck in your head first, before I tell you mine. You have to give to get. If I just met you, I don’t know you well enough to open up my heart like that, and I probably don’t want to. Maybe that’s just me though. Ask me instead about how I want to be spanked, and maybe I’ll tell you what day I’m trying to recreate for myself. That’s my decision though. Otherwise, the what’s and how’s of my upbringing questions are super creepy. Not to mention it’s totally outside my headspace. I’m still growing up. Asking your Middle to reflect on something that in their roleplay is supposed to be presently or recently occurring, is counterintuitive.</p><p><b>2. “I’m going to spank that ass… and</b></p><p>"I'm going to Spank that ass and...[insert something about fucking you here].” A charming proposition if you’re a horny twunk on Grndr. That one always makes me smile because I’m immediately thinking, ohhhh you must be new here. That’s just rough sex. We might also enjoy that immensely, but that’s definitely not what Middles are about. I always again take it back to the football coach analogy. Listen to these two scenarios… “Boy, I heard you were causing problems in ___ class today. I’m going to need you to come down to my office so we can have a serious talk about your behavior.” Oh man did you see that? Expertly crafted pickup line. Your Middle just got a huge stiffy in his jock over that one. Compared to yours, the football coach walks in and says “Boy, I’m going to slap that ass red and you can take this dick to pound town”. Crash and burn Maverick. I just lost all love and feeling for you. My reason goes back to my neighbor, bless his heart, Armando. He’s like a latin adonis, but he’ll put a dick in anything that breathes. All I have to say Órale papi. Hoy cena pancho, and I’ll be riding him like a bull at Christmas. Why would I drive an hour across town to your hotel for rough sex, when I can walk next door? For your Middle, anal is a closer. You better satisfy all my other needs first, because once I cum, I’m done. If that’s your opening offer, I’m going to assume you’re impatient and inexperienced and that we’re not on the same page about what this is.</p><p><b>3. Don’t be the overly aggressive Daddy.</b> </p><p>You will catch more flies with honey than vinegar every time. If you come in guns firing telling me you’re going to suspend me upside down from your barn rafters and electroshock my balls while you horsewhip me, I’m going to block you. Well okay maybe not, but I’ll politely decline. Be nice to your Middle. The guy who spanks out of anger has issues, it’s far more effective when you spank with love. We’re not saying to be light with us, we are Middles afterall, you better bring the heat. What I’m telling you is that there is truly nothing more terrifying than the calm and collected daddy who is very disappointed in you and plans to enforce the consequences of his rules. I dare you to speak calmly and softly to me. Whisper it my ear likes it’s a secret that I’m about to get my ass beat and you don’t want the rest of the family to hear. That’s way more powerful than the violent machismo Daddy who wants to rip you in half with his schlong after he pulverizes your ass into dust. That’s what gimps are for, and that’s not who most of us are.</p><p><b>4. Okay, Marshall, you told us what not to do, so what’s a good approach?</b> </p><p>You can briefly introduce yourself as a dom, but don’t go crazy. “Hey there! I liked your profile. My name is Dildano. I’m a daddy/dom/whatever from Transylvania, and I play with diaperboys/littles/middles like you.” Short and sweet. Let’s me know that you first read my profile (praise be!), and secondly that you might be able to provide for my needs. I’m not creeped out by you yet. Excellent job. The very next thing you should do is ask your middle to tell you about himself. Find an interest, hobby, thing that he cares about and run with it. Even if you’re Googling it as he talks about it, learn something about that. You don’t have to lie to him, just show him that you care enough about him as an individual. He’s telling you about it because it’s important to him. He gets joy in it, takes pride in it. By conversing with him about it, you’re already satisfying his first need as a Middle. That you care about him as a person. Anon kink sex is widely available. If you’re going to roleplay, you must demonstrate your ability to influence my mind first. You’ve got him talking, and you’re feeling good about it. From here you can ask him what he happens to be looking for. Try to let this be a natural flow conversation. From here expand based on cues that he provides you. Chances are high that he will mention that he’s into spanking, but it’s better if he brings it up. That’s when you can start getting into the details about the what, how, how much, how often grit of it. You’re always responding to him though. If he says “yeah I like OTK spankings with the hand”, that’s not the time to say “oh cool here’s a picture of the razor strop I’m going to use on your ass.” You just escalated it way outside of the scope of interest, and now he’s wondering if you’ll respect limits or if you’ll enjoy yourself. </p><p>5. You already have a Middle boy. Your relationship is going good, but you think he’s been acting naughty lately, and could use some correction. Maybe this wasn’t a part of your play before, so how do you bring it up now? In this scenario, I would approach it with the idea that you want to start introducing rules into your play, that if broken had consequences that you followed through on with them. “Like what daddy?”. Cool he didn’t shoot you down completely yet. “Well son, I saw you doing [insert naughty bratty thing here], and I think that the next time that you do that you should get a spanking.” At this point he will either look at you crazy and put his foot down as a limit, or he’ll get a boner about it and decide to try it with you. </p><p>______________________________________________________________________</p><h2 style="text-align: left;"><b>How do you Spank Your Middle?</b></h2><p>This can be highly variable, and you are looking to tailor it to his needs and desires. It’s going to be different for every boy, and of course you will have different methods that you enjoy. </p><p>Sensual spankings are going to be less common in roleplay. If all you are going to do is “slap slap fuck” that’s just rough sex. If your Middle is advising this, they’re not really that into spanking play. They probably have a low tolerance for pain, and they are just doing it to humor you, or to simulate the act of it. If you’re just spanking over the pants, or the underwear, or the diaper, it’s probably foreplay. If that’s what he’s into, great go for it. All too often though, it’s the dominant who is partial to these types of spanking and you leave us super disappointed because we think we’re about to get something else. </p><p>There’s been times I laughed at a dom for Spanking me like that. I’ve left early a few times because they couldn’t do it for me. I’ve had sessions where I started out as the boy and half-way through ended up becoming the spanker instead. This isn’t the response you want from your Middle. Don’t tip toe with us. Be direct. Be firm. No cute implements that came in your 50 Shades of Gay box kit. If I see some pink fuzzy handcuffs and a daddy’s first crop, I’m out. </p><p>The most common type of Spanking that your Middle is going to want, is going to be the Dad / son Spanking scenario. For this you’re going to want to have a rule that was broken. Middles are very verbally oriented. Give us the speech. Explain what the rule was, explain how we broke the rule, explain what the consequences are for the rule. Then you’re going to make me repeat it back to you. Your Middles hate that in the best way. “You told me to be home at 10pm. I didn’t get home until 2am. And now I’m going to get a spanking.” Once your boy has verbalized it, his headspace game just increased tenfold. Having to acknowledge our wrongs and then say out loud some childish punishment? Yes please sign me up. </p><p>How you establish rules is between you and your boy. There’s two ways that this can happen. You can set up a rule that’s specific to a goal. You and your boy are trying to improve X behavior or achieve X thing. He doesn’t meet his goal, you set up a time to spank him for it. Alternatively, you set up rules that he can break in your presence. That’s how I like to do it. Did you say don’t wet your pants? I’ll literally stand in front of you in my briefs with a smile on my face flooding them. Your move daddy. </p><p>For most boys, this is going to be a bare-assed spanking. Professional tip. Play diapers can slide right on down to the ankles, and be hoisted right back up again. You don’t have to wait until changes, or mess with the tapes. Just pull it on down. Being commanded to remove your clothes, is not nearly as fun as having daddy do it for you. I want you to tell me to lift my arms above my head while you pull my shirt off. I want to feel you unbuckle my belt, and struggle to pull my pants down around my now raging hard cock. Take your time. The anticipation of waiting is an added bonus. </p><p><b>Implements are a tricky game for Middles.</b> </p><p>Not to insult your masculinity, but most of you guys have soft hands. Start there for sure. We like you to get your hands on our ass. It’s intimate, It’s up close and personal. Eventually though you’re going to have to work up to something bigger. There are certain implements of tradition designed to get your point across. The paddle, the belt, the strap, the switch, the hairbrush. If you’re a British daddy you almost certainly have a slipper or a cane in your collection. These are all good prospective choices for your Middle. That’s going to hurt though right? Fuck yeah it is, and we want it to. Many prospective daddy’s out there struggle with going all the way. It’s against your nature to cause harm, and we’re asking you to inflict physical pain on us. Change how you view it. You’re not hurting us, you’re providing a service. You’re giving us what we’re asking for. If your Middle says he wants to cry, but you’re checking in with him every time he yelps, you’re never going to get him there. Don’t ask me if I’m okay! That’s what the safe-word is for. If things are going well, I’m going to be hurting a lot in just the right way. Am I okay? No. Do I want you to stop. No, we have a code word for that. </p><p><b>If you’re going to use an implement make sure you know how to use it.</b></p><p> A rookie mistake I see is guys who spank too high. This is dangerous. The kidneys sit up there right above your ass. That’s a no-go zone. The top portion of the ass, particularly the portion near the tailbone, should be avoided. If you’re going to use a swinging implement, you better have good aim. Anticipate movement in your boy and adjust accordingly. If you’re going to use a wood implement, watch that tailbone, spank low. The meaty part of the ass near the bottom and that upper thigh area, that’s where you’re going. Basically at hole level on down. Flexible implements will provide a stinging pain, denser objects like wood will cause a heavier blunt pain that is more likely to result in bruising. </p><p>There are two main theories on Spanking:</p><p></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>Does your boy want it hard and fast or </li><li>Does he want the slow methodical build up? </li></ol><p></p><p>In my opinion, if you opt for hard and fast, you better have me in a solid headspace first. If I’m not used to submitting to you, and you come at me full rapid fire paddle, I’m not going to last long. There is however, a point at which the long buildup can take too long and your boy kind of goes numb to it. Learn to recognize when you hit a lull and take a break. You can always come back to it after corner time. Giving the ass a break is a sign of excellent spankers. Send your boy to time out. Wait awhile, squeeze the cheeks a bit. Then return to the spanking. It will hurt much worse the second time. Trust me. Getting an experienced boy where they want to go is going to take some stamina. When you’re going for the build up, save the woods for last. Hairbrush makes a great closer. They’re heavy enough to bring the pain, but light enough to avoid the dull. If your lexan paddle is thick enough, it will also happily serve this purpose. </p><p><b>Belts, and straps, your swinging implements are popular, but much less personal.</b> It puts a greater distance between you and your boy. This makes it difficult to hold back resistance, or to establish intimacy. Starting by hand gives you a chance to connect a bit first. Make sure you properly care for your leather. Oil it up once in a while. Especially your straps. Make sure your belt is of a reasonable thickness. Don’t come at me with your casual happy hour belt from Dillards okay? My ass will be laughing at you. You’re either a really good belt spanker, or a really terrible one. I’ve found no in between. There are a ton of Middles out there who are looking for a quality belting. </p><p><b>Don’t bring unnatural implements to roleplay with your Middle. </b>Cutting my own switch? Very reminiscent. Getting the belt? Very common. Household objects are what you’re going for mostly. If you show up with a cat-o-nine tails, I’m not a Middle anymore, suddenly I’m an 18th century sailor and that’s not cute. Does your implement pass the football coach / dad test? Or is it fucking creepy? </p><p><b>Follow a rule of three. </b></p><p>You can choose three items to spank me with, and after that it loses its luster. After that it becomes completely inorganic. Lay a few out and make your boy choose. That can be a fun pre-spank apprehension building tool. Just don’t bring your entire box of spanking instruments. Dad/Son spanking, not let’s try out the whole wall of the dungeon spanking. </p><p>Ultimately, Spank your Middle like you mean it. You can proceed with us like we know the ritual. There is most likely going to be a power struggle. Your Middle will likely try to bargain or negotiate with you. They’ll protest greatly. “Do I have to? Can’t I just _____ instead? I’m too old for this”. This is where that verbal play becomes super important. We’re not going to like corner time either. It seems beneath us. Make sure you explain why it’s necessary. </p><p>The typical Middle Spanking is going to leave a deep red ass that typically lasts the rest of the day. If your boy isn’t struggling or shouting out, you haven’t arrived yet. By nature of being a Middle, we’re going to try to outlast you. We’re going to try to be tough about it. You have to break us of that. It doesn’t necessarily mean you need to spank ridiculously hard or more aggressively. Consistency of swats with some space in between does wonders. Alternate between fast and slow. Put some arm into the swing from time to time. Middles are typically not going to put on a show, unless you take them there. My reactions are genuine. If you see tears in my eyes, they’re real. If I yell out, it’s real. If I’m struggling with you, it’s real. If I’m not doing any of those things, I’m just laying there and I’m probably disappointed. Make sure the reaction you’re getting reflects the expectations to be had from it. </p><p>I’ve also left sessions that were too heavy, too fast. It’s a Spanking, not a beating. We’re looking for Dad levels, not sadistic dungeon master levels. It’s like Goldilocks and her three ass whoopin’s: This one is too hard. This one is too soft, This one is just right. The preliminary work up is important. Get your boy in the right headspace first. Play in other ways before you go for the big one. A few smaller Spanks first, for example. </p><p>Avoid unnatural positions as well. Laying across the lap, great. Laying across the bed or bent over the bed or desk, great. Bend over a chair, or up against a wall, great. Laying out in a sex swing, not natural. Strapped down to a Spanking bench, not natural. Also… Upside down play is high risk. Certain positions like Wheelbarrow, OTK in some cases, and suspension techniques can be dangerous if your boy’s head is down under him too long. Don’t engage in upside down play if you’re not an expert. Just ask yourself WWDD "What Would Daddy Do?" </p><p>Be cognizant of the color of the ass. Reds tend to be okay, but the purples, blues, and blacks are signs of bruising. Never draw blood. Avoid repetitious sessions that form welts. If it starts to look too bad, end the session even if the boy hasn’t reached their goal yet. Give them a chance to inspect the condition and decide if they are comfortable with continuing, or if you are for that matter. Also, if you’re going to use judicial implements like cane, tawse, rattan, or prison strap, you better be an expert and so should your boy. These are not for the faint of heart and in the wrong hands these can leave scarring marks. When your boy is horny he might say he wants that, he doesn’t really want it, don’t do that. I’ve got a nice little memento on my ass from a time I went too far. You probably wouldn’t notice it, but I know it’s there and it’s regrettable. </p><p>When you’ve finished the spanking you should give the lecture again, and make the boy explain what they are remorseful for and obtain a promise that they will refrain from doing it again in the future. If they refuse to do this or very obviously screw that up, or have an attitude about this, they’re still playing with you and want you to realize they have not learned their lesson and you should keep going. We’ll drop subtle clues like that. If you’re a counter, I’ll miscount on purpose just to start over. Pay attention to his words, expressions, and body language. Don’t forget to be verbal during the spanking as the spanker. Describe your disbelief at how poorly behaved I am and how I need to follow whatever rule that was. </p><p>It should also be noted that when someone says they want a disciplinary spanking, or a biblical Spanking, that there are certain additional rituals that accompany this process. </p><p>_______________________________________________________________________</p><h2 style="text-align: left;"><b>What about after care?</b></h2><p>Middles need their space. Cornertime after helps. It’s a bit juvenile, but after his spanking he’s not going to want to hug you like a Little might. He’ll probably be a bit resentful and hateful towards you for a while after. Let him work it out on his own. Don’t be over there reassuring your Middle it’s going to be okay, or comfort them. We know we were bad and that we messed up, let us self-regulate and reflect on our behavior. Totally different from your aftercare for Littles. </p><p>If you just have to do something, consider a firm handshake from your Middle, or a quick bro-hug. This is not a hold me, cuddle me situation. Just pull my pants back up and send me to the corner. </p><p>You might need to leave the room and just let him have his moment to cry it out. Maybe send him to bed early and let him come down to you when he’s ready. Consider this distancing high praise of a job well done. At the conclusion of timeout, let him decide when he is ready to come back to you. </p><p>It’s also likely that your boy will not be hard, when his spanking is over. It’s okay. It doesn’t mean he didn’t fucking love it. It’s just a physiological response. He’ll get it back soon enough, don’t worry. If your plan is to have sex after, give it time. If I get spanked the way I wanted to, it’s going to be at least an hour before I’m ready. Don’t worry though, if you did it right, my ass will still be plenty burning when we get to that point. </p><p>My typical recovery time from a quality spanking is 3 days. Therefore, in any given weekend you probably get one good session with a middle. You can have smaller sessions of course. Just don’t expect to be going for the gold every day, it’s just not going to happen. </p><p>If you see that purple, black, or white surface, you’re looking at bruising. After you’ve exploded a mountain of cum and been brought back to your senses, you might want to put some ice on it to bring the swelling down. Or if you’re like me, you just let it happen because the constant reminder for days gets you hard! </p><p>Lastly, it’s common for Middles to want to show off their marks to their friends. “Look what I got from coach” or “look what my dad did when I got home”. Let them have their fun with it, and offer to take pictures for them. 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<h2><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;"><div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;"><i>Originally published in 2015, most of this post below is from one of the most talented Daddys in America. He's Daddy C. <span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">I was emailing with Daddy </span><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">C, a </span><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">friend from Camp Red Tails, and I asked his advice on how I might navigate some of the tricky transitions from “Daddy/boy” time to “just us” regular time</span><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;"> in my own relationship</span><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">. </span></i></div><div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;"><i><br /></i></span></div><div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; font-weight: 400;"><i><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">I also a</span><span style="font-family: times, "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">sked him for advice about how he thinks Discipline-based relationships work, and much to my surprise, although he Spanks his partner at camp, they do not perceive themselves as in a Domestic Discipline relationship. Instead their relationship takes a decidedly different turn. Here’s how Daddy C describes it.</span></i></div></span></span></h2><h2>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">I was emailing with Daddy </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">C, a </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">friend from Camp Red Tails, and I asked his advice on how I might navigate some of the tricky transitions from “Daddy/boy” time to “just us” regular time</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> in my own relationship</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">And I also a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sked him for advice about how he thinks discipline-based relationships work, and much to my surprise, although he Spanks his partner at camp, they do not perceive themselves as in a Domestic Discipline relationship. Instead their relationship takes a decidedly different turn. Here’s how Daddy C describes it:</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">It’s Spanking as a sexual activity between us, not discipline. I do have mentoring relationships with other boys and I use Spanking in those to discipline them and help alter their behavior for the better.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">I’ve always thought it would be hard to maintain a real disciplinary relationship within the bounds of an equal partnership. I can imagine it working where one partner was significantly older than the other, or there was some other inherent kind of inequality. But then that limits the “equal partnership” nature of the relationship, which is what I’ve always had and wanted.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">CC: Yeah, my partner has been really good about trying to keep the discipline focus with fairly regular Maintenance Spankings, but he's adverse to using discipline within the</span></b></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">relationship. Is that just out of the question in an equal relationship like you two have?</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">The bottom line (so to speak!) is, if one partner is responsible for watching over and correcting the other’s behavior, then that’s inherently unequal. I’m not saying it couldn’t work as a happy marriage, but it would be very different from our relationship.</span><br />
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<b style="font-size: 11pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">CC: Is your relationship vanilla outside of Camp Red Tails? </span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Oh no! Our life together isn’t disciplinary, but it’s not vanilla, either. Spanking for us is a sexual activity, it’s playful even when it’s very hard.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">CC: How does that primary relationship work vis-à-vis the other boys you discipline outside of the relationship?</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">My relationships with other boys in my life<i> is</i> disciplinary, and we are not complete equals. That’s not to say I’m always stern with them—today, for example, I’m home sick with a bad cold, and both our mutual friend boyBrandon and his “brother” have checked in with me a couple times during the day with encouragement and very caring messages. If they lived in this city, they would probably be over here with chicken soup, fussing over me—ha!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">I feel very lucky to have them to do that. But it doesn’t change the fact that I’m the Dad here and if there’s something in their behavior that I perceive as problematic, I have a responsibility to stop them and bring that up, and they have to listen to me and obey what I tell them or they know they’ll be in trouble. I’m always responsible for calling the shots, even at times like today, when I’m not at my best. With my partner, on the other hand, when I’m feeling bad, I can totally let go and he will step in and take control. And nobody’s monitoring anyone else’s behavior or anything even remotely Dad-like or disciplinary.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Having said all of that (and keeping in mind that I’ve never had a full-time disciplinary partnership, so this is all theoretical!) I always believe that the most important part of any relationship is clear communication and a shared understanding of your expectations and needs. If you need your partner to take control and be a real life disciplinarian, but find </span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">that unequal mode becomes awkward, maybe you could establish specific times or cues so that you both always know without question when you’re shifting from “normal, equal daily life,” to “disciplinary mode.” </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Maintenance or corrective Spankings given on a particular day of the week, for instance, could work. I’ve heard of couples who sit down on Sundays to talk about the “boy’s” behavior. If you did that, it would give you a chance to confess anything that was troubling you, and your partner, in his role as Dad, could bring up anything he’d seen that he thought merited correction.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">But beyond regularly scheduled disciplinary times, you might be able to establish cues to alert each other that you need to make that switch. Maybe there’s a word or phrase you agree on that lets you both know you’re switching from equal partners to Dad/boy. That way, he could let you know right then and there if something you were doing was problematic. You’d know that he was shifting into “Dad” mode and, even if nothing changed outwardly until you were alone or back at home or whatever, you’d both understand that there would be a conversation to resolve that. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">And if necessary, you might get a Spanking or other punishment. For your part, if there were ever times when you felt the need to be taken care of or something, you could use the same cue to let him know that you needed him to shift into Dad mode and give you that. You’d just have to be careful about what you asked for! Once your partner starts seeing you as his son whom he has a responsibility to care for and monitor, you might find yourself getting in more trouble than you’d planned on!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Again, the bottom line (there’s that joke again) is that communication and being clear about your expectations is key. That’s true in any disciplinary relationship, and it’s also true in any partnership. When you combine those things, the requirement for honesty and also for really understanding your own desires goes up enormously! But hopefully the rewards are just as high.</span><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5315173549173972953.post-48254259027853789412024-01-11T23:00:00.013-08:002024-01-11T23:00:00.161-08:00Tommy, an Archies Spin-off<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjRxhxfA0uPKFz10pDeBMybwZYxU-hRynK9vIKmv0lHlYZe4HjrzLDQ0fXTJ4r0Mae-Mg09R8zogUWmSGErlFlg6DAxQNhli1jFyo-8rvWIwj3JQvjFIGcmcDdOfbJwvv0fE09agCaM9Ur3M7CClpBm46GML544btgDZoA9t4B6l5VTOtx-PDZ4b-fvZE/s388/The%20Archies%20You're%20Going%20Over%20My%20Knee.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="368" data-original-width="388" height="304" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjRxhxfA0uPKFz10pDeBMybwZYxU-hRynK9vIKmv0lHlYZe4HjrzLDQ0fXTJ4r0Mae-Mg09R8zogUWmSGErlFlg6DAxQNhli1jFyo-8rvWIwj3JQvjFIGcmcDdOfbJwvv0fE09agCaM9Ur3M7CClpBm46GML544btgDZoA9t4B6l5VTOtx-PDZ4b-fvZE/s320/The%20Archies%20You're%20Going%20Over%20My%20Knee.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Thanks to a <a href="https://twitter.com/Herewego10132/status/1679248115109597185" target="_blank">HereWeGo</a>, a Tweeter that I follow on Twitter, I've been able to unearth a comix strip character called "Tommy!" 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When we do, we'll share. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">He sounds like his shenanigans really get his Daddy's goat. if you know the strip from which Tommy comes, let us kno in the comments below!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO-GmTgUn_FDClMkKQ0pbpYsqT7Hyx12nRgCHPdWxZypm7Fe_U7M70Ma4VFuki4VJOcLTa8hUaMy-3zHtpd1GOKJugNRJm0x-wBlhLSWy4k3zMIdtGAzMyXwzvaH7vYIaEUhf9TfLfq0XJ9L3k7qDimTkVF1kDec1TkCDt2rUhYLF_2nSTT02452Ekxqc/s900/Tommy%20from%20the%20Archies%20Gets%20a%20Spanking.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="590" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhO-GmTgUn_FDClMkKQ0pbpYsqT7Hyx12nRgCHPdWxZypm7Fe_U7M70Ma4VFuki4VJOcLTa8hUaMy-3zHtpd1GOKJugNRJm0x-wBlhLSWy4k3zMIdtGAzMyXwzvaH7vYIaEUhf9TfLfq0XJ9L3k7qDimTkVF1kDec1TkCDt2rUhYLF_2nSTT02452Ekxqc/w420-h640/Tommy%20from%20the%20Archies%20Gets%20a%20Spanking.jpeg" width="420" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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He trained up a variety of boys I know some of whom have since gone on to become Daddys themselves! Some of the very best have learned at the hand of Daddy C, and so it's with exceptional pride Cornertime Confidential resurrects this super valuable post about How to be a Dad by Daddy C.</b></span></i></p><p><i style="outline: none;"></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i style="outline: none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiux6S5EM2meyMBpJHim6v6Kn1ychbUgc6GGQgYTnbIgBvh5phlNmf1zR3Q_1wMwMYaBtzxYEPMbV4F7WAN1lKZiAJ2caT05ecWZO0_qHjIWhQXQ-DNaDClrj25QsRqfUNRYVs5QaOYzqJIK5-CxtmUqG-k_X111ZzmPsDgO5Ya8hGcNLJcEVOLO_Ua3XI/s700/carrying%20him%204.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="700" data-original-width="420" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiux6S5EM2meyMBpJHim6v6Kn1ychbUgc6GGQgYTnbIgBvh5phlNmf1zR3Q_1wMwMYaBtzxYEPMbV4F7WAN1lKZiAJ2caT05ecWZO0_qHjIWhQXQ-DNaDClrj25QsRqfUNRYVs5QaOYzqJIK5-CxtmUqG-k_X111ZzmPsDgO5Ya8hGcNLJcEVOLO_Ua3XI/s320/carrying%20him%204.jpg" width="192" /></a></i></div><i style="outline: none;"><br /></i><p><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;">Some Daddys are better than others. It's a fact. Some just "get" the role. There are those Men Who Spank who are more or less sadists, and then there is a completely different breed: The Daddy. Daddys are sort of the polar opposite of those Men Who Spank who just like to make a boy's bottom red.</span></i></p><blockquote style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 8px;" type="cite"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;">Today's blogpost is from Daddy C a guy with some insights for the Men Who Spank who read the blog and are feeling like their experience could be much better, much deeper.</span></i></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></i></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;">I met Daddy C at Camp Red Tails last year, and I was duly impressed with his style, demeanour, and thoroughness with which he disciplined boys of all types at camp. Before we ever got to camp, a good buddy of mine boyBrandon was telling me about this really kewl Daddy and how he was helping him grow into a real adult boy, a thing he didn't even realize he wanted to fully be! Then I met Daddy C and realized why boyBrandon was having this experience with Daddy C.</span></i></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></i></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;">Daddy C has a long term partner with whom he has a loving relationship that’s not discipline-based, although I know it’s also not completely vanilla. The boys in his life are friends of both him and his partner, and they all seem to really enjoy their time together. I think these two appear to have a great relationship that enables Daddy C to be able to develop healthy bonds with other boys who need his supervision.</span></i></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></i></div></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;">Below Daddy C gives some extensive detail about how guys who wanna dabble in Spanking can turn a skill into a really valuable calling: "How to Be a Dad" takes us deeper into the psyche of Daddy-hood and away from the mere application of discipline. </span></i></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></i></div><div style="font-size: 13px; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;">Read on! I hope you find this applicable to your lives as much as I did! </span></i></div><h2 style="font-size: 13px; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: small; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></b></h2><h2 style="font-size: 13px; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large; outline: none;">HOW TO BE A DAD</span></b></h2><div style="font-size: 13px; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;">by Daddy C</b></span></div></div><div style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div></div><div style="outline: none;"><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">I’ve always been into Spanking, but over the last several years what used to be a sexual interest has morphed more and more into an interest in real discipline. And the boys who are looking for a real-life guiding hand now seek me out—somehow, as I’ve crossed the 50 year mark, I’ve become a natural Daddy. <i style="outline: none;">Ha! Who could have predicted that?!</i></span></div><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div><blockquote class="yiv8140176508tr_bq" style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="outline: none;">"Ultimately, it’s just about where your focus is: are you more interested in your own experience or the welfare of the young man lying across your lap?"</span></i></b></span></blockquote></div></div></div></div></blockquote><p><b>Spanking a boy is really about taking care of him. </b></p><blockquote style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 8px;" type="cite"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><b><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></b></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">As I understand the job of Spanking, though, this isn’t so unexpected. Spanking a boy, I’ve always believed, is really about taking care of him. When another adult goes over your knee, he’s trusting you—first of all, he’s trusting you not to injure him or take advantage of him, but more than that, he’s trusting you to give him what he needs, whether that’s a purely physical experience or an intense emotional one. The Top’s job is to take responsibility for achieving that, or at least giving it his best shot—to take responsibility for the boy in hand.</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="yiv8140176508tr-caption-container" style="margin-bottom: 0.5em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; outline: none; padding: 6px; text-align: center;"><tbody style="outline: none;"><tr style="outline: none;"><td colspan="1" rowspan="1" style="outline: none; word-break: normal;"><img border="0" height="182" src="https://ecp.yusercontent.com/mail?url=https%3A%2F%2F4.bp.blogspot.com%2F-9jsXbhbxzj0%2FVfnHBRFBrbI%2FAAAAAAAAGUc%2FeNaGZ5l5m4k%2Fs320%2Fcarpet%252Bbeater%252B4.jpg&t=1691176287&ymreqid=d41d8cd9-8f00-b204-1c60-c80025018b00&sig=rqXl.yHhMRZto1cCFjflLw--~D" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; outline: none; text-indent: -9999px;" width="320" /></td></tr><tr style="outline: none;"><td class="yiv8140176508tr-caption" colspan="1" rowspan="1" style="outline: none; padding-top: 4px; word-break: normal;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><span style="outline: none;">"Spanking a boy, I’ve always believed, is really about taking care of him."</span></b></i></span></td></tr></tbody></table><div style="outline: none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVVIxvnednlaYcICCAiNI9MIRGHhcmyUbQhUdRthw2y9gZcfif5B3WaNJz-nAdYb72SO8I6gW_SBEasvfeGN8jFiEWVS0kvvdmJSlY5eY6fCIeNLzuGoS8VTFdhPDwUu79hHxF_zoyuYM/s1600/Daddy+and+boy+checking+texts.jpg" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" style="clear: left; color: #196ad4; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; outline: none;" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></a><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></div></div></div></div></div></blockquote><p><b>Spankings are about the good of the boy in the long term. </b></p><blockquote style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 8px;" type="cite"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">When you think conceptually, this is also what Dads do—they dish out discipline as they believe is needed to make their boys better and ultimately happier and more successful in life. Spankings are about the good of the boy in the long term, and they also require a lot of “tuning in” and monitoring in the moment. You have to stay tightly focused—physically, emotionally, taking in all the signals your boy is giving you through your eyes and your ears and your hands—because this experience is intense, and pushes deep buttons. If you’re careless or get distracted, the experience will go off the rails, and you’ll both end up unhappy and frustrated.</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="yiv8140176508tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-bottom: 0.5em; outline: none; padding: 6px; text-align: center;"><tbody style="outline: none;"><tr style="outline: none;"><td colspan="1" rowspan="1" style="outline: none; word-break: normal;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://ecp.yusercontent.com/mail?url=https%3A%2F%2F2.bp.blogspot.com%2F-Vhy668TlMSU%2FVfln9upQSwI%2FAAAAAAAAGUQ%2FmpgJPbwfbB8%2Fs320%2FDaddy%252Band%252Bboy%252Bchecking%252Btexts.jpg&t=1691176287&ymreqid=d41d8cd9-8f00-b204-1c60-c80025018b00&sig=ZmlTqoJfPA89fj9y8xqevQ--~D" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; outline: none; text-indent: -9999px;" width="271" /></td></tr><tr style="outline: none;"><td class="yiv8140176508tr-caption" colspan="1" rowspan="1" style="outline: none; padding-top: 4px; word-break: normal;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><span style="outline: none;">"[Being an adult boy's Dad is] about sharing something <br clear="none" style="outline: none;" />of yourself, investing in someone else..."</span></i></b></span></td></tr></tbody></table><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">Ultimately, it’s just about where your focus is: are you more interested in your own experience or the welfare of the young man lying across your lap? If you’re concerned mainly with what you’re getting out of it, then you’re no Daddy, even though you might be a talented CP artist. But if the boy gets your attention and you’re burning his bottom out of a firm belief that this will improve his life and make him a better man, then you’re his Daddy, even if only for that moment.</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">I wrote all of the above at the urging of a boy I know who lives with his Dads but chats with me—I’m sort of a wise uncle or godfather or something like that. When he read the first draft, he asked a couple questions:</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">What benefits do you get from it as a Dad? </span></b></div><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">I think it makes as much sense to ask what benefits the boy gets—but, then again, maybe that’s not as obvious as it seems. As I understand it, the benefit to the boy is that he has someone whom he knows will always care for him, believe in him, and cheer him on—and, when necessary, say no to him, give him limits, and help him learn and grow into a wiser and happier person.</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">For the Dad, there’s the joy of sharing that, and of seeing the results of your caring. It’s mentoring taken to a whole new level. What do biological Dads “get” out of their relationships with their sons, besides the assurance that their genes will get at least another generation of play? It’s about sharing something of yourself, investing in someone else, having the privilege of sharing love, and, ultimately, seeing the great positive results those actions have.</span></div><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></div><div class="yiv8140176508separator" style="clear: both; outline: none; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_mf9Xtfbj_KSPeRgSPVvOeZusxiR-1kDBunC3OGNuo_vbleQB6PL_S_9rhpWyG8TjnFN6gws9W0oi6DzJ7eVnDg-k4K43RxCIYj8OMbLt39ftYy6RNb2J75y6QGkt3bCbjc-S4zsVQfI/s1600/carpet+beater+4.jpg" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" style="color: #196ad4; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; outline: none;" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"></span></a></div><div style="outline: none;"><b style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; outline: none;">What tips do you have for Dads to interpret a boy’s reactions?</b></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">This is actually a tougher question. My approach changes as my relationship with the boy develops. In the beginning, I won’t know what his reactions mean, and whether “no, please,” really indicates that he’s had nearly enough or is just a normal part of his “script” for a disciplinary moment. I’ll always push past those moments of complaining and promising as a way of testing how serious they are, and, since I’m never brutal—it’s about pain, not damage!—I don’t have any qualms about doing this. But I’ll observe him ever more closely. Is he squirming? Breathing hard? Whimpering? Has the tone of those sounds changed from when I first started Spanking him? Have his movements become jerkier, do they seem more like an involuntary response than an intentional one? Is his voice getting higher pitched?</span></div><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="yiv8140176508tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-bottom: 0.5em; margin-left: 1em; outline: none; padding: 6px; text-align: right;"><tbody style="outline: none;"><tr style="outline: none;"><td colspan="1" rowspan="1" style="outline: none; text-align: center; word-break: normal;"><div style="outline: none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiw3IrIDiUH-IeO0UeTzm9s4TTJr6Osrvww-hTlBViCvqxBImpelZ6u1TjTe_DITnkh5hXwv_60bUiXyp5TcmBCNOrGbmO6BVIPUDEe7IXaKWUorRp2GzfHawJfTyOJjeQxFKVX2w-dMpA/s1600/HandSpanking.gif" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" style="clear: right; color: #196ad4; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; outline: none;" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><img border="0" height="247" src="https://ecp.yusercontent.com/mail?url=https%3A%2F%2F1.bp.blogspot.com%2F-9-mX-gpEeWQ%2FVfnHVWyWQ3I%2FAAAAAAAAGUk%2FNcMpl-Xzl9Q%2Fs1600%2FHandSpanking.gif&t=1691176287&ymreqid=d41d8cd9-8f00-b204-1c60-c80025018b00&sig=bAzV3IzslWo0XuTY6k5l5Q--~D" style="outline: none; text-indent: -9999px;" width="400" /></span></a></div></td></tr><tr style="outline: none;"><td class="yiv8140176508tr-caption" colspan="1" rowspan="1" style="outline: none; padding-top: 4px; text-align: center; word-break: normal;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"> <b style="outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;">Is he squirming? Breathing hard? Whimpering? </i></b></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">I especially listen for a change in tone, a "break" in the boy's accustomed persona. If things are really going too far for him, he'll give up the submissive role and tell you in a more adult tone that he's had enough—you'll hear the change coming if you're listening closely.</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">Sometimes, those moments of “going wrong” happen because the two of you really aren't on the same page, but sometimes he's just let himself get scared or distracted by something.</span></div></div></div></div></div></blockquote><blockquote style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 8px;" type="cite"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">Regardless, this is a moment to take a break, check in with him, make sure he knows you're listening and really interested in his well-being, and then decide what your next step might be. Even if regaining that safe Dad/son dynamic turns out to be impossible in that moment, that doesn't mean that the relationship is a bust—if the boy feels your respect and concern, he'll know that the uncomfortable moment was just part of the learning process, and it won't happen next time.</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></b></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">My young friend also said he thinks many Tops fear making a boy angry (and thus killing the relationship) while boys want Dads to take control. They may resist, but it’s because they want to be taken in hand. </span></b></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></b>I don't doubt that's true, but I think there may be just as many who do this for their own reasons and don't make the commitment to discipline at all. The thing to remember is, that’s okay, as long as you’re both on the same page. As a Dad, you have a couple non-negotiable responsibilities:</span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><ol style="outline: none;"><li style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">You have to take the time to understand what the boy wants and needs. If you do this and make sure the boy knows you’re doing it, then you shouldn’t have to worry about making him angry, because he’ll feel safe knowing you care.</span></li><li style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">You have to make sure you know what you want and need. If you don’t, you’ll risk losing your focus and becoming abusive. But if you do, you can figure out how to fulfill both sets of desires, and you and your boy will both get huge rewards from your interactions.</span></li></ol></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;">The fact that I’ll never be a biological parent is one of the few regrets of my life. But I wouldn’t trade my relationships with my adult boys for anything, or give up my status as uncle to the other boys who are not mine but who trust and confide in me. </span></div></div><div class="yiv8140176508MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; outline: none;"><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><img border="0" height="480" src="https://ecp.yusercontent.com/mail?url=https%3A%2F%2F4.bp.blogspot.com%2F-rWE8VXVn0yE%2FVfnH919l-4I%2FAAAAAAAAGU0%2F8urwtgWChUo%2Fs1600%2FSpanking%252BTools%252Bfor%252BBoys.jpg&t=1691176287&ymreqid=d41d8cd9-8f00-b204-1c60-c80025018b00&sig=0VeKm8xoFb.Kw3RfTA3.4w--~D" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; outline: none; text-indent: -9999px;" width="640" /></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i><span style="font-family: times;">A Time Out Stool, A Place for Writing Lines, and a Little Encouragement</span></i></b></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="yiv8140176508separator" style="clear: both; font-size: 13px; outline: none; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTb67QAqBj8oq3JX-5CfIppU6GeQ112hLZr8QU3r9OGdoQmi1QEF2uny22oD132bRFsvG2gz0KiPjyvJrEdcCzi8yPDdyCPDYQCKROvlYftulHYgRli8-K6tEhkFx_q6UvV9DatATk_mQ/s1600/Spanking+Tools+for+Boys.jpg" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" shape="rect" style="color: #196ad4; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; outline: none;" target="_blank"><b><i><span style="font-family: times; outline: none;"></span></i></b></a></div><div class="yiv8140176508separator" style="clear: both; font-size: 13px; outline: none; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></span></div><blockquote class="yiv8140176508tr_bq" style="clear: both; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;"><br clear="none" style="outline: none;" /></i></b></span><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large; outline: none;"><b style="outline: none;"><i style="outline: none;">"But if the boy gets your attention, and you’re burning his bottom out of a firm belief that this will improve his life and make him a better man, then you’re his Daddy, even if only for that moment."</i></b></span></blockquote><div class="yiv8140176508separator" style="clear: both; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; 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These should be (if I adhere to what I plan to do!) shorter, action-oriented posts that help provide you a thought, consideration, or impetus to add to or adjust what you are doing and trying something you might not have considered before. Look for each month's suggestion at the first Monday of the month. Let us know if you find them helpful. Just comment below or in our Twitter feed. </i><div><i><br /></i></div><div><i>We'll begin by re-introducing the really effective "Ask Daddy" contributor who wrote for several years about what he does as a Daddy to make a difference in boys lives. In the process, he's helped plenty of Daddys and boys up their game or event just get into the game!
</i><h2 style="text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1HW3es4PHilhMr8rlO0NpaWEMhTtIDZbM0tPUAyr_WwDdmP1F6THhlNSmketayZh1UT2BGKCpAhiLMyD1t478WZ-CzUmR3MDmSHs-awL_toc1camUKw4Qy4UNM0-RSto0a-m4rmAQb0P2vdQwRVnDgZfkEkbxD82os5AgKUMc2YGxBq7NWMfhy3m8VPo/s1600/3%20Questions%20(1).jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="360" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1HW3es4PHilhMr8rlO0NpaWEMhTtIDZbM0tPUAyr_WwDdmP1F6THhlNSmketayZh1UT2BGKCpAhiLMyD1t478WZ-CzUmR3MDmSHs-awL_toc1camUKw4Qy4UNM0-RSto0a-m4rmAQb0P2vdQwRVnDgZfkEkbxD82os5AgKUMc2YGxBq7NWMfhy3m8VPo/w640-h360/3%20Questions%20(1).jpg" width="640" /></a></div>CP Thought for the Month: January 2024</h2><h3 style="text-align: left;">by<a href="https://twitter.com/Ask_This_Daddy/status/1452761474103906315" target="_blank"> Ask Daddy</a></h3><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><p style="text-align: left;">boys, when your Spanking is over, ask yourself three questions: </p><p style="text-align: left;"></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>How did I get here? </li><li>What did I learn here?</li><li>How can I do better? </li></ol><p></p></div><div><i>Ask Daddy's simple approach really helps us. We use this approach all the time. </i></div><div><br /></div><div>You should be able to clearly explain the answer to each of these three questions to Daddy after each Spanking. If you answer each with a "I don't know. I don't care" you are providing Daddy important feedback too! Be honest and tell Daddy. Daddy can help you learn the answer to each troubling question!</div><p>Ultimately Spankings should help you be a better boy to your Daddy. When a boy does need a Spanking, it's important that it not be left as a physical experience, exclusively. Each boy should be tasked with a job to ask himself: <i>what does Daddy need me to do to show I'm his boy again? </i></p><p>While you're in The Corner, try to remember the answer to these 3 questions, and then tell Daddy what you learned. We know it's hard to do, because as a boy, we have stood in those shoes! If you <i>don't </i>have answers to all three, by the time you leave The Corner, then you either need to go back into The Corner or go back over Daddy's knee. Or Daddy may have to have "that talk" with you. </p><p>Whatever he chooses, we know you'll have a better relationship if you always know the answer to these simple questions. You'll also show you appreciate your Daddy. </p><p><b><i>You'll prove you're the best boy around for him.</i></b></p><p><br /></p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; color: #777777; font-family: lato, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><strong style="box-sizing: inherit;"><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"><h3 style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); color: black; font-size: 14px; text-align: left;">Please comment below or </span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/5315173549173972953/8493439403032945067#" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); background-image: linear-gradient(rgba(68, 68, 68, 0) 50%, rgba(68, 68, 68, 0.25) 0px); background-position: 0px 1.15em; 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It's that special day again!<p></p><p>This year, we hope you get the adult boy you wanted under that tree. And well, if you are an adult boy, we hope you woke up this morning and Santa brought you a Daddy! For those who got neither, we're rallying for you that 2024 will bring you the Man or adult boy of your dreams and fantasies.</p><p>As you think about making a New Year's Resolution, think about how you might commit to making your fantasies come to life with a real life Daddy or boy. You don't have to commit to a relationship either! No need to dream big. Instead, commit to starting small. You just need to promise yourself you'll try to get out there and connect. </p><p><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2015/01/cp-map-of-spanking-world.html" target="_blank">We have a map of the CP world for you which you can access here. Check out a gathering near you!</a></p><p>Much of the time we cannot imagine finding the time. So instead, the most valuable New Year's resolution could be just to commit to yourself! Promise yourself you'll try. There's so many more opportunities than there was before: from in person events in cities all over the U.S. to Canada to Europe and beyond. Find your community. <a href="http://www.whappz.com" target="_blank">Whappz</a> and <a href="http://spankthishookups.com/" target="_blank">SpankThis </a>will still provide you a chance to connect. But these events and ones you might organize yourself can make the difference between enjoy a good read at Cornertime Confidential and living in the moment. <br /><br />We hope you have a very merry holiday season. 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text-align: left;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiM9MTWQy6gkpIMtR5IqfNFxKxXivffCsb_4t0LyvxtVsVPxFeVJY0qigoU0nDaWVgRJ44Gav5Jgma2Hr5cvzYq8denekoA9ey0qVKyAWrnSzb6RASvvXe0sByBrWOE1Na3WtxOpp7MGT6kz7tANBNhNwEtEethBKbllRTKsycHp4kqOZhjf6qW-TrfZbY/s400/Wedding%20Wedgie%20photo%20courtesy%20of%20the%20Wedgie%20Club.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="400" data-original-width="392" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiM9MTWQy6gkpIMtR5IqfNFxKxXivffCsb_4t0LyvxtVsVPxFeVJY0qigoU0nDaWVgRJ44Gav5Jgma2Hr5cvzYq8denekoA9ey0qVKyAWrnSzb6RASvvXe0sByBrWOE1Na3WtxOpp7MGT6kz7tANBNhNwEtEethBKbllRTKsycHp4kqOZhjf6qW-TrfZbY/s320/Wedding%20Wedgie%20photo%20courtesy%20of%20the%20Wedgie%20Club.jpg" width="314" /></a></div></span></h2><h2 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: large;">A Community Growing at an Atomic Rate</span></span></h2><p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">Just a few months ago, the
Wedgie Community got together and celebrated in Chicago. It's not for those of us who are briefs enthusiasts, you'll eat this right up. Our narrator is <a href="https://twitter.com/jocktavious" target="_blank">@jocktavious</a> a/k/a "jahk" and his September 16 trip to Chicago for a Wedgie Community reunion. The video story below (his "review" of the party) includes such a lovingly packed suitcase of briefs he puts yours truly's underpants collection to shame. </span></p><p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">His details in the audio from his vid here is just too much fun. We hope you enjoy this as much as we did.</span></p><p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin: 0in;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dx1QrL32R_8MPOlYJ0XPcr3SiT-27FGY0o8pBUxf2NyYDz3ewF2o6g5ZvAQ8W6ISV14pbyz37I-gJh0Tv96Fg' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><i><br /></i><p style="margin: 0in;"><b style="font-size: 13.5pt;">A few viewing tips: </b></p><p style="margin: 0in;"></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">If there are any difficulties playing this vid, you can <a href="subscribe to The Wedgie Club on YouTube and watch here." target="_blank">subscribe to The Wedgie Club on YouTube and watch here.</a>]</span></li><li><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">Be sure to turn on the
"transcript" in this link, so you can catch all the details. </span></li><li><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">The conclusion is just great as well. Be sure to listen through to the end. We love the way that
jahktavious encourages folks to build fellowship like the experience is as
important as church...wedgie church! </span></li></ol>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">#StayWedgie y'all. Below is his post from YouTube.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></p><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">Happy Wedgie Wednesday
Community! As promised, Jocktavious has detailed his experience in Chicago at
the wedgie event "Nerds v.s. Bullies" on September 16th. </span></p><p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><b>Take the <a href="https://forms.gle/otDTNDMk6zEXa6Tx9" target="_blank">Wedgie Survey</a></b></span></p><p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><b>Follow us on <a href="http://linktr.ee/thewedgieclub" target="_blank">Social Media</a></b></span></p><p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">Check out our latest video! "</span><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">Who gave the first wedgie?!" </span></p></blockquote>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><br /></span></p><p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><i>Here’s a chapterized version of
the video, so you can keep up and get the whole story:</i></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">0:00 Intro<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">0:28 Overview<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">0:37 Packing my suitcase was
HARD!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">0:56 Best Roommate Ever!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">1:46 The Roommate Wedgie Wars<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">3:11- Bonding with the Wedgie
Bros<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">4:01 Almost didn’t make it to
the Event!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">4:30 I am HOME!!!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">4:47 RIP to my Briefs <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">5:21 Now it’s my turn</span><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji";">😈</span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">6:06 I could have cried (*sniff*)<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">6:17 Wedgie Hitlist<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">7:27 THE WEDGIE BOYS ARE
FIGHTING!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">8:14 The Party Ended but
Wedgies Are Still Going<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; font-variant-caps: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; margin: 0in; orphans: 2; text-decoration-color: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-thickness: initial; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt;">8:23 Overall Thoughts of the
Event<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: large;">Our Domestic Discipline Celebrations Week had come to an End</span></h2><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Twitter has been an
interesting portal for content for the last year or more, and I wanted to share with you Domestic
Discipline readers a few "Deep Thoughts" by one of the folks we see tweeting every once in a while—</span><a href="https://twitter.com/sirdomesticd" style="font-size: 12pt;" target="_blank">@SirDomesticD. </a><span style="font-size: 12pt;">This Brit seems from his handle to be a very serious,
formal Domestic Disciplinarian who brings a lot of great, adaptable ideas for
the M/m Spanking relationship.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><b><i>If you can print this out, you could just clip it out and post on the 'fridge today!</i></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmxYsWL-NEbo8xKDiFcZxCQNGW_4BDtHwJe4zXbMqqG-csuB68sj1o3dWkNJJ4BiRucDIgGZniErglFngJxXyvmKWSRQKa4dv7aFRfCCgGpKZ2t-2xMc54F6y7_JPmPrXAicgdURds1h5xjYMlqXTCSeIha9NczII7StdEGq6-cURL7bU1F3WNDYQK/s680/Spanking%20Tools%20SirDomesticD.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="680" data-original-width="680" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmxYsWL-NEbo8xKDiFcZxCQNGW_4BDtHwJe4zXbMqqG-csuB68sj1o3dWkNJJ4BiRucDIgGZniErglFngJxXyvmKWSRQKa4dv7aFRfCCgGpKZ2t-2xMc54F6y7_JPmPrXAicgdURds1h5xjYMlqXTCSeIha9NczII7StdEGq6-cURL7bU1F3WNDYQK/w640-h640/Spanking%20Tools%20SirDomesticD.jpg" width="640" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i><b><a href="https://twitter.com/SirDomesticD/status/1604129069473288192" target="_blank">From Sir Discipline D</a></b></i></td></tr></tbody></table><br />
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<span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">He communicates his
ideas through his blog, his DD relationship guide, and daily aphorisms that
help provide a guiding daily dose, much like christians use in order to get
through any given day in this less-than-christian world.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">To both give you a
taste, and have some fun, we wanted to end Domestic Discipline Celebrations Week with some of
his more memorable Tweets (or what I like to call his "Domestic Discipline Daily Dictums").<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><br /></div><h2 style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: left;"><b><u>Domestic Discipline Daily Dictums</u></b></h2><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><br /></div>
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<b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">What are Sundays for?<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" lang="en">
A good regular Maintenance Spanking on a Sunday evening can help ensure things run smoothly for the following week <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/domesticdiscipline?src=hash">#DomesticDiscipline</a><br />
— <a href="https://twitter.com/SirDomesticD/statuses/485874175660531712" target="_blank">@SirDomesticD</a> </blockquote>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" lang="en">
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt;">Sunday is the perfect day to sit down & have a open discussion about your </span><a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/domesticdiscipline?src=hash" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt;">#DomesticDiscipline</a><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt;"> lifestyle.</span></span></blockquote>
<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" lang="en">
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt;">— <a href="https://twitter.com/SirDomesticD/statuses/470533357269688320" target="_blank">@SirDomesticD</a></span></span></blockquote>
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<script async="" charset="utf-8" src="//platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiIaZ4wGrI8wT7VRMVXdXJtQPFtokvtU42EKJBCPhja3kjOaf4q3bV1B0YoLU1uN-BEXjMOrOZyeANBk2ecYGaSDnhwDrfo27VxgKwjPXsKdMw6TCtcdA5n3_uJHwskk-_hWpiFEJ-Q44/s1600/Spanking+Oars+by+madebypapa.jpg" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="261" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiIaZ4wGrI8wT7VRMVXdXJtQPFtokvtU42EKJBCPhja3kjOaf4q3bV1B0YoLU1uN-BEXjMOrOZyeANBk2ecYGaSDnhwDrfo27VxgKwjPXsKdMw6TCtcdA5n3_uJHwskk-_hWpiFEJ-Q44/s1600/Spanking+Oars+by+madebypapa.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Keep it Simple: Spanking Implements</i></b></td></tr>
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<b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Spanking Tools</span></b></div>
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<span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Always remember that the
kitchen is a valuable source for Spanking implements when you need something
quickly.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Wait Until Your Daddy
Gets Home</span></b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Making your partner wait
for punishment can often be more effective than the punishment itself.</span></div>
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<b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Spanking 'Pants</span></b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Always remember the
dress code your [Daddy] expects you to follow. Wear only the clothing he has
stipulated</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b>Discussions as Your Relationship Grows</b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">It’s important to have regular conversations about </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">your life together and make adjustments to the rules as your DD relationship evolves.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
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<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6k2zvRy8KuXQBwZDXRb46ft8dhN1JP5EibCVg80V2D62jF6nGTqRQe3vWXL8-nGBOqlgqd1YK_EDHiG_8uQUNJNocpSfLL4DmCH6z4bLqWK9fESpwB5AZ4Do9ndiCBAObarQ1UFZ3dZ4/s1600/pic.jpg" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6k2zvRy8KuXQBwZDXRb46ft8dhN1JP5EibCVg80V2D62jF6nGTqRQe3vWXL8-nGBOqlgqd1YK_EDHiG_8uQUNJNocpSfLL4DmCH6z4bLqWK9fESpwB5AZ4Do9ndiCBAObarQ1UFZ3dZ4/s1600/pic.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>DD is About Having Love &<br />Respect for Your Partner</i></b></td></tr>
</tbody></table><b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Domestic Discipline </span></b></div>
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<ul>
<li><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">A Domestic Discipline
relationship is not just about following Rules & Discipline. It is about
loving & having respect for your partner.</span></li>
<li><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">A Punishment Spanking
wipes the slate clean. It is time then to move on. Do not keep dwelling on the
matter.</span></li>
<li><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Domestic Discipline is
about growing together as a couple learning from each other. There is no wrong
or right way.</span></li></ul></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;"><b><a href="https://twitter.com/SirDomesticD/status/1671888271012495360" target="_blank">Rules</a></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span face=""arial" , sans-serif">It’s important to not only create rules but also take the time to explain why they are in place and the consequences that come with breaking them.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span face=""arial" , sans-serif"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span face=""arial" , sans-serif"><div class="MsoNormal" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><b><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">Rules, Respect, and Reality</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;">When starting a Domestic Discipline relationship do not start with lots of Rules, begin slowly with just a few Rules.</span></div></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span face=""arial" , sans-serif"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;"><b>Read more about his take
on mainstream </b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;"><b>(i.e., M/f DD) at: </b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<ul>
<li><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;"><a href="https://twitter.com/SirDomesticD">Twitter Account @SirDomesticD</a></span></li>
<li><span face=""arial" , sans-serif" style="font-size: 12pt;"><a href="http://domesticdisciplineonline.com/">Domestic Discipline Website</a></span></li></ul><div><br /></div><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><div><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2023/12/domestic-discipline-celebrations-week.html" target="_blank"><b>Monday:</b> Welcome and Introductions to DD Celebrations Week</a></div><div><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2023/12/act-your-age-book-review.html" target="_blank"><b>Tuesday: </b>A Book Review of "Act Your Age"</a></div><div><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2023/12/equality-in-discipline-based.html" target="_blank"><b>Wednesday:</b> What is "Equality" in a DD Relationship?</a></div><div><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2023/12/4-steps-to-better-domestic-discipline.html" target="_blank"><b>Thursday:</b> Know Your adult boy, A Worksheet and 4 Steps to a Better and Happier Domestic Discipline Life Together</a></div><div><a href="https://cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com/2023/12/daily-domestic-discipline-dictums-by.html" target="_blank"><b>Friday:</b> Daily Domestic Discipline Dictums</a></div></blockquote><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; 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Another in our Learning By Doing Series
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Betty's Helpful Spanking Guide</i></b></td></tr>
</tbody></table><div>Thanks to our Christian Family Discipline friends, including ol' Betty Chase at David. C. Cook Publishing Co. in Elgin, Ill. ⬅️(see her book to the left here), Cornertime Confidential has been able to adapt a worksheet for Daddys to help you you better "Know" your adult boys.</div><div>
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As we've mentioned in many posts through the years, using Christian Family Discipline as a guide for how you Discipline and, in particular, <i>how </i>you beat the bottoms of your adult boys—can be <i>truly effective</i>. Seems as if Christians like to have things <i>written down</i>—more or less codifying the administration of Discipline in a normal, chaotic home.<br />
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My friend Daddy Jonathan here in DC bought the book for me from which this chart below comes. He was a little less charitable, "Ah, jake, you're too nice. These books are just excuses to Christian parents so they can justify beating their own children."<br />
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I'm not so sure. But I'll take it from him, he grew up in the Christian South. I think these are just flawed adults with screwed up ideas on parenting. What they do probably doesn't work for all kids. <div>But as a boy who was Spanked when necessary, I think my Christian parents didn't do so as an excuse. They did it because it worked in our home.</div><div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b>Obey:</b> "<b><i><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">Something That Brought
The Rod <br />Last Week Should Bring The Rod This Week."</span></i></b><br />
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<i><b>"...it is vital for [Daddy] to develop consistency in the Discipline of Spanking...agree upon what issues [you] will Spank your [boys for...and remember], 'Something that was wrong yesterday is wrong today. Something that brought The Rod last week should bring The Rod this week. Consistency is perhaps the most important ingredient in proper Discipline.'" </b></i></blockquote>
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—<b>Roy Lessin</b>, author, <i>Spanking, A Loving Discipline (c. 2002)</i></blockquote>
Having said all that, I suppose if you were a Daddy who was finally ready to forego the current conventional wisdom that reasoning with a 7-year-old works—and you were sure that next time trouble starts, a Spanking will be administered—you might want a book with some imprimatur, say the bible, or something equally inviolable, to back you up. All that to say, yes, I'm glad I'm not a parent in today's world.<br />
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Since we are all adult boys and Daddys here, I've adapted the lesson's Betty and Roy have provided in their Spanking pamphlets, and we're thrilled to deliver to you below what we hope will be a simple, helpful worksheet on which to build a plan for you and your boys.<br />
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I've filled in some of the content, to give you a better sense of how to use this worksheet. Since you are both adults, I think that it's not such a bad idea to post this in the house, on the fridge perhaps, on the bedroom wall, in The Corner were you send your boy, or maybe even on a bathroom mirror.<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Know Your adult boy<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b>Positive behaviors, tendencies,
characteristics, talents, or abilities<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b>Specific plan to encourage and
develop each positive behavior.<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<span><span style="font-family: arial;">Likes to please Daddy</span><span style="font-family: Freestyle Script; font-size: x-large;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;"><span>—</span><span>Use positive Discipline
to keep your boy on track, including rewards for not requiring Corporal
Punishment and nonSpankingPunishments during the week.</span><br />
<span>—When problem behaviors arise, ask your boy to explain what Discipline he thinks should be applied. You don't need to do what he says, you need to just get him thinking.</span></span></div>
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<span><span style="font-family: arial;">Sociable—enjoys being
with friends</span><span style="font-family: "Freestyle Script"; font-size: large;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;">—Allow friends to stay
overnight.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span><span style="font-family: arial;">—Welcome his friends,
and let them know they are entering a Domestic Discipline household, so they know that their behavior is expected to be good when playing with your boy(s).</span><span style="font-family: Freestyle Script;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b>Negative behaviors, tendencies,
or characteristics<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b>Specific plan for discouraging
growth of your boy’s negative tendencies<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<span><span style="font-family: arial;">Takes too long to get
out of bed.</span><span style="font-family: Freestyle Script; font-size: x-large;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;">—Wake him up earlier.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;">—Have his clothes set
out the night before.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;">—Require he wear what is
laid out, so the morning does not become an exercise in foot-dragging.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span><span style="font-family: arial;">—Leave The Hairbrush out
to both make it easy for him to brush his hair, but also to remind him that failing
to work with this program can result in an Old Fashioned Hairbrush Spanking.</span><span style="font-family: "Freestyle Script"; font-size: large;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span><span style="font-family: arial;">Doesn’t pull his weight
around the house</span><span style="font-family: Freestyle Script; font-size: x-large;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;"><span>—Develop a chores list
and expected timeline <o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span>—Employ active Disciplinary techniques, for example, if your boy leaves dirty underpants out, make him wear them for the day. And then require he come immediately home from work to do laundry instead of going out.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;">—Alternatively, have a
calendar on the ‘fridge that specifies when and what is to be done.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;"><span>—Write down a set of “House
Rules” and the consequences for breaking each of them. Post them on the fridge or other key location.</span><br />
<span>—Leave a Spanking Stick out in the open as a "Behinder Reminder" for your boy to pull his weight.</span></span></div>
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<b>Step 1.</b> </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">Begin with this worksheet blank, and then fill
in this chart above with what you and your boy need to work on. Keep an eye on
how to flesh out your specific plan for encouraging the development of positive
behaviors in your boy. Also, remember the many positive Disciplinary tools you
have for discouraging negative behaviors.</div>
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effect. As you apply the consequences, you will be training your boy according to his own
particular positive and negative behaviors.</div>
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plan in effect with your boy, you might consider adding a column which you keep
dated, that lists how you administered consequences or gave encouragement. If
you find the ways you gave encouragement were not significant enough, adjust your
approach. If you find the ways you discouraged the growth of negative
tendencies were ineffective, adjust your approach there too.<br />
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</div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5315173549173972953.post-35543919833154257832023-12-12T23:00:00.046-08:002023-12-12T23:00:00.191-08:00Equality in a Discipline-based Relationship<p><i>As Domestic Discipline Celebrations Week Kicks off we wanted to share with you a simple primer on an effective approach to making a Discipline-centered relationship work. This post is a reprint from the first year and a half of my DD relationship with my Daddy. While things have changed a lot since then, this post should give you a sense of how different "equality" looks in a DD relationship and how positive it can be.</i></p><h2 style="text-align: left;"><b><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Keeping Your Relationship Equal While Maintaining DD</span></b></h2><h2 style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: left;"><b></b></h2><h3 style="text-align: left;"><b><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><i>A Complex Mix</i></span></b></h3><div><b><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><i>Another in our Learning By Doing Series</i></span></b></div><div><b><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><i><br /></i></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: left;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYDXELwB8TZ60K-Q6CGp7ta83KVZFpd85Gh1BCorbsFsBZj6Fy-2hZkbxJHP-CbjFijThcp-fUPUZE_I4HuoO7cQ-a-SL9DsAw3rRfccAgWvzNFiJeTRwntjq4q71AHKNoFtftzNZo7lA/s1600/kissing+2.gif" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYDXELwB8TZ60K-Q6CGp7ta83KVZFpd85Gh1BCorbsFsBZj6Fy-2hZkbxJHP-CbjFijThcp-fUPUZE_I4HuoO7cQ-a-SL9DsAw3rRfccAgWvzNFiJeTRwntjq4q71AHKNoFtftzNZo7lA/s1600/kissing+2.gif" /></a></span><span style="font-family: "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">As you can imagine, to keep a Domestic Discipline
relationship "more equal" we need to find that "Aristotelian
balance" whereby we have a little of everything:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: left;"><o:p></o:p></div>
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romantic time,</span><o:p></o:p></li>
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discipline time,</span><o:p></o:p></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Just enough "boy"
time, and</span><o:p></o:p></li>
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to keep the relationship real and fluid and genuine</span><o:p></o:p></li>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Nothing turns my Daddy off more than uniforms and
uniformity. Heck, he's a former military man, and he hates when we get into a
"routine"! <i>Go figure</i>. Without the spontaneity and healthy mix of the
above, Daddy loses interest. And truth be told, I’d probably lose interest too.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Sure, he can "do" uniformity really well—he was
once "soldier of the year" at his base. But Daddy spends his civilian
days focusing on uniformity in his civil job now that he's older. The last
thing he wants to do is to abide by uniformity when he has his shoes off and
his Punisher t-shirt on, and we’re watching, "Two Broke Girls." He
wants to cut loose.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Maybe not surprisingly, when it comes to family Discipline, that desire to be unbound by uniformity means that he doesn’t want
to have to stick to a Punishment schedule or spend all his time and attention
measuring the behavior of his unruly boy. But this causes some challenges when
it comes to warming my fanny, administering Discipline generally, and taking
care of his Dom role within our DD relationship. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">For a while, I was getting
away with things even I knew I shouldn’t have, and that left both of us feeling
unhappy. So we developed House Rules that helped us out at the most surprising moments. Just when you think you're
hitting a DD wall, out come Rules we set down months prior, so Daddy can stop
actions he doesn't like, and whip my bottom for breaking our Rules.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Sounds draconian as I write this now, I realize. But </span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">when one partner has a much stronger personality
than the other, the beta personality, even if he's the top, may disengage out
of emotional necessity.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">That’s a big part of
how my previous relationship ended. Although I was the sub, I was a much
louder, more obviously dominant person than my partner. Getting steamrolled all
the time drove him away.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">So, when my current
Daddy and I met, I knew things had to be different. </span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">As the dominant personality in the relationship,
I knew I would have to speak up, be the one who addressed problems head-on as
they arose, but that I needed him to have that Discipline option as a way to
help equalize the fact that, verbally at least, I was the dominant partner.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Now, having said that,
Daddy is the dominant partner in very important other ways. And by equipping
him with The Switch, we avoided turning this into a lop-sided mess. He can be
in charge without having to prove or justify himself, or talk over me. The
Switch gives him room to allow both our normal behaviors to express themselves,
and there is no need to change who we are. But now, after an unacceptable
behavior or attitude or other broken Rule, he can rectify it without having to
talk it out—which is the thing he hates doing in the first place. Many men do
not really love to have long knock-down, drag-out verbal fights. It will
surprise few readers that The Switch has solved this predicament for us.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Respect can now be <i>enforced </i>with
The Switch. He’s already earned my respect over the many years we've been
partners. I just have a tendency not to follow those Rules of Respect and Politeness, etc., in my day-to-day existence. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">As hard as it will be for my
readers to believe, I do not wanna get a Spanking. At heart, I’m just a very
unruly, undisciplined, disobedient little 8- to 12-year-old boy who doesn’t
like obeying even the most basic Rules of politeness after initially getting to
know people. I get sarcastic almost immediately. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">I have a very fast (not always
smart, just fast) mind which is both a blessing and a curse. But in a
relationship, that’s not helpful. And without consequences—including,
specifically, Discipline—that tough personality quirk can really wreck a
relationship. And as you readers probably already know, I’m on a mission from
god to have a full time relationship, come hell or high water!</span><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'times new roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;">Having been in an
"equal" relationship for 15 years from the middle of my college
years, I know the pitfalls that my personality can wreck on a more gentle
personality. And, as luck would have it, and maybe not surprisingly, I have
ended up in a second relationship with yet another gentle giant!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">This is great on the one
hand, and then on the other, I just stomp all over him unless we have ground Rules, reprimands, expectations of obedience, and when necessary, Corporal Punishment. </span><span style="font-family: "times new roman", serif; font-size: 12pt;">Now with The Switch (or The Hairbrush, The Stick, or The Paddle),
and the other important Discipline Tools we have throughout the house, and with
non-Spanking Tools (i.e., Cornertime, writing lines, mouthsoaping) throughout
our relationship, Daddy has what he needs to keep our relationship together as
“the Dom.”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">There’s no need for
Daddy to discuss with me as you would in a regular vanilla relationship: "Uh, I feel like you treated me badly." </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">We
now have very clear lines around what constitutes broken House Rules, and what
Daddy's boy is and is not allowed to do, say, and act like.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">After the first year and a half of our relationship, it was just a matter of getting him to use them more frequently as the need arises,
and not blow things off that are bothering him. He needs to <i>want</i> to administer Discipline, even when he’s not in the mood to.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Like a real Dad,
sometimes he just doesn’t want to be bothered with his boy’s shenanigans. But
just as in a real Daddy/boy relationship, it’s pivotal to address misbehavior
in the moment as much as possible. Only time will tell how he gets comfortable
in his still fairly new role as not just “the Dom” in our relationship, but now
“the Daddy” in our relationship!</span><h3 style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia, utopia, "palatino linotype", palatino, serif; font-weight: bolder; line-height: 19.6px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: blue; font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;"><span style="background-color: #f9f9f9;">
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5315173549173972953.post-53625159648211643912023-12-11T23:00:00.027-08:002023-12-11T23:00:00.138-08:00Act Your Age: A Book Review<h2 style="text-align: left;">Domestic Discipline Celebrations Week: Day 2, a Book Review</h2><h2 style="text-align: left;"><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgvrWO95_x9rn-8yO4-CgBL3lnfR0vkulD9y0rUBgFJHRGvIGY6WCH5ULSyLRC6cji5ETyc0ShHp9V6Ig2NoYLCt9nxxK3lZT0yzIyFgLb332Kxh3tJwA9HgzyND4VjetBrnxK8RqBajE/s1600/356b17a5-7f60-4200-897e-e6edde999fa4.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1006" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgvrWO95_x9rn-8yO4-CgBL3lnfR0vkulD9y0rUBgFJHRGvIGY6WCH5ULSyLRC6cji5ETyc0ShHp9V6Ig2NoYLCt9nxxK3lZT0yzIyFgLb332Kxh3tJwA9HgzyND4VjetBrnxK8RqBajE/s400/356b17a5-7f60-4200-897e-e6edde999fa4.jpg" width="251" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif" style="font-size: small; text-align: left;">Download the kindle app to your desktop or phone or tablet,</span><br style="font-size: small; text-align: left;" /><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif" style="font-size: small; text-align: left;">and then <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MWJMV68/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1">go into your Amazon account and purchase! For just $.99</a></span></td></tr></tbody></table></h2>
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A little while ago, I asked Daddy to download to our <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MWJMV68/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1">Amazon Prime account Bryan James' book "Act Your Age."</a> It's a glowing account of an immature boy set straight by a good man who administers a serious "systemized" approach to making his charge a better boy.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">In Chapter 1, we meet
our soon-to-be humbled narrator, Shane, who lives with his parents and sees a single
man move in next door one day. One of my favorite parts about the set up here
was the way he described our narrator's parents:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px;"><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><i><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">"My father was a
therapist with his own problems and my mother, well my mother worked in
pharmaceuticals."</span></i></div></blockquote>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">This lost boy (he’s
20) is looking for order in his life. He clearly spends far too much time
with a stomach full of sperm he seems to find just about everywhere he goes. He's using a cane because of a questionable car accident before the action of the novel begins. And so it is that I began thinking this is NOT a novel for me. But as the
chapters rolled by, there is the build-up of trying to figure out if this is
going to be a sexual/romance novel or if it’s going to turn into a M/m “50
Shades of Grey,” and then…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">He lands in Mr.
Grant’s house drunk as a skunk and when he comes to, Mr. Grant says, “No, I’m
not interesting in you because I want you to be a better person.” Clearly
realizing he’s really not all that good of a person, our narrators asks how
can he become that better person for Mr. Grant?<br />
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Mr. Grant explains, </span></div><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px;"><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><i><br /></i></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><i>“You need discipline…I think you need to be Spanked…not
just once but in a systemized way…if you break The Rules or you aren’t living
up to what we agree then you’ll get Spanked. Think about it.”</i></span></div></blockquote>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">By Chapter 7, I
noticed that Mr. Grant turned into just “Grant.” (author's Freudian slip? Did
Bryan James just accidentally tell us his actual dream Daddy's name?), and
Grant is wielding The Hairbrush across a bouncing and misbehaving bottom that
is more than just begging for a Spanking. This story seems to be asking:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Punishment and turn this random pairing into something more solid? <o:p></o:p></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">It’s a book that seeks to answer the questions: <o:p></o:p></span></li>
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become a better person? and <o:p></o:p></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">What does a Man Who Spanks have to do to make a
house a home?<o:p></o:p></span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">I get the sense that
by the end of this story, our red bottomed Shane will find out and be super
happy about the results that The Hairbrush brings between two consenting adults.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">What I liked most about Bryan James' work was his ability to carry me through each chapter. On my daily ride to work, it's a real page turner on the train. I was engaged, hooked even, interested, and felt like I was reading a real book, not just a "Spank-pornography" title. On the downside for me, there were certainly too many touches for my liking of "50 Shades of Grey" in this: weak (literally crippled by a car accident) boy with no direction in life meets rich/upper-middle-class man that has hairy chest and smells of cologne. This problem did make me think that Bryan James might actually be a woman, because so many women write gay male Spanking-centered fiction, so it's important to suspend your disbelief a bit to get beyond some of the language I found not so likely.<br /><br />Be that as it may, the dialogue is crisp and believable. The sections that involved Spanking specifically manage to avoid the, as I already mentioned, "Spank-porn" style with no ridiculous "sound" words like I've seen elsewhere like "The paddle came down on my bare heinie crack* crack* CRACK!" Thankfully, this author knows what he's writing and writes these sequences well. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">For me, however, the attraction to and need for Corporal Punishment (CP), however, stems from a deep seated interest not just a random surprise in life that is brought to you by a random stranger as we see in the course of this novel. Few if any men engage in CP out of the blue. It's something they've thought about for years, even if they had no idea they could operationalise it in their lives. Once in motion, CP can be incredibly compelling part of a relationship and change that relationship from a vanilla romance to a red-bottomed, passionate power exchange. Because of that, the premise of this book, that this disoriented, drunk boy-next-store meets "big strong man" archetype does ring false for me. But as it turns out, I didn't care. It was a page turner and I was compelled to finish it without the threat of a Spanking!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">I attribute that to, thankfully the writing, in spite of various typos and missing words. James' book works on many other levels and for that reason alone, I recommend you plopping down your $ .99 on Amazon and get it on your phone. I'd highly recommend the affordable purchase on <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MWJMV68/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1">Amazon for your Kindle app.</a> Spread the word, get folks buying this book. It's a pleasure to read. </span><br />
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<i><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">Act Your Age is a fantasy written from the Adult Boy’s perspective,</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">a young man without ambition, at least not ambition to be normal, who</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">meets a father figure, a Daddy, who is supportive and wants the young</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">man to succeed and uses corporal punishment, as well as other</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">punishments, as a means for that emotional and physical support and</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">connection.</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">Between Act Your Age and the Brat I had some doubts about my fantasy</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">as I began to read the criticism of 50 Shades of Grey and that’s why</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">the second book is significantly different and I feel inferior to the</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">first, though still entertaining. In the second book is the</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">introduction of Ben (into ABDL) and the exploration of the</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">‘undisciplined boy’, two characters I like very much. I’ve had some</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">attempts at a third book in the series, writing this gives me a</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">glimmer of thoughts for one but I’m not sure.</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">Right now I’m actually working on a perspective reversal kind of story</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">called Brat in the Frat where a young man in college starts dating a</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">frat brother and they begin to engage in not just different scenarios</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">but possibly a committed relationship of kinky exploration. I’ve</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">written a third chapter that I’ve posted to my blog and have several</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">ideas for more possibly developing it into a novella.</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">In short I’m an Adult Boy in need of a spanking from a firm hand and a</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">tender heart.</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">Best wishes,</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , "clean" , sans-serif">Bryan</span></i><br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5315173549173972953.post-50965945296831099932023-12-10T23:00:00.117-08:002023-12-10T23:00:00.216-08:00Domestic Discipline Celebrations Week at Cornertime Confidential 2023<h2 style="text-align: left;">Learn to Love Honoring and Obeying</h2><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvc3HTsthhyakNfbelkSfcmmTGzM5hU9zqUq7fkeRpMz2y2IHLi8CuE37CRhETCXFzKTtDCrpgfTu8atNzOrV8TmwGB6fO65bZ3tlTY7NWLBsr0A_pqvIw07gVc_55bfm6CG1LMpwyG9dwcha0-UzVb70B6gpzvoTawLjFirAp4h0G3TVnaPKdl_eC344/s667/I%20Will%20Obey%20My%20Daddy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="667" data-original-width="500" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvc3HTsthhyakNfbelkSfcmmTGzM5hU9zqUq7fkeRpMz2y2IHLi8CuE37CRhETCXFzKTtDCrpgfTu8atNzOrV8TmwGB6fO65bZ3tlTY7NWLBsr0A_pqvIw07gVc_55bfm6CG1LMpwyG9dwcha0-UzVb70B6gpzvoTawLjFirAp4h0G3TVnaPKdl_eC344/w300-h400/I%20Will%20Obey%20My%20Daddy.jpg" width="300" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><b><i>"Obey": Sounds Mean or Lousy. But it can be<br />Great With the </i>Right <i>Man Who Spanks</i></b></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><div><br /></div><div>Every year since I began a relationship with Daddy in a Domestic Discipline relationship (since ~2016, really), Cornertime Confidential begins a week long daily post with advice, experiences, recommendations, and more. This week we have a slew of content for those questioning whether they can envision a DD relationship for themselves and their partners.</div><div><br /></div><div>One of the key things I think a lot of men wonder is how can DD work with two adult males, given there is no sense in our world of one partner being the "weaker" one or the "stronger" one, necessarily. Physical realities aside, how do two males form a DD relationship that can stand the test of time. <br /><br />It's tricky, and I'm not expert (well, I'm experienced, just not an expert here!), however, I do know how to look to those who are more versed than me to help make the prospect of "obeying" your partner appealing and exciting, rather than mean or sad or lousy sounding. We start from a place of wanted this feeling in the first place, but we question, "Can we really sustain an interest, you know, like on Tuesday night after work at 8pm?" But if we lean into the fun, the depth of the experience, and the joy in exploring and living a DD lifestyle, we can gain insight into ways that make relationships like this work for us too.</div><div><br /></div><div>Domestic Discipline and the obedience, respect, love, and honor that comes from it can be great with the right Man Who Spanks or boy who is taken in hand. All of the elements that you feel are the boy's role (i.e., obedience, respect, honoring and loving Daddy) can also be Daddy's too. The only difference is these elements take different forms if you are Daddy or boy. What may seem mean or lousy or sad about "obey" is turned on its head in a fluid, functioning DD relationship. Obedience becomes one element, one part of the glue that keeps a DD relationship together. So it goes from a "oh man, sheesh" to a "must have."</div><div><br /></div><div>Most of us have grown up in a society where unfettered adulthood is elevated and even glorified in music, movies, and online. But how many of us have been in relationships with another where that person is off on their own jam, and cannot find the time to make this jam work? </div><div><br /></div><div>In a DD relationship, the intentionality of forming and shaping the experience together is so thoroughly adult that the relative "inequality" of the relationship becomes a natural fit for adults who see value in connecting on a deeper level and reimagining their unfettered journey alone. Find out how having a DD relationship together can change your life. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>While we cannot cover everything in these 5 little days, here's what your week holds as 2023 comes to a close:</b></div><div><br /></div><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><div><b>Tomorrow</b> we'll share a book review about writer Bryan James's "Act Your Age" an Amazon e-book that tells a tale many of you will love. So well done.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Wednesday</b> we'll take a look a what "equality" is in a DD relationship. How can two adult males form a system of inequality that is fair and "equitable!" </div><div><br /></div><div><b>Thursday</b> let's step back and take a practical approach to positive and negative reinforcements for behaviour that helps the relationship and that does NOT help the relationship. In Thursday's post we have a work sheet for you, and 4 easy steps to making your Domestic Discipline relationship a happy and healthy one.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Friday </b>we'll wrap with a look at Daily Domestic Discipline Dictums you can retrofit to work in your DD home: post a daily message that helps reinforce the DD lifestyle that you want to lead day-in, day-out.</div></blockquote><div><br /></div><div>While this week will not be comprehensive, Cornertime Confidential has a trove of Domestic Discipline content. Throughout the last 7 years, we've provided in-depth analysis of many critical topics including: </div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Emotions and Love: Seeing DD in its Entirety</li><li>Sexual Desire: oral, anal, and beyond </li><li>Maintenance Spanking </li><li>NonSpanking Punishments </li><li>Punishment Spankings </li><li>Cornertime</li><li>Clothing for Daddy and boy</li><li>Design Planning for the DD Homes <i>and much much more.</i></li></ul></div><div>If you have questions or concerns, please don't hesitate to reach out and ask. Our contact info is in the link below. If we don't know, we know folks who do. 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font-size: 13px; text-align: center;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1RuzOz1kpBCcXufwM4BXmwe4BKxvcjubvyKi5_ckrd-80kmZpVjsejK1eYQWehado-mnqBONqbz17aGBRspJXixlxMI2CWdOFDfX1vlppNDBN27ESttGHv_wR0-cN-E71A-idOIIVsEhMPOK2xJ3i613yqfUwmwP3O9iy-TazKDaN6t3tjznFXiuzO8I/s12000/Page%20465.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><br /><br /></a></span></div><span face="Arial, sans-serif"><br /><b><i>This weekend we want to highlight the only Christmas present you need to buy the Spanking Community loved ones in your life. </i></b></span><b style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><i> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lads-Strict-World-Adult-Spanking/dp/B0CHDKGLMN" target="_blank">Buy it here now!</a></i></b><div><span face="Arial, sans-serif"><b><i><br /></i></b></span><div><span face="Arial, sans-serif">Below, Cornertime Confidential brings you an extensive interview with </span><span face="Arial, sans-serif">Justin and Trevor, the authors of the most important book that's landing on Amazon shelves. Bad Lads and Strict Sirs is a love letter to the Spanking Community and a critical contribution to the canon of written literature about our niche in this exciting world. </span><p></p><p><span face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #1d2228;">The authors, Justin and Trevor, </span><span face="Arial, sans-serif">wanted to emphasize at the top that they interviewed many members of the Spanking Community beyond those who are specifically named as experts in the list at the bottom of this blogpost* (including yours truly!) These citizens in our community helped the authors learn about personal perspectives on so many issues, including and beyond those noted in the list covered by our experts. </span></p></div></div><blockquote style="border: none; margin: 0px 0px 0px 40px; padding: 0px;"><div><div><p style="text-align: left;"><i>"We also featured some of these in the 'Individual Narratives' section (pp. 76-88), to help illustrate the various journeys that those in the community have taken. It is the voices from the community that really 'make' this book, and that’s a big part of why we wrote it -- to be able to reflect their ideas, from which we learned so much." </i></p></div></div></blockquote><div><div><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><div style="text-align: center;">______________________________________</div></div><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><b><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><br /></span></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnmorpoRMhRsqmaDrt2AfAXUQ_UfNBDFKRkh6mSKQ2iiupIiWvuD0JeA-MnFy_ZcCiJHsQRJNBwRdJLilaVy1suv1RmSVDsveM3rTA9al0Vo5PeCH0_kiWseiwwFxmBjTXGE7V731mK4nN1zp8DHPgqtTHyR6yg-JqIlwcfw-v8yTlsd9ynqHUpKhZc94/s1398/Book%20Cover.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1398" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnmorpoRMhRsqmaDrt2AfAXUQ_UfNBDFKRkh6mSKQ2iiupIiWvuD0JeA-MnFy_ZcCiJHsQRJNBwRdJLilaVy1suv1RmSVDsveM3rTA9al0Vo5PeCH0_kiWseiwwFxmBjTXGE7V731mK4nN1zp8DHPgqtTHyR6yg-JqIlwcfw-v8yTlsd9ynqHUpKhZc94/s320/Book%20Cover.png" width="247" /></a></div><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Thank
you so much for sitting down with Cornertime Confidential for an interview
about your new, unique contribution to our community. <o:p></o:p></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; outline: none;"><b>Justin and Trevor:</b> Thanks for having us!</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; outline: none;"><b>jake:</b> What drove
you to write this book?</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; outline: none;"><b>Justin and Trevor:</b> We
wanted to write a book about the world of adult male spanking and all that
comprises it. We knew we'd supplement it with stories from the community,
provide historical perspectives, include sections on how we engage with one
another (e.g., events, videos, stories, artwork, hookups, online engagement,
and more), and explore how we think about the spanking experience (e.g., with
discussions of implements, sub and Dom perspectives, roleplay, and more). In
our process, we got a good, comprehensive overview that we truly believe
reflects and represents who we are. </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; outline: none;">And we really tried to capture as many perspectives
and stories as we could.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; outline: none;"><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Well, there's a
lot of organization here, which I think is helpful because the sheer volume of
your content is frigging enormous! I mean this is just a <i>huge</i> amount of
information.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">That was us. We
learned from each other. The very first section that we wrote was actually the
hanky code.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Really? Why is
that? Is that something that's been a part of your lives?</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Not mine. No.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Yeah, not mine
either. I was surprised to see that in here. That seems like a leather thing.
Is the content in this book all your original work? </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Well, that’s part
of the history. The reason that the
hanky code was the first thing we wrote was because it was an easy lift to write, and we
wanted to see how it would feel to write that. We thought it was historically
important.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I visited the
Leather Archives in Chicago, and they have some good content there that kind of
helped move us forward. The content is 100% ours based on
research we did as well as a survey.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">There was nothing that our publisher pushed us to write or said we had to include. But,
no, all of the content was totally, totally ours.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake<o:p></o:p></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Why did you
choose the Leather Archives to inform your book and what did you value about the
leather movement before you wrote the book that made you think to even go
there? </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Part of what we
thought was we need to look at history, and I do
archival work for other projects in my non-kink life. I was
like, well, “I wonder if there's an archive that would have anything.” I just
started Googling “sexuality archives,” and there's a collection in New York
and California. I ran across the Leather Archives and Museum or L.A.
and M. I had no contact with the folks there, no idea even what it was. Quite
frankly, that was the first exposure I had to it. And then I was able to meet.
I was introduced via other contacts to the archivist of the L.A. and M.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">And in speaking
with the folks there, it became clear that they had interesting content. They
are not truly just a leather institution, but they are an all-kink institution.
And leather is in their name but that's not their mission. Their mission is
much broader, and so that turned into finding myself going to Chicago to spend
the day looking through their collection, which is absolutely amazing.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Like is it a shop? Is it a museum? Is it exhibits in a storefront? What exactly is
it?</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">It's actually
an old synagogue that they had purchased, a large building, and yeah,
a big section of it is a museum, a public museum. The archive is an archival
collection, so it's not on public display. I had to meet with the archivist and
explain what we were looking for. Then she pulled out what was relevant, and then
I went through it. That's what also led Trevor and I to co-found the male Spanking
collection within the L.A. and M., which is a new collection that we're
curating for them. Up to that point, they didn’t have much, so they've been
very welcoming about documenting the history.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">You guys, one
of the things your publisher Vince told me was that most of his authors think, “Why
me?” What makes me qualified to write this book. He himself is the author of
the Leatherboy Handbook and he had to think about “the why” before committing
to writing this book on this topic. I'm not an expert, am? I don't know what
the hell an expert is in this area!</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Trevor and I,
well we're pretty good friends, and we were talking on the phone one day and we were saying to each other, “You know, it's a shame there's not a book about
the community.”</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">We wanted a
book about the history: to talk about technique, the studios, the artwork, and
so forth, and we kind of said, “Well somebody should write that.” And
then we were all like wait a minute: We could write that! Like what you relayed
about Vince, we recognized a need. We were both very interested in doing it.
And the timing was right, and we had the ability to do so. We felt that we had
the skillset to do it.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I don't
pretend to know everything about this kink. I wouldn't want anyone to look at me and say, you know, “You're the be-all and end-all, and you know everything
about this, because I don't.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">We had
the survey, and we had the interviews that we did. We were really able to approach
this not as quote unquote experts.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Oh yes, let’s
come back to the survey, yes, but first, Trevor, can you share your
perspective?</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor <o:p></o:p></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">So for me, I
mean, I think it is similar for me. When I was working with
my therapist, he recommended a book to me called <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Outsiders-Understanding-Sexualities-Communities/dp/1442217359">Sexual
Outsiders</a>. It’s about individuals in BDSM and how sometimes they feel
marginalized. It's a little bit different for them and their identity, but there
was just a little bit of impact play mentioned. Just reading about other people's
perspectives. It made me feel a little more validated, and I felt better. </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">For
me one of the big drivers in doing this book and spending the time and speaking
with the community is I wanted somebody to write something that a enabled a
reader to pick it up and feel good about themselves and help them with their
identity.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I really wanted
folks to just feel better and learn more about the kink that they were
interested in. We tried to make it as comprehensive as we could and to
try to make sure that anybody who is interested in that kink could open the
book up and find something that they could relate with.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Can you
actually share a couple of examples of the certain subtopics that you think
would fit in that?</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor<o:p></o:p></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">We built a
survey which we shared with the community at every chance we got. We found
individuals who liked role-play and domestic was the most frequent subtopic cited
was the “domestic” scene. So we tried to put a lot in there to help people
guide through that.</p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;">
</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">You could write
a whole book on just caning. You could write also on the overlap of kinks and
how leather kind of overlaps into it some
people’s experiences. Or puppy play, for example, but we also wanted to make
sure that we didn't dive into things that we didn't fully understand. Or,
frankly, have the time to really
investigate. We really stuck with things that we could get from the community survey
we did. And we would interview people and then include their voice as much as
possible. <o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">But for me, a
lot, a lot of the drive was to create something that validated people and made
them feel better about themselves. And that is a lot of the input that we have
gotten from people. That's what does it for me. Even when we did the Spanking
Community flag, somebody on Twitter had commented when the flag was reposted,
and they said, “Oh my god, I didn't know there was a flag for me!”</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9BCj31mcFeLHviecB_oul2w3pgasamDtUvUYRs0xI53SenfUG8aZoNv_e1zGF_qshXOU_2O6rXl_2WOmOkLwM6V1LBu7aVpuwRBUEOqxcpKPi0M4gJtZ1Laqdqor-eu2YtsR1RKCawp3ku5mTfnPjFZP1SEeJ1ab3gn2UdVtrxm0OXmlCzq9FkOUpvlA/s856/There's%20a%20flag%20for%20us.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="587" data-original-width="856" height="438" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9BCj31mcFeLHviecB_oul2w3pgasamDtUvUYRs0xI53SenfUG8aZoNv_e1zGF_qshXOU_2O6rXl_2WOmOkLwM6V1LBu7aVpuwRBUEOqxcpKPi0M4gJtZ1Laqdqor-eu2YtsR1RKCawp3ku5mTfnPjFZP1SEeJ1ab3gn2UdVtrxm0OXmlCzq9FkOUpvlA/w640-h438/There's%20a%20flag%20for%20us.png" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Jake </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Yeah, I saw
that post. I thought that was quite a remark I saw when I saw
that on Twitter.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin<o:p></o:p></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I'll just throw
out there as a follow up to that, if you know when you're posting on page 465
of the book, this is one of our favorite pages, both of us. Because it's almost the last page, because it kind of encapsulates what we hope to convey about
being a community and supporting each other.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">The interior of
the book is intended to be bright. It's not something that you open it up, and
you're like, “Oh, this is something I need to hide, like I need to go into a
corner of a bookstore and look at it and not have anybody see it.”</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I mean I would not say go to a coffee shop and open up…but you know…</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p></o:p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHmI3UBIHZVlAAqEVsNONrJ7oYPYLo5T4ohknQOMXc3F7H0K2qeWhXZQJxgO9wA1ubR_Z0VzCR34OaaITolT8uHEbuSOtDTW_eSpu0-nARvowjoFYld9PYEqht3qRVzd41ShyphenhyphenBnXFHsGPX6fnKj7mLDeNE_mcacfIPrelhyyCg2c_JZTkUj8CQcI9olK8/s153/male%20paddle%20logo.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="97" data-original-width="153" height="97" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHmI3UBIHZVlAAqEVsNONrJ7oYPYLo5T4ohknQOMXc3F7H0K2qeWhXZQJxgO9wA1ubR_Z0VzCR34OaaITolT8uHEbuSOtDTW_eSpu0-nARvowjoFYld9PYEqht3qRVzd41ShyphenhyphenBnXFHsGPX6fnKj7mLDeNE_mcacfIPrelhyyCg2c_JZTkUj8CQcI9olK8/s1600/male%20paddle%20logo.jpg" width="153" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I love that
idea! I want to go to that coffee shop. <i>Hello!</i></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Yes, exactly.
Exactly. It makes it feel like you're learning about a kink, and you're
learning about technique and skills. But it’s not like a dirty book. It's not
like it's “I have to hide this.” That was one of the reasons why the
layout is what it is.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">And there's humor
in it. There's drawings that are visually appealing. And of course, there’s also
interesting and erotic kink for readers, but that's not the purpose
of the book. it's not a 480-page book on pornography, it 480 pages about
our community. It is about a community that practices this kink and what the key elements of it are.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">There are
really 3 sections to the book: the history of our community, and the technique needed
for great Spanking and then the community expression of it.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">We also found
that there were things being lost in the community. There were people who'd
been really influential that were passing away and nobody was memorializing them.
We want readers to know these individuals and what they contributed.<o:p></o:p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1AynMqP2pJNvl24cW8xJX_qMjeos9OIcGUQPTDzslvY5s1FCk5BNLGr5MlNDCWD7tgK5rjjI01E9aStXl9qde807BFCvdoJamhCgrZJGJrmFZCL5RPV_jPY1DPmZ9LxuEcqclwZ3AJHs-Sfnlakwnj_fxHVVl47gtrkdku8ipaT27jYGCb-iduelIUTM/s12000/Page%20465.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="12000" data-original-width="9600" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1AynMqP2pJNvl24cW8xJX_qMjeos9OIcGUQPTDzslvY5s1FCk5BNLGr5MlNDCWD7tgK5rjjI01E9aStXl9qde807BFCvdoJamhCgrZJGJrmFZCL5RPV_jPY1DPmZ9LxuEcqclwZ3AJHs-Sfnlakwnj_fxHVVl47gtrkdku8ipaT27jYGCb-iduelIUTM/w512-h640/Page%20465.jpg" width="512" /></a></div><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">We included as much
as we could with history, and we met with individuals like the illustrator Copper
who had a lot of background.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">To make sure that we could preserve his story -- because he was saying he had all this original art and we hope it - and so much other work in the community - can be preserved. We need somewhere to keep and celebrate art from all of these sensational artists. That's part of why we have the archive, because guys like Copper have all this history, and for us, this was a passion. We want to capture this history now.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p> </o:p><b>jake</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I think you
capture this beautifully, and one of the things that strikes me as important is
you've also captured all these anecdotal stories through the survey you guys
put out there. Some of your respondents were more articulate than others, but throughout
the book. There is so many particularly important points that they bring to the
book. <o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p> </o:p><b>Trevor</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Yeah, it's not
about one person. The whole idea is that as a reader you’ll want to hear from different
people. What they think. We wanted to show why people joined the
Spanking Community. And we share what they feel. So the book is <i>literally</i>
really heavy. It’s not just what Justin and I think. It’s not just our experiences.
But this is the community at large and individuals that shared their stories to
create this book.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">We really tried
to cast a wide net. And we got feedback from people aged 18 to 89 years old. We
got people from many, many countries. <o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">When you
brought this final book to the community at Bad Ass Weekend in October 2023, what
was your experience like? What was the experience the first time you went out
to share this? How curious were people about it? </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">So. I didn't do
an audience count. So Badass Weekend was the first formal what I would call
unveiling of the book. It had been on Amazon for maybe a couple weeks before
that, but we had not really done anything. We were on the program to
unveil the book, and we did a presentation where we talked a little bit
about our journey, what was in the book, and we responded to questions and provided
answers. And then we did a book signing. We had about 50 folks who came. Maybe
60.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiveY_Vlbzrvm-zpYuLDfFzN7yY4v3-lNpsDBdOsFENsHxcGUOn8MA6n7YtUOxE92sj2bnlqRmr_xCmiKgOPzOL8mgYuXl6OW3TtPLHxDAGNZRvUbDa8vFDOA48dJdJmvhvN1HHuKCuRT5PLy-T8sLBV1WtVcW65LAjJlWvuTwBJQtCt1Vvs89dhfZKl7w/s625/Trevor.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="623" data-original-width="625" height="399" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiveY_Vlbzrvm-zpYuLDfFzN7yY4v3-lNpsDBdOsFENsHxcGUOn8MA6n7YtUOxE92sj2bnlqRmr_xCmiKgOPzOL8mgYuXl6OW3TtPLHxDAGNZRvUbDa8vFDOA48dJdJmvhvN1HHuKCuRT5PLy-T8sLBV1WtVcW65LAjJlWvuTwBJQtCt1Vvs89dhfZKl7w/w400-h399/Trevor.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">That's amazing.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I want to give
just a real shout out of appreciation to the organizers of Bad Ass Weekend,
because last year, we actually unveiled the idea for the project at Bad Ass
Weekend and invited people to start completing the survey. We wanted to come
full circle this year, and say, “Last year we said this was happening and now
we have the final product!”</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">We're both very
appreciative of the Bad Ass Weekend organizers for helping us to realize our
vision and to make it happen. That is something very special for us.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">And, you know,
in terms of the more subjective part of that question. Periodically and I know
we both feel this periodically I just feel like Oh my god, I
wrote a book about the Spanking kink in the Spanking Community and wow! What
has been really impactful to me are the people who have seen the book and for
whom it has given them some meaning. It’s given our readers some sense that this
is something we can talk about something we can be more open about. Feeling
recognized, feeling seen matters for the people in our community. The very idea
that people want to come up and talk about it and that they feel excited about.
Seeing the reactions from folks in the community is what has been powerful for
me, for us. This is what we had hoped to
do all along. It gives back. And I feel like we've given something back.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Oh yeah. I
would agree. I think your new book is gonna stand the test of time.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">It’s also a
book that values and respects the members of our community. The people
who shared with us are a huge piece of this. We conducted a wide array of interviews
with important players in the community. We respect them and went to them to
tell all of our collective stories.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">The reaction of
people when they were coming up to get the book, it was more of, well how can I
put it? They weren't interested as much
in the book as much as they were just prideful and happy that the book was
there. They wanted to look through it. They wanted to see what it was about.
They wanted to see the quotes, see the artwork. It just felt really, really
good.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">For me, it's
not, “Oh, I'm really excited. I wrote a book, and it's selling. And I'm an
author.” But I'm happy that we're able
to put it together and see people's comments about it and their
interest. They have shown to be really excited to read this part or
that part.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I wanted the
book to be a jumping off point for the community. I wanted to put something out
there for the community. It doesn't need to be “This
is the definitive book.”</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">There’s not a lot of critique in the book. We're very positive about all of the players in the community. Folks like Cliff Meador at Spanking Central and Rich at Sting and others. We’re almost thanking them for how they’ve contributed to the community. Providing a critique of their work was not the purpose of the book. We wouldn't want anybody to open up the book and feel bad, because that wasn't the purpose of it.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Yeah, I
personally appreciate that because my blog, my blog is so idiosyncratic that
the last thing I want you doing is saying, “Oh my gawd, this guy misspells
everything intentionally and what is his damage?”</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Because that's not
the purpose for writing the book. We were also sorry that we couldn't represent
everyone. We apologize for that upfront. It was a leap of faith that we wanted
something out there to preserve and to help people and make them feel better
about their experience.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I just remember
when I read <i>Sexual Outsiders</i> and the feeling that I got and the peace
that I got by having access to such an important document of experiences like I
was having. And I know I wasn't the only one.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I receive
communications from a lot of readers who have come here for over a decade. People
share how they think that a blog post or story has a real value for them personally.
Film festivals played a similar role.
For a long time, they gave people a place to come together as a community and
experience the first gay film they ever
saw, the first lesbian film they ever saw. Or the first transgender film. My
goodness the response we used to get when we showed a documentary about a
transgender person transforming, you know. That stuff blew people's minds. The
experience of it!</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">The emotional
piece is part of what I want to connect in this interview as much as possible
because you guys function for the book you guys function as aggregators and
archivists. Sure. Was there a piece of the book for you that rang true on a personal
level? Was there a section that you connected with more because it's your
thing. And if so, tell us about how it made you feel.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><o:p> </o:p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8fSmKV1_q2owacSLaJwcGJ6OEGKijSWO9Q-TDsqSSwYho6Jpu8ytYoGSRq81SS-d_loUWZiHTDPQEi39EoVdFTacghXrfQ9dpCOB4L7WNeX5teldnMBncjJ8iNvfrfq9KCaU-8XwY8rUo0OC7ffjfCmRZokkpMlIQu-4s154ZiKFV-PwYBdzLEPAdfQk/s620/Justin.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="613" data-original-width="620" height="395" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8fSmKV1_q2owacSLaJwcGJ6OEGKijSWO9Q-TDsqSSwYho6Jpu8ytYoGSRq81SS-d_loUWZiHTDPQEi39EoVdFTacghXrfQ9dpCOB4L7WNeX5teldnMBncjJ8iNvfrfq9KCaU-8XwY8rUo0OC7ffjfCmRZokkpMlIQu-4s154ZiKFV-PwYBdzLEPAdfQk/w400-h395/Justin.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I love history.
And so I really enjoyed writing the sections about that had historical
components such as the history of the kink in general or the history of the
various aspects of community.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">For a lot of
those sections, I did interviews with people who have taken on leadership roles
in the community, whether that's folks who have taken roles with events or with
media or with videos or whatever the case may be. There was kind of a cool
factor of saying, “Okay, I got to interview this person who I’ve followed for
years!” For me, that's really neat. But what really struck me out of that set
of interviews was in every case when we asked folks to tell us “Tell us why you
started this event or this website. Tell us why you started this video company,
or whatever. The answer that we got was
often a shade of the same theme: I wanted to put something out there for our community.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">I would just
sit there smiling and feeling so affirmed hearing a person who did something 30
or 40 years ago speak about how glad they were to be able to be someone that
helped people understand who they were and help people feel good about
themselves.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Now if I were
to identify one section of the book, it's actually not the history section. The
section about being “outsiders” of the mainstream. We have to find this journey
on our own, and I mean that journey for me felt like I was clawing at empty
space until I started finding touch points within the community.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Getting on what
I would say is metaphorical solid footing mattered to me. Getting on a path
that led me to a place where I could feel good mattered And that chapter about being sexual outsiders
is also a favorite section for me. </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Is this the
chat with Dr. Spratt? Is that what you're referring to? </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Justin </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">Yes. To me, a
lot of that interview is just moving. Again, it's about the journey. And the
whole thing is a metaphor for being on a journey. Those are the sections that
really moved me personally. </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>jake </b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">That’s great. I
agree. A big piece of this experience is that you aren’t just into impact play.
Instead, this life, this community is about being on a journey. And you guys
capture that vividly in your book.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><b>Trevor</b><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">For me, I think
it was the relationship piece, the community relationships and the mentorships,
because that's something that I started being interested in for as long as I
can remember. As soon as there was AOL, when you got those CDs in the mail, and
you got the free month of AOL access, I would jump in there and meet people. It's
always been the people connection of it to where I would role play with people.
And then after I became experienced, I would do a lot of the mentorship with
people. I still do that. Writing about what that relationship looks like when
you have an ongoing Mentor, or Dom, relationship really meant a lot to me.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">And so writing
about how you set that kind of relationship up, how you arrange weekly Maintenance
Spankings. Covering that meant a great deal to me. How does and what does that
mean for each person and how do you build that so it doesn't fail and can be
ongoing?</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">There's a
couple people that I know that I interviewed who have a Domestic Discipline relationship.
That is something that is important to me: how do you incorporate Discipline
for certain things? Do you still enjoy Spanking for fun? Or does Spanking
become something that within a DD relationship become only “not for fun”? What
does DD mean for you? And how do you keep that going?</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">That work resonated
more for me because that was something that I have done for a long time. The
emotional piece for me was conducting those interviews.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">
</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;">It always
struck me how open people were and how they would just pour their heart out to
us. I realized that in some instances,
that I was probably the only person they'd ever talk to about this.<o:p></o:p></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3-hak2PkcpC_E9KWj-4_10MK_NlmC7fkU3kOA7_tZurnCcFo8SPSgXzi_365D6yGtn5kLZM4wTwgqVeQk4-epBAX_CRE6tPHc5XMgFNWogz4A1bnt0DIEuKqGKG9PZ-zqzXEQbxTEV7Z6gW0PcWv9aHuAEqSMYIB2vynx_6CB5FDPuzudi4HYZij-ZYI/s400/adult-male-spanking-pride-flag-ceramic-ornaments_1698811935609.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="400" data-original-width="400" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3-hak2PkcpC_E9KWj-4_10MK_NlmC7fkU3kOA7_tZurnCcFo8SPSgXzi_365D6yGtn5kLZM4wTwgqVeQk4-epBAX_CRE6tPHc5XMgFNWogz4A1bnt0DIEuKqGKG9PZ-zqzXEQbxTEV7Z6gW0PcWv9aHuAEqSMYIB2vynx_6CB5FDPuzudi4HYZij-ZYI/s320/adult-male-spanking-pride-flag-ceramic-ornaments_1698811935609.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ee; font-style: italic; font-weight: 700; text-decoration-line: underline;">Get your Male Spanking Community Ornament for your tree today!<br /><br /></span></td></tr></tbody></table><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none; text-align: center;"><b><i>There's still so much more to come. Stay tuned. </i></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none; text-align: center;"><b><i>We'll keep updating this post until the entire interview can be shared in its entirety. <br /></i></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none; text-align: center;"><b><i><br /></i></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none; text-align: center;"><b><i>Thanks so much for joining Trevor, Justin, and jakes on this journey so far!</i></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;">If you'd like to be in touch with these authors, please reach out to them here: <a href="mailto:OurSpankingStory@gmail.com">OurSpankingStory@gmail.com</a></p><div style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><div style="text-align: center;">______________________________________</div></div><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><b><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><br /></span></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><b><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">*</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black;">Bad Lads and Strict Sirs Resources from Justin and Trevor</span></b></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"></span></p><ul style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline: none;"><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"></li></ul><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Below, we have indicated a list of folks who have had roles in events, the arts, or other aspects of community leadership who we interviewed (some of these were conversations and others were written exchanges). These are folks that we identified by their role or their name. </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #1d2228;">Many members of the community of spankos, who shared ideas on so many things, including implements, technique, advice, spanking relationships, mentoring, online play, art, videos, stories, events, and so much more (see below).</span></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #1d2228;"><br /></span></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">We do not want to suggest that the above list is more important than, or privileged above, any others - we truly value all persons who were willing to take the time and chat with us. </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><br /></span></p><ul style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px; outline: none;"><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Dr. Richard Sprott, co-author of </span><span style="background-color: transparent; font-style: italic; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Sexual Outsiders</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Historians of kink and sexuality </span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Peter Fiske, author of </span><span style="background-color: transparent; font-style: italic; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">My Leather Life: Early Years</span><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"> and </span><span style="background-color: transparent; font-style: italic; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">My Leather Life: Later Years</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Isadora Arkham, creator of spanking infographics</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Emma X, creator of the spanking jars</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Paul, Soaping Expert at SLC Life Coaching Center</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Jaden, Creator of Whappz (and Author of the Book’s Foreword)</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Scott, Host of Dudes Spankin’ Dudes</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">jakey, Author of Cornertime Confidential Blog </span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Hosts of events including Bad Ass Weekend, Camp Red Tails, Hot Seat Retreat, OTKLA, and local parties</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Copper, on Man’s Hand Films, magazines, artwork, and events</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Ian, Manager of MMSA, and David M. Katz, MMSA Reviewer</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Paulus the Woodgnome, Spanking Fiction Author</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Mark Powers, Founder of Control-T Studios</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Cliff, Founder of SpankingCentral</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Rich, Co-Founder of Sting Pictures</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Strictop and Phil, Founders of GaySpankArt.com</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">C of Sweden, Artist</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Franco, Artist</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Jonathan, Artist</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Yehuda Newman (The Flaming Nib), Artist</span></p></li><li dir="ltr" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; list-style-type: disc; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span style="background-color: transparent; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;">Dark Gardner, Artist</span></p></li></ul><div><br /></div><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; outline: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: black; outline: none; vertical-align: baseline;"></span></p><div><br /></div></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div style="box-sizing: inherit; color: #777777; font-family: lato, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><strong style="box-sizing: inherit;"><i style="box-sizing: inherit;"><h3 style="box-sizing: inherit; font-style: normal; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span face=""Helvetica Neue", HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.01); 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